Q: HI,
MY MOM JUST RECENTLY LOST HER DAD AND WITHIN 4 YEARS SHE LOST TWO BROTHERS. NOW, SHE WAKES UP AT 11:00 AND THEN GOES BACK TO BED AROUND 1:00. TO ME IT SEEMS LIKE SHE IS ALWAYS SLEEPING. AND I WANT TO DO MORE THINGS WITH HER. CAN YOU HELP ME? PLEASE SUGGEST SOME THINGS I CAN DO TO HELP HER!

SIGNED,
**NEEDS HELP**

Q: how do u fix jealousy? i dont want to be jealous. but i dont think i am that much.

Q: my friend tina looks way older for her age and she is 13 and older guys like in their 20s hit on her. and we went to the movies by ourselves i though we were going to get raped because these guys were following us around all nite and she told them i was 17 but im 13 and i dont even think i look 15 how could i pull of 17!


Older or not!

Q: hey, well i was mad at my mom for something she did so i e maild someone something that said bad things about her. shes given me silent treatment so im not to worried. What should i do?

Q: ok..there is this guy, and ive gone out with him a couple times now, but then he dumped me the last time for no reason. i tell people im over him, but im really not. and when im w/ him he makes it seem like he still likes me, but then online hes really mean to me and will just start yelling at me for no reason?? what should i do?..

-confused

Q: Okay its now summer and like 2 weeks after summer started, my friend that i used to like was in a car accident, and was hospitalized for about a week and it made me realize that i still had feelings for him. So he asked me to go out with him so i did and we have been going out for about a month, but summer is my time to be like free and meet new guys at the beach n everything you know? I mean i like him, but i don't think i really want anything serious right now. Should i tell him i want a break? Should i break up with him? Or just stay with him??

Q: My best friend that is a boy likes me, we have been really close for like 2 years now. And hes obcessed and even tells my boyfriend how lucky that my boyfriend is that he has me, is there anyway i can get him to lay off a bit without hurting his feelings? Cuz hes always there for me and idont wanna loose him as a best friend, but i dont want him as more than that..

Q: I have a yeast infection and I'm okay with it because I've had one before. The only thing that worries me is that I had sex for the very first time last weekend and I'm scared that it happened from that. I'm very sensitive "down there" and if every time I have sex, its gunna happen then thats not a good thing. Can you get a yeast infection from sex or an STD?!?!

Q: Ok well ive already asked this but everyone is telling me the same thing.

well i went away for the summer. when i got back my mom hade this really bad attitude to me. in the beginning the attitude was comeing from my dad. i really didnt care because i dont live with my dad n e ways my mom was being all harsh on me for all the little things. i told my friend all the things i was thinking and my mom found out. she will not talk to me.ive already told her i was sorry.and did a lot to make her forgive me, but nothing worked. Should i keep doing what im doing or what. dont tell me to talk to her cause everytime i try she walks away and i dont want to play games.

Q: okay...i dont kno how to put a picture or make a cute backround if u know how please tell me ( i rate good)


confused idiot

Q: ok i dont know why but my first page on my column has like disappeared?!? is there a way to bring it back??
ill rate ya if it helps
*Melody

Q: Sharpie marker- her favorite color black
Placing it on her wrist
She drew a dotted line
And a heart for good measure

The empty heart that stained her skin
Looked vacant next to the scattered stripe
She didn’t have a knife..
So the razor blade would suffice
And on the dotted line she sliced

Q: ~ihave a serious problem...my frien cuts herself horribly cuz she thinks her life sux. last time i saw her she had 5 cuts on her arm. They were so deep. 3 of them she blamed on her cat. I have a cat and it dosent scratch perfect distances away. they were like 2 inches long. I asked her y she does it and she says cuz her life sux. i said y does it sux? she said one reason is cuz her grampa has cancer. she admitted to 2 of them and she woodnt tell me wat she used.
~i cut myself cuz every since i was born i have lived in9different houses. also my biological dad abused my mom and i havent seen him since i was 1 and a half. i had a step dad but hes gone now. he has to go to counsilin cuz he had theartened to hit me 2 times. although he never did it scared me teribbly. one day my mom had told me if i heard screamin to dial 911. i did hear screamin and i let it go 4 bout 5 min. Then i called. jus as the cops walked in my step dad was pushin down my mom. he went to jail but go out. then my mom was in the hospital. i came home and i didnt kno where she was. some how i found out. i dont member. she had mal-noutrition and double namonia(sp). she cood of died and i was only 11/12 at the time. and if she did i didnt kno where i woodve gone. my biological father owes me over 60,000 dollars in child support.
~ do u have ne kinda idea of a way i cood kinda train myself to stop cuttin? PLZ HELP ME AND MY FRIEN!!!

