Question Posted Sunday September 20 2009, 11:48 pm
Im a 14 year old girl who has a major crush on her friend who happens to be a cute n funny guy. We hang out in class and i told him i liked him i even asked my sis to ask him if he likes me he said no but continues to flirt, hug, and make me laugh. No matter what i do i cant get over him. I dont know what to do.
sillyrob answered Wednesday September 23 2009, 3:28 am: I'd love to answer this question, but then I remembered that I didn't see a question mark anywhere, therefore you didn't ask a question. Sorry :(. [ sillyrob's advice column | Ask sillyrob A Question ]
lolalufonda222 answered Monday September 21 2009, 10:02 pm: im sorry, i actually have a really similar problem. i think just continue flirting and stuff, or actually maybe ignore him just for a few days, play hard to get, and hel come to you. and if he doesnt, then go back to flirting and maybe he will eventually change his mind. but whatever you do, dont act like you like him too much or that your visibly upset that he said he doesnt like you. and dont worry , just because he said he doesnt like you, doesnt mean he actaully meant that. goodluck! [ lolalufonda222's advice column | Ask lolalufonda222 A Question ]
freebutterfly answered Monday September 21 2009, 5:03 pm: aw, i have the same situation..for me, i tried to move on by just trying to distance myself from the guy, but i notice that i missed him and yeah it will be really tough first but you just have to tell him the truth about how you truly feel. tell him that you have feelings for him and that you know that he doesnt feel the same for you but just say that its hard to move on and that maybe you need some space for awhile so you can feel a little better...and maybe he continues to flirt and hug you and stuff because he might do the same to every other girl..watch him if he does that to other girls..if not maybe he does like you. maybe he doesn't know it yet until you actually distance yourself from him. we always want what we cant have..and it sucks..but if you really want him and you dont care if your going to risk yourself (because you might get hurt) then go after him and dont give up :)..i hope i helped a little.. [ freebutterfly's advice column | Ask freebutterfly A Question ]
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