There's this kid named Brian, whos liked me since 2nd grade, and I've liked him since 5th grade. We're now in nineth grade. (freshmens) and There's this huge dance in April called Freshmen dance. He asked me to go with him, and I said yes, but he heard from my best friend Charles, that I was going with him, Of which I'm not. So Brian went and asked this 8th grader to the dance, and he PROMISED he'd take her. So now he's saying he'll break it off with her so he can go with me. I really don't know what to say. I'll feel bad for the 8th grader, but I really don't know. Should I stop him from breaking it off with the 8th grader? Or should I let him? Please help. Sry its so long!
sToLeNxOxKiiSs answered Friday February 4 2005, 1:09 pm: i think you should go with brain.who cares if it hurts the 8th grade girls feelings(not trying to be rude)...but its not like its your best friend or anything. and plus he asked you first right? okay then go with him you deserve.GOOD LUCK and hope i helped
-brittany-
p.s.let us know what happens [ sToLeNxOxKiiSs's advice column | Ask sToLeNxOxKiiSs A Question ]
Solemnstar answered Thursday February 3 2005, 11:07 pm: first of all Brian promised and he will really dissapoint the 8th grader and why did your best friend say that to him if he knew(im guessing)that you were not going out with him i figure that Charles is jelous and that he likes you but for somebody to say that for that reason is just plain wrong and mean.UNDERSTATEMENT. maybe you should go alone to please the 8th grader and tellBrian thats it is o.k and you dont mind if he goes with her.but i think you should find out what Charles was thinking when he lied to brian
to sum up let brian go with the eigth grader and go find another date(thats probably best)but do not get upset if brian likes the 8th grader there are other guys right?Move on if thats happens
sourpatchkids101 answered Thursday February 3 2005, 9:53 pm: Well I dont think that you should care about the the 8th grader bacause the 8th grader has many more chances in life to be asked out. I think that you should talk to him and see what he says. You should let him break it off with the girl only if he wants to. If he does and then askes you out you should say yes!!! Hope this helped!!! [ sourpatchkids101's advice column | Ask sourpatchkids101 A Question ]
Cath answered Thursday February 3 2005, 9:44 pm: Hi Sweetie,
Well that's a good question. ...I wonder how the 8th grader feels. ...I think that the best thing to do (since its a somewhat delicate situation) is to have him explain to the 8th grader that if she wants to go they will only be going out as friends. The 8th grader may be hurt (maybe... maybe she won't) but its important that she understands this and in the end its the best thing for her. But she could still go and have fun. If she wants to go and you want to go what you should do is have him take her and stuff and you go with your friends and meet in the dance. If the 8th grader makes friends (hint: maybe Brian can introduce her or distract her with some of his friends) you and Brian can dance and stuff.
Hope this helped! Take care! ~Blessed Be... [ Cath's advice column | Ask Cath A Question ]
IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug answered Thursday February 3 2005, 9:41 pm: Aww, hey! Well, let him decide, tell him i want you to go with your heart and plus it is the 9th grade dance!!! Ask his who he wants to go with the most and to just go with whawt he feels. But if yuo really want to go with him just tell him to break it off!
♥ Michelle [ IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug's advice column | Ask IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug A Question ]
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