Q: hey um i have asked many questions about the same guy and like he is my neighbor and i wasnt home today and my sister and her babysitter saw him and like he asked where i was! do you think he likes me? do you think that like he'll ask me out because i have asked soooooo many questions about him..try to find em!

Q: i have liked this kid since 7th grade ( im only in 9th now ) but thats still a pretty long time...he knows i liked him in 7th and he knows i like him now but he doesnt know i have always liked him...hes all i think about day in and day out...i cant EVER get him off my mind but im scared to talk to him about it...we talk and stuff he kinda flirts wih me and stuff and we chill sumtimes but he works a lot...i REALLY want him to like me the way i like him...it just hurts a lot to know he prolly doesnt even care...me n my friend went to this soccer game and after it was a huge pilloiw fight...well these kids kept like trying to get...up on me...and wen he saw it he took off his hat, put it on my head and like chased them so they wouldnt touch me...ik it sounds really gay but wen he put his hat on my head i felt like i had everything in the world...is there anyway i can stand out to him...but not like changing myself totally? thanks for helping...xoxo

Q: ok im 14 yrs old n i really like this guy who is my cuzins best friends i'll call him ummm... dany! ok well dany told me a couple of weeks ago dat he really liked me since when we first me!! ok then we started talking n for like 2weeks we were seeing each other but secretly bcuz im afraid my cuzin will get mad! ok well da other day my cuzin told me thatd dany has had a girlfriend for like the past 2 months!!!!!!!!!!!! omfg i was so pissed bcuz i goy like hooked on him. n now dany told me that his girlfriend is pregnant! he keeps telling me he doesnt like her at all bcuz she's done too many bad things to him n dany tell me that the only reason dat hes with her for right now is bcuz he wasnt to take care of the baby. he says dat he doesnt wanna leave her out on da strrets when her parents find out shes pregnant n he says that he likes me soo much n too plz understand dat its only bcuz of da baby n dat like after she has the baby he want to take the baby away from her bcuz shes like an alcoholic n uses drugs n shes neva hom but anyways hes telling me to plz wait n that after all this is over me n him will be officially be going out... but idk i really really like him like he got me hooked n its really hard like today n when he told me his gf is having a baby a started crying n he told me to not worry n stuff but its like ok ur going to be with her like it or not bcuz shes the mom.right?! im very confused idk if i should like forget nout him or wait or idk HELP PLZ *ill rate u guys*!!!!

Q: hi guyys .. theres this guy that i rele rele love! and we went out for like 2 weeks but then he moved to florida :-/ and we broke up .. i went out with this other kid on the rebound and i guess i hurt the florida guy and he was telling me how much he loves me and everything and i broke up with my boyfriend to go out with him and now we're going out but it seems like hes avoiding me :-/ he says he loves me more then anything and more then anyone could! and i love him so much! but new york to florida?? thats a long way.. :-/ idk what to do .. help me PLEASE!!

Q: okay..theres this boy..we've gone out before..and he dumped me becuz i guess he didnt like me anymore..but once i got another boyfriend you could tell he got jealous and was mad about it becuz i guess he still liked me..and i still liked him too but i just didnt tell him..and i dumped my boyfriend becuz i really liked him and once i told him that i liked him..he had already gotten over me..and now i tell people that im over him and i dont like him anymore..but none of thats true..i still like him alot and he means the world to me..but he says the meanest things sometimes..and at nights i sometimes cry myself to sleep..help me..should i try and get over him?..or should i tell him how i feel?

Q: me and my mom always fight about my best friend...i luv her to death....but her mom doesnt let her come to my house bc she has to watch her younger brother so i ALWAYS got o her house!! well my mom thinks im doing bad things over ther shes already talked to her mom n knows that she cant come over but im always welcomed over ther and she still is like such a bitch...well my friend is goin to mexico july 19th and she asked if i can sleep over thursday, friday, saturday and stay on sunday!! my mom totally tripped about that she was like NO NOT THREEE DAY S I DONT CARE IF SHES GOIN TO MEXICO FOR 2 WKS!! idont c da prob for 3 nites down the street basically...wat can i tell her without startin a argument?? i really wanna go and im goin to miss my friend alot!! plz help

Q: Well i had another question before but i think alot of people misunderstood it. I am Best Friends with 2 girls my age but one is moving to B.C and all my other friend wants to talk about is how she is leaving and stuff. But a couple days ago when she visited they hung out and left me alone basically when im there best friend too! Have any advice for me?

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