Well me and certain boy went out like last summer and we have always had an on and off thing for the past year. Me n him are talking again but I wanna tell him I don't wanna be there just as a girl he can come back to everytime. How can I tell him this politely but still be his friend?
Start talking to him more than get into the convo about you being a back up and be like that's just how I feel.Guys don't get mad or offended that easily.
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I like this boy alot. I think we are going to start going out soon! I want him to start coming to my house more so I can see him more often! what are some things we could do at my house that arent boring?
or things we could do if we left?
Watch a movie with him and them that way you two will cuddle or have like your close friends over too & just hang out.
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Okay so me and this guy just started dating and I lack like all experience. Ive only kissed one guy and only once. And that would be him. And I just want to know how experienced he is but I don’t want to just come right out and ask him. How would any of you consider asking your boyfriend/girlfriend that. Or should I just not even ask?
I always ask people that so it's nothing too crazy,just somehow bring the subject up and be like so how far have you got with a girl?I would consider asking him so then you would know.
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well .. i have a lot of hair "down there". i cant get a bikini wax just because. is there a way to shave it off or do something else to get rid of it? when i shave it, i get bumps though and its irratatingn. anything will help! 5's for good answers.
Shave it but do it carefully and slowly.That's the only way I can think of.
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i want to make my comments and friends on myspace so that no one except me can see them.. how can i do that? thanks
You make your age 14 or younger.
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ok i'm 13 and i got a question. whats the white stuff that comes from your body...girls you hopefully know what i mean. is it bad, or good?
It's discharge & its perfectly normal t just means that your about to start your period.
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if a girl asks a guy to prom, does she pay for both tickets? does the boy traditionally pay, or does each person pay for their own?
The guy usually pays but you never know if he is out of money or something so the girl should bring extra money incase.
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do you think its weird. if you stay with your first boyfriend forever
b.c i think thats gonna happen to me
i dont mind. but is it likey to happen
No it's not weird it`s pretty cute! It just means you teo really love each other.It's not really likely to happen but if it does it's ahmazing.
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Why does it seem like that teenagers do bad stuff like smoking, drinking, drugs, and stuff like that when they get stressed out?
Because they think that would take care of all there problems and relax them.
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I lovee my current girlfriend soo much! SHe has been gone for 10 days on vacation with her parents to Canada. Last night I had two friends over. One is an ex who I am still good friends with. The history on us? It was a short 1 month thing. The classic friends giving the 'somethin more than friends' thing a try that didnt go well.
Well me and her were laying on my bed and my friend was next to us. Her body was not close to mine..but i was resting my head close to her and my hand was on her shoulder. I was extremely tired about to fall asleep. Is this cheating in some way to you? I mean i have other friends that are girls who will rest their head on my stomach while playing video games..and it is absolultey nothin romantic about it because we are strictly friends and both have different love interests and 'types.'
My ex thinks it was nothin..but should i tell my gf about this? If she ever found out she would flip out because she is extremely sensitive on the topic of me and my ex. She finds it odd we hang out because we are exes. *keep in mind its not like i hang out alonnne with this girl* I have a big group of friends kind of and we hang out together kind of thing.
well..do i have anything to feel guilty about?
You seem really nice but it seems like it's nothing so if I was you I wouldn't even tell her she will get mad and stressed out over nothing just pretend like nothing happened.& don't feel guilty.
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Does anyone know any sites that are similar to Greatest Journal or Myspace?
Facebook.com and Xanga.com
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ok im 13/f and one of my friends have been "messing around" lately but i wont have sex with him without a condom. the problem is my mother stil thinks im a virgin. i dont know how to get birth control or condoms without my mom finding out. in the area i live in there is only 2 small gas stations around which both carry condoms but i have a feeling my mom would find out about me buying them, i wouldnt be so worried about her finding out if the guy was 16. i have had sex with him before and ended up missing my period for 2 months! are there any ideas on how to get protection?
please help soon! i rate well!
Just tell him to buy them and if he says no tell him you won't have sex without condoms because you don't want to be pregnet.I know your probly going to me like NOO,but you have to tell your mom to get birth control.Maybe find out another reason to tell her to get them don't tell her you had sex but you have to get them. Good luck with everything.
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hey. im a girl and i had a dream that i kissed another girl. im grossed out. in general, two girls together makes me cringe. does it mean anything?
It doesn't even mean anything it's just a dream..they barely ever come true.Don't even worry about it.
