Question Posted Wednesday September 9 2009, 5:07 pm
♥Ok so i found this website by my friend mysteryjay.
Anyway, My boyfriend lives far from me and he says he wont cheat on me but i cant be a 100% sure because he lives so far away. I cant be there to be sure but he says he wont cheat on me.
Also we wont to be together forever but his parents and my mom doesnt want us to be dating. My mom wont do nothing but his mom doesnt like me cause i am black and live in a different state. My boyfriend is white.
So we wont to met in real life and live togetehr forever. But do you think this is possible because We live so far away and right now i am the only one with the cellphone and i can only call him over hsi grandmothers phone which he is barely over there. I really do care and for him and want to now if he cares and for me too. He says im his true love and i say he is mine too.
Q:1. you think he will cheat on me?
2.Do you think we'll ever met?
3. Do you think we will be able to live together forever if we met in real life?
4.Do you think he really cares for me and wants to be with me forever and i am his true love?
taelatte07 answered Wednesday September 9 2009, 8:35 pm: i was in this long distance relationship for two years and i just broke it off in august since my boyfriend was going to iraq and like you i was black and he was white and i could tell he loved me and i loved him a lot and we wanted to get married or i hope he felt the same way because about our future. so i know what you could be going through
1. it could be likely that he could cheat on you just because you guys don't live near each other, and you don't have people checking up on him like a true friend or something. and even if you are friends with his friends they will cover up for him. so you may not know if he's cheating on you unless you can tell if he's really serious about you.
2. anything's possible. if you want to meet him. bring a parent or something along. don't meet him in private because he could be a stalker. dont mean to scare you but thats reality. let someone know that you are meeting him like a friend just incase something happens. if you get a weird feeling when he says i want to meet you alone don't tell your parents dont even think twice about calling it off (i almost met my ex in private but i called it off)
3. i really cannot say anything about that. only you and him can determine that. if it's true love by all means go live that cinderella life girl. you got a real keeper then. :) but if it's not there's other fish in the sea and closer to home you can focus on.
4. again i cannot say. only you know what goes on in your relationship. i don't know how long you guys have gone out or anything like that. but since you guys don't talk a lot i don't think that he could take it seriously just because it's long distance.
hope i didn't hurt your feelings but helped you [ taelatte07's advice column | Ask taelatte07 A Question ]
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