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Am I taking this too fast? or the wrong way?
This summer I spent a month with my brothers friend on vacation, he came along with my family. I had already liked this boy for quite some time and naturally being with him for so long caused me to want him even more. Well the last week of the vacation we hooked up, I mean we got up to third base and all and I usually dont see myself as that kind of person doing the whole hook up thing I just feel kind of dirty I guess. Well about a week after we got back he asked me out and told me that he couldnt stop thinking about me and I was the happiest girl in the world. Now we've been going out for a month and a half and I've been super happy but he keeps pressuring me to...go back to third base and I know we've had the physical aspect of a relationship familiarized before but I cant help thinking that 1. its too soon in our relationship to get so hot and heavy, 2. he might just want me because I'll give him physical attention and he might not like me as I like him so much and 3. since he already has gotten me to go to third base with him he going to expect it all the time. Anways I'm just really confused, Im 16 and I feel like maybe I'm too young? I'm not sure, any advice or experience that you may have with this would be really helpful! Thank you so much!
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well if u realli dont want to then dont. but why not? you like him, he likes you, im assuming you find him attractive.. just do it. you only live once. i like to think of it like this.. what if you never got to see him ever again..wouldnt u want to kiss him one more time.
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well first of all just say something like "look, i know we've done this before but i kinda think we should wait for that again..i was just in the moment" and if he doesnt respect that or breaks up with u then ur just sum booty. buuut if he says "ok" or agrees then he's fine :] some guys are just like that he actually may not be doing it on purpose. he could actually just be really attracted to you :] so just ask him to wait and see how it goes :] hope i helped :]
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If he runs in and is like, "tits or get the fuck out," he might be looking for some hot and heavy action, and maybe not the relationship thing. Hold off, if he's a dick then fuck it, find a guy who will allow you to do whatever.
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