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14/f. jonathon, my best guy friend, has been acting like a jerk to me the past few weeks. i got mad about it, and we kind of stayed away from each other for a few days. he and i were really close before then and told each other everything. as soon as jonathon and i quit talking for awhile, sarah, my other best friend, started hanging around him and he apparently "replaced" me with her in the sense that he began to tell her everything and stuff (his "depressing" life story and the big part that i played in it). so last night jonathon and i resolved our issues, and he told me that there's no excuse for the way he's been treating me, but the only reason that he's been weird is that he has a major crush on me and kind of doesn't know how to act around me right now because he likes me but doesn't want to scare me off (we had talked about not dating anybody until high school, so even if we like each other we kind of vowed to just stay friends). so now things are kind of how they used to be (after we were "cool" again, he asked me to this big banquet for next year as friends and i said okay). now i'm hoping that things are going to be just the way they were before. but, i'm worried that he's replaced me with sarah as somebody to talk to. do y'all think that i'm overreacting? by the way, i don't like him in that way, he's just my best friend. do you think that maybe he started hanging around sarah more to make me jealous or something?
I think that he isn't trying to make you jealous it's just that he might feel weird liking you if you two were such good friends.When a guy & girl are such good friends it kind of is weird to like each other.To me it doesn`t at all seem like Sarah is replacing you.I think everything will turn out the way it was before.
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I am over my ex, and I have fallen hard for another guy. We have been broken up for over 4 months, (we were together for almost 3 mons., and saw each other all the time at school+outside) but it doesn't feel like it has been that long ago since we have broken up. Even though I'm over him, is it normal to want to avoid watching him move on? I haven't started dating anyone yet so that may be one reason. Plus, it's not really the girl he has moved on with even though she is completely different from me. I just want to know if anyone has felt this way too, and how to deal with it. Why is it hard to watch him date someone else when I'm over him and I know I have no future with him (nor do I want to)? Plus the fact that I have fallen for someone else. 17/f
That always happens to girls.Yes I think it is totally normal.Your over him but still don't want to see him move on.It all just takes time but the best thing to do is just forget about him and go for someelse.Don't look talk or anything to him and just really fall for the guy you like.
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so heres just a stupid question :-D uhh can you really die by leaving a tampon in 2 long or something? i mean i dont use them anyways but a lot of people say that!!!
People make stuff up you can't die from it but there are things that can happen to you like TSS but you won't die.
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i like this boy. hes sooo cute and nice and just plain out perfect for me. we get along really well and we talk online like everyday. i like him so much. but i dont think he is interested. i think he just wants to be friends and i cant stand it. i flirt with him as much as i can without going overboard. i always invite him to hang out to, he always says maybe but then we never do. i dont know what to do. when i asked him if he liked anybody, he said "eh idk. kinda..but not really" ahhh what can i do?
What you should do is ask another friend to ask him because no one is going to admit they like you right in front of you.I think you just just flirt with him more and keep talking to him because people fall for each other the more they talk.It all just takes times..Good Luck with everything
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I'm 17/F
I have had a boyfriend for 2 steady months
and I used to like this guy and he saw me kissing
my boyfriend. He gave me a rather hurt look. Does he finally like me? I'm so confused what should i do?
Yes,he really does like you.He probly doesn`t want to admit it but he does.Just like the sang or quote " YOU DON`T KNOW WHAT YOU HAVE TIL IT`S ONE" ..your not gone but now that you have a boyfriend I think he is a bit jealous..Just talk to him about it and become closer to him but don`t break up with your boyfriend because 2 months is alot..and you shouldn`t mess that up.♥
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14/f
My best guy friend likes me. It's obvious, everyone knows it. The problem is I'm not sure what to say if he asks me out. I don't like him, yet at times I feel as though I do. He is a funny person, not the best looking, but looks don't matter a lot to me. At the same time it would be odd going out with him. What do I do?
You seem like your in the middle of liking him but he is more like a friend.If he does ask you out do what your heart tells you.I mean if I was you I would say just be friends with him because it all just seems like he is more of a brother and a boyfriend. ♥
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well i just started dateing this guy today ( tuesday ) and i met him last tuesday i think...anyway we dont really know much about each other but all i know is that i really like him and i guess he likes me because he asked me out..well since i dont really know much about him should we not go out?? and like 10 minutes after we left each other i felt like since i got what i wanted ( him really badly ) then i dont want him as much anymore...its like a game with me i guess.i dont know but it happens all the time.my friends think its because i want what i cant have and i guess thas kinda true..i mean i still like him but not as much anymore.what should i do?? ill rate high for any good answers
This kinda reminds me of me before..okay well you just met him and there probly is more to him then you know.So just hang out alot and get to know him.After a while if you like him go out with him but right now it sounds like your not so sure so wait til you get to know him.♥
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