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theres a me n a her!!! HELP ME PLZ!!!!
ok im 14 yrs old n i really like this guy who is my cuzins best friends i'll call him ummm... dany! ok well dany told me a couple of weeks ago dat he really liked me since when we first me!! ok then we started talking n for like 2weeks we were seeing each other but secretly bcuz im afraid my cuzin will get mad! ok well da other day my cuzin told me thatd dany has had a girlfriend for like the past 2 months!!!!!!!!!!!! omfg i was so pissed bcuz i goy like hooked on him. n now dany told me that his girlfriend is pregnant! he keeps telling me he doesnt like her at all bcuz she's done too many bad things to him n dany tell me that the only reason dat hes with her for right now is bcuz he wasnt to take care of the baby. he says dat he doesnt wanna leave her out on da strrets when her parents find out shes pregnant n he says that he likes me soo much n too plz understand dat its only bcuz of da baby n dat like after she has the baby he want to take the baby away from her bcuz shes like an alcoholic n uses drugs n shes neva hom but anyways hes telling me to plz wait n that after all this is over me n him will be officially be going out... but idk i really really like him like he got me hooked n its really hard like today n when he told me his gf is having a baby a started crying n he told me to not worry n stuff but its like ok ur going to be with her like it or not bcuz shes the mom.right?! im very confused idk if i should like forget nout him or wait or idk HELP PLZ *ill rate u guys*!!!!
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Well first off I take if your cousin is a girl... if im wrong correct me but if its just a best friend then there should be nothing wrong with the whole deal... unless she has some sort of crush on him but he is doing the right thing by taking care of the baby and but by staying with that girl could only lead her on but he is going to be a dad and thats a big deal so i would just try your hardest to get less attached and not like him as much because you dont need to be a mother figure youself you could remain good friends but you shouldnt put yourself under such pressure-trix
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Really, its all your decision. But its kind of him to want to help with the baby, you need to realize that it is his responsibility too. And if he is going to wait around for the time to be right to be with you, then you should respect that if you like him as much as you say you do. And from what I can tell, it will be worth it. This guy seems like a really nice and caring person, so I'd say you're pretty lucky.
hope I helped you, and good luck.
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TO: theres a me n a her!!! HELP ME PLZ!!!!
in a situation like this its your call...do you believe him or do you not? tha onie advice i gess i can gib you is thah you should at least put things up fer a hold until things get a lil bit more straightened out...i mean wat else can ya do rite now...ya noe?
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Well maybe wait and see how it works and if it isnt working out tell him you cant take it, there are planty of toher guys out there
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Put yourself in his girlfriend's shoes: Your a teenager and your pregnant. Your parents are going to kick you out of the house. The only person you have left is your boyfriend.
Think about that. I think you should just stay out of it and not go after this relationship. Even if he doesn't love his girlfriend, she needs him more than you need him.
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