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Bi..........But don't wanna be!
I've figured out that i am bi...but i am a christian..and i realize how wrong it is...and i hate myself for it...im trying to change myself.....but its hard for me to completely stop liking guys....but its so wrong...in the bible it says that doing stuff with another guy is an abomination..and they should be destroyed..that scares me..so i am trying to fight it off..i have a gf...and she's helping me thru it too...but my ? is...is it really wrong to be bi?..
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It isn't wrong. The Bible doesn't really say that it is wrong, that is a lie made up by homophobes who take everything literally.
Do not hate yourself. Do not try to change yourself. Your attraction to other guys is perfectly normal.
Being bisexual is fun because you get to experience the best of both worlds! Sometimes it's better to be with someone of the same sex, because they tend to understand you better.
And if you are bisexual or gay or whatever, it has nothing to do with your relgion. Religion is a choice, sexuality isn't.
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of course it is really wrong to be bi. you even said that the bible says its wrong. I'm a Christian to and it's hard as heck for me not to have a problem with my gay guy friends. I know what they are doing is wrong but I love them anyway and God loves you anyway. I know it is hard but you can get through this. Good luck.
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What I don't understand about Christianity is is do christian people feel bad about themselves when they have sexual desires directed towards the opposite sex? Not to answer a question with a question deliberately, but I'd like to know.It sounds like many christian denominations would only allow you to have sex with a woman when you and that woman choses to make a child.
You are pummelling yourself because you have sexual urges toward men and women, and that your christian beliefs tell you that your urges specifically towards men are wrong. Why should it matter? If you will have a difficult time living a life without ANY sexual urges, male or female, why limit yourself with just one sex? Go full board. You were made by your God, in his image, and he made you bisexual. You will never be able to change that. Just be safe, and don't sneak around and break your local laws trying to live your secret life.
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No definately not. Its perfectly ok to be bi. Just ignore the bible and go with your feelings. If you like men go for men if you like women go for women if you like both go for both
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Hey, don't beat yourself up about being bi. Its not that big of a deal, I promise. You are you, nothing or nobody has the power to change that. I promise, nothing is wrong with being bi or gay. Your girlfriend's there for you and so are we...so we promise, nothing's wrong with being bi and you shouldn't change yourself because something said to. You are YOU.
-Caydee
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i dont find it wrong to be bi. i have alot of friends who are bi and theyre christian to but dont worry about what the bible says on that be yourself thats all
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It does say so in the Bible. Yes, so I guess you could say it's wrong. But also there are soooooooo many stories that some parts of the Bible are made up. Some believe that the entire first half of the Bible is make up. I personaly do not think it is wrong. Im not gay or Bi but I think that God made you the way you are and I believe in desteny. But, some also would say that you could be possesed by satin... so, its completely up to your morals and your beliefs
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dont try to change yourself. if your sucha hardcore christian, you should no dat God made you like that for a reason. its not wrong to be bi. period. dont hate youself for it because that would be a waste of time. be cool with youself. your gf loves you for who u are. see? hope i helped!
~*ana*~
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there is nothing wrong with being bi. you cant help the way you feel about people. and it shouldnt change the what people think about you. if they dont agree with it then thats them. but your friends are the ones who wont care. they will like you for you. if not, then find someone who is perfectly fine with it. you deserve to be treated like a normal person and not an outkast.
sure people will talk shit, but you have to be better and stronger about yourself. you shouldnt hate who you are and how you feel. the stronger you are, the better. dont fight away your feelings. just be you.
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theres nothing wrong with you being bi because you are born that way and itz not your fault that you can't control it. <3 Peachgirly
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why do you hate your self for what you are i have a bi friend but i do not care and no good and decent person should care you are you and thats all that matters i mean my parents are christan but i follow Magick
Saying the truth
Solemnstar
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all mi friends are bi and i dont think there is nothing wrong with it. im christian and im bi there is nothin wrong so just be bi and i think the bible is wrong!
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Theres nothing wrong with been a bi, You cant change your self its your chose
roxie
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Interestingly enough, the bible doesn't actually say that homo/bi sexuality is wrong*. It does say that /acting on/ it is. So just avoid getting it on with another guy and you'll be fine. Shouldn't be too hard.
*I'm referring mostly to the new testimate. Jesus never so much as mentions the subject. Also note that quotes in which homosexuality is mentioned tend to be a list of what constitutes a sin, and a few words could have been inserted here and there. I, personally, very seriously doubt that god has anything against homosexuality.
Re: Sodom and that other city, whose name I can't spell, I've heard that the sin for which they were destroyed was inhospitality, not homosexuality.
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no!! It is totally fine you can still like girls and you dont have to have a bf you can like guys but you dont have to do anything with them!
♥ MIchelle
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yes. being a Christian, i do believe that being bisexual is wrong. it is mentioned in the New Testament that in the last days there will be murder, homosexuality, bisexuality, etc. it states that as Christians we must stay away from these things. obviously you believe this because you are a Christian. you really need to pray about it and read your Bible about it. also, i know it may be hard, but you should talk to a Christian leader such as a youth pastor or counselor. i was in your position once myself actually. i used to be bisexual until i rededicated my life to God. i would love to share my testimony with you. IM me or email me if you would like extra support or if you want my story.
x3 KaTiE LyNn
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no....well,the bible says it is
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this would be a good thing to discuss with your pastors/ministers. They're there for a reason. Ask them. You don't even have to tell them about your orientation, just say you have friends and they asked you.
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OMG ive been through this too or a situation similar o this. But dont Reject Christanity. You can still believe in God.Dont hate yourself either If this is truly what you want then go for it but in the bible you are right about it saying all that but God forgives so dont be scared about that. Yes it is really wrong to be BI but if your a teen your still exploring so hopefully you will change your mind~!~ I'm still going to church and i suggest you read the bible if you havent already.Hope this Helps!!! XoX Meg
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Of course it's not wrong to be bi. I'm a christian too and I don't find anythign wrong with being gay or being bi. I guess what no one ever told you is that as soon as you accept Jesus into your heart you're forgiven for every one of your sins that you make or have made. That's why people who have accepted Christ as their savior and commit suicide don't go to hell. Even though people tell you, you will. That's how Jesus works, now isn't that great? So for those who say it's a sin and you're going to hell, aren't right at all. Just accept yourself as you are. And those who love you will do the same. Good luck and I hope you finally find out who you are. :)
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