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Ex's New Relationship
I am over my ex, and I have fallen hard for another guy. We have been broken up for over 4 months, (we were together for almost 3 mons., and saw each other all the time at school+outside) but it doesn't feel like it has been that long ago since we have broken up. Even though I'm over him, is it normal to want to avoid watching him move on? I haven't started dating anyone yet so that may be one reason. Plus, it's not really the girl he has moved on with even though she is completely different from me. I just want to know if anyone has felt this way too, and how to deal with it. Why is it hard to watch him date someone else when I'm over him and I know I have no future with him (nor do I want to)? Plus the fact that I have fallen for someone else. 17/f
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Yea dont worry its totally fine..its like you dont like them in love ways and you hardly talk to him as friends but you dont want to see other girls and him together. yea its perfectly normal us girls have it all the time..in time you will learnt o let it go and it will go away try not to think about it and its all be fine
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That always happens to girls.Yes I think it is totally normal.Your over him but still don't want to see him move on.It all just takes time but the best thing to do is just forget about him and go for someelse.Don't look talk or anything to him and just really fall for the guy you like.
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hey hunni i've been in the same place you are in and i just ignore him when he talks about all his new girlfriends. its all you rly can do and take your time when HE sees you with a new guy sometime soon he'll be the one to get jealous!!
i rly hope i helped
kristin
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Hi there,
It's totally normal to feel this way...he was a big part of your life, and to see him moving on is difficult.
However, I think you still do have feelings for him. If you didn't, you truly wouldn't care what he does, or who he sees. It bothers you because you still feel...this doesn't mean that you want him back, or you don't like another person. To me, it just means that you are not completely over him like you'd like to think :)
It will come. Take care.
Brenda
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No matter what, you can't help how you feel on the inside. Even though you don't want him anymore, it can be human nature to not want him to be with anyone else either... not fair, but again you can't help how you feel on the inside. Try to avoid him completely until you can handle it. best wishes
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