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Q: Okay i like this girl in my school....I dont think she likes me.But she dont know I like her like that too....We met this year but we are really close.....What should i do!
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You should tell her that you like her cuz i mean you two are close right? the worst that can happen is that she'll say no, i don't like you in that way. remember this, it's like a 50/50 chance like when flipping a coin she'll either say she likes you or she doesn't like you. so you need to take the chance and maybe she does like you and you don't know it. if she saids she doesn't like you then maybe she isn't the one for you. who knows maybe you two will remain friends and she'll eventually start to like you after thinking about it. Good luck!
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Q: my friend wants to get her bf the ideal gift for v day. she wants it to be unique and different from the usual giftcards or cds or tshirts or w/e. what are some things you would give your boyfriend for v day that will show him that you love them and stuff like that?
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a handmade card,cologne or a photo of herself put in a cute decorated photo frame,a homemade dessert. and when she is handing the present to him she can give him a kiss.
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Q: My freckles are really dark and ugly. Any ideas on how to make them fade permanently or temporarily? Can I get rid of them? Please help! I'm tired of being covered in polka-dots, whether they are angel kisses or not!
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You can use coverup like clinique or loreal. I also heard that using lemon juice makes freckles fade. but remember this always love and accept yourself for who you are and be happy with what you have.
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Q: I've figured out that i am bi...but i am a christian..and i realize how wrong it is...and i hate myself for it...im trying to change myself.....but its hard for me to completely stop liking guys....but its so wrong...in the bible it says that doing stuff with another guy is an abomination..and they should be destroyed..that scares me..so i am trying to fight it off..i have a gf...and she's helping me thru it too...but my ? is...is it really wrong to be bi?..
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theres nothing wrong with you being bi because you are born that way and itz not your fault that you can't control it.
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Q: okay so my boyfriend really want a picture of me that he can put in his room or carry in his wallet. well i have some pics around the house but i want ta get him a good one one from like a studio. would that b a good present for valetines? and then how much does that usually cost? if i cant afford it wut else could i do?
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Itz a good present for your boyfriend on valentines day. it also depends on what package you buy and on the specials. like at this photo place i go to itz 22 dollars for 50 wallet sizes. if you can't afford it then you can take a picture of yourself and process it. Good Luck!
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Q: *All my friends say I'm cute, but I think I'm ugly. They've all had boyfriends and I haven't. I'm 13 and in 7th grade, I've never been kissed or anything my little 11 year old brother already had his first kiss and he was making-out with the girl. I don't know what to do. I sort of guess I'm just ugly. But I can't take it. What can I do? It's tearing me apart it makes me feel unwanted.*
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don't worry....that special guy will appear in your life someday but you just haven't met him yet. Also never think that you are ugly because everyone is beautiful or cute in their own way like by your inner and outter looks and personality. You need to have confidence in yourself. also there are many people who haven't had their first kiss or boyfriend yet like me for example cuz everyone is different. also always remember this... always love and accept yourself for who you are.
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Q: I lovee guys.. but the problem is that every guy i'ver ever liked never liked me... i talk to my crush or w/e and he doesn't like me cause he thinks im ugly or sumthing.. what should i do?
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Maybe the guys you like wasn't the one for you. Maybe if you keep talking to your crush he may just like you for your personality and just the way you are. But are you 100% sure that your crush said that you are ugly? My opinion is that you should still go for it but if he really said that you are ugly then you should just forget him and he isn't the right guy for you. if you try to change the way you look drastically to get him to like you just a little it's not worth it. Remember the right guy you are meant to be with will appear in your life someday and you should always love and accept yourself for who you are. Good luck!
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Q: hi my parents left at 12 this afternoon and theyre not coming back till like 1 am and im reeealy hungry i havent eaten anything ive been saving my appetite for a pizza and my sister was supposed to drop of my nephew but i guess hes not coming and i want to order a pizza but im scared cuz im all alone and i dont want him to kill me and my house isnt safe and i dont want strangers coming in and im scared =( should i order the pizza anywys?
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Just order the pizza because you are really hungry and don't worry cuz the pizza guy isn't gonna kill you..... he just takes your money, hands you the pizza and leaves. Good luck!
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Q: yea so i love my brother to death but he is always at work or his fiance's house and i barely ever see him. i alwyas get ticked off at my parents and flip out and i always ruin things in the house when hes not home he really is the only person that knows how to help me calm down. now im like a mess lately because hes getting married and he will probably be moving out and i dont want him to but anyways what can i do to make the pain of losing my brother be gone and how can i stop myself from like trashing the house when i get pissed off at my parents? please help.
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I know how you feel because i was in the same situation a year ago like you are in now. When i'm upset or angry i let my emotions out by talking to someone close like my best friend and i wrote how i felt about my brother getting married and moving to San Diego in my diary, xanga, and myspace. On trashing your house when your angry at your parents, you should beat up a stuffed animal or pillow and maybe scream and yell in your room to let it all out or maybe walk out the house and take a long walk to calm down. You can have a private talk with your brother on how you feel and that you will be missing him. I told my brother this and he said that he'll always be there for me when i needed him and now we talk on the phone and on aim nearly everyday.
