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best friend?? i dont think so


Question Posted Monday September 21 2009, 8:13 pm

14-f

OMG so i told like my best friend about my ""one night stand" <--i dnt know why i put parenthesis....and she told like everyone, now everyone thinks im a major slut and all of the guys think that i would be easy to get in bed ughhh how am i supposed to fix this?>?????/? am i a slut?

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itdependsonyoux3 answered Wednesday September 23 2009, 4:21 pm:
Well ...
you're 14. so you really ARE young and in my personaly oppinion, you're waaaay too young for a "one night stand" but uhm, you're not a slut. Everyone has different definitions for things, but if you were a slut you would go sleeping around with every guy you laid eyes on.
.. which you didnt, and I'm NOT saying go do that. But really, you're not a slut.
Let people talk. they're just maing you famous anyways ;] if you act like it doesnt bother you, it'll stop. so don't do anything, you're strong. you can handle this.
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.

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sillyrob answered Wednesday September 23 2009, 3:15 am:
As a 14 year old female talking about one night stands, you are a slut. Once you become a 24 year old male, it wont be slutty it will be awesome and you'll get high fives from your friends.

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WildBabyDoll112 answered Wednesday September 23 2009, 1:13 am:
No your not a slut.. But honestly dont seem easy .. dont flirt with the boys that much.. Your very young to be having sex at 14! im 19yrs old and i lost my virginity when i was 17.. and i now have a 8month old baby.. You should just let this situation go.. let people talk.. dont care what people think.. its ur life and you will do what you want.. Plus people are always going to talk must give them something to talk about chicka =)

xoShannon Melissa
19-F

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christina answered Tuesday September 22 2009, 4:57 am:
Technically no, but what you did is slutty. You're not sleeping around with multiple people, but this one night stand was probably random & with someone random (because that's how it usually goes) which makes it slutty.

So, yes/no.

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Katlyn answered Tuesday September 22 2009, 2:42 am:
No your not a slut for doing it just once you would be if you did it more then once and just fix it by clearing you name and telling people that it was a one time thing im sure your not the only girl whose done that but im amazed that a such a young age girls and guys are thinking about sex but anyways just prove to people your not by not doing it again and tellign people it was a one time thing and it wouldnt happen again like that.

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