I hope things will go well for you.
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Q: i have a big butt and i kinda get made fun of my people and i wish my butt wasn't that big cuz its really noticably big and its hard to get certain kinds of pants. what exercises can i do to make my butt smaller? suggestions would be great thx
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My opinion is that you should always love and accept yourself and don't care what other people think . But, anywayz here are some sites that may help:
http://www.virtualfitnesstrainer.com/newsletterworkouts/10_great_butt_exercises.htm
http://exercise.about.com/cs/exerciseworkouts/tp/butt.htm
good luck!
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Q: I have intense hair flaking. The skin on my scalp is coming off and causing dandriff. Its really gross and a few people asked me if I had lice and I said no its just hairspray but the fact is I dont even use hairspray.. This is really gross and Im constantly worrying about it so I dont know what I should do..
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Try Head and Shoulders or neutrogena T-gel or you can see a doctor and they will help you and give you a prescription. Good Luck!
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Q: this guy likes me, hes nice, but i dont like him and he thinks i do? how do i give him a hint?
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you can just tell him straight out that you don't like him in that way but not too harshly. or you can just ignore him like if your not interested and don't care. or you could hang around other guys.....itz your choice on what you want to do. Good Luck!
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Q: There's this kid named Brian, whos liked me since 2nd grade, and I've liked him since 5th grade. We're now in nineth grade. (freshmens) and There's this huge dance in April called Freshmen dance. He asked me to go with him, and I said yes, but he heard from my best friend Charles, that I was going with him, Of which I'm not. So Brian went and asked this 8th grader to the dance, and he PROMISED he'd take her. So now he's saying he'll break it off with her so he can go with me. I really don't know what to say. I'll feel bad for the 8th grader, but I really don't know. Should I stop him from breaking it off with the 8th grader? Or should I let him? Please help. Sry its so long!
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just let brian take you to the dance because you liked him for a long time and u deserve to go with him and he chose to go with u over the 8th grader. Good Luck!!!
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Q: I have dark hair on my arms and I wanna bleach it. Do I sue regualr bleach like the stuff for clothes or what?
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no you'll burn your skin.... go to a store and get this type of hair bleach.
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Q: What do you do when you someone tells you the guy you like will never ike you should you give up?
Signed
Should I give up?
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never give up until ya try and get an answer from the guy u like and don't ever listen to someone that saids that the guy will never like you and thAT you should give up just cuz they say so. Good Luck!
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Q: theres this girl i really like but she barely knows i exist. she knows i like her because her friend(who is my friend to) knew all the time. im really desperate on advice on how to get her attention p.s im only in 7th grade so dont be so technical
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just a simple hello or watz up will get her attention. especially if u compliment her and be really nice to her and smile a lil bit. good luck!
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Q: i have a horrible time getting to sleep at night... it takes me lke 3 or 4 hours every night and sometimes ill go to bed at like 6 just to get enough sleep otherwise im exhausted in the morning. does anyone have any tips to help me fall asleep faster? thank you, ill rate you high
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try excercising in the daytime or use that pillow spray from bath and body works there is some spray that helps you relax and another that helps you sleep. maybe listen to some music or read a book before you sleep. Good luck!
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Q: I cut myself. When i feel super bad i cut myself. And i know it's a horrible thing to do. I need to stop. Does anybody have any suggestions about how to stop? Going to an adult is not an option. Please help.
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try talking to a close friend that you trust telling them how u feel or write all of ure feelings down in a journal,diary or xanga. also get rid of the object that you use to cut ureself or stay away from it. good luck!
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Q: what does IM mean??? i've been told to IM someone... i'm confused!!! lol. is it some american thingy??? coz i'm australian.
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it means instant message. and u need aol or aim to talk to someone on aol. just download aim for free on www.aim.com. hoped that i helped. Good luck!
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Q: Ive never had a boyfriend on valentines day before and i really want one because thats like the hole point of the holiday. If i could i would just ignore it but the past years when im walking down the halls at school all i see is guyz and girlz together, it makes me so sad that i dont have a boyfriend. How do i get over it?
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Don't worry i kno how ya feel. u can celebrate valentines day by hanging out wit ure friends like watch a movie or do a lil shopping at the mall. remember that special someone will appear in ure life someday. Good Luck!!!!
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"Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances, you just have to live life to the fullest. laugh as much as you can, spend all your money, tell someone what they mean to you, tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someones hand, comfort a friend, pig out, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, smile till your face hurts, dont be afraid to take chances or fall in love...& most of all live in the moment cause when you look back someday knowing you have no regrets it's gonna be what makes you smile."
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: California Occupation: student :p Age: 16 AIM: Member Since: July 5, 2004 Answers: 376 Last Update: September 21, 2009 Visitors: 27426
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