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Can we be friends?
I'm 17/F
I have had a boyfriend for 2 steady months
and I used to like this guy and he saw me kissing
my boyfriend. He gave me a rather hurt look. Does he finally like me? I'm so confused what should i do?
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The key wording is "used to". There's not much point in reading anything into the expression when you've already moved on and currently are dating someone else. Especially when you don't know for sure what you saw was actually disappointment (or disappointment for the same reason as you're thinking).
If things naturally don't work out with your boyfriend, sure, consider the crush. However, don't put at risk a perfectly good relationship over something that never happened.
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Yes,he really does like you.He probly doesn`t want to admit it but he does.Just like the sang or quote " YOU DON`T KNOW WHAT YOU HAVE TIL IT`S ONE" ..your not gone but now that you have a boyfriend I think he is a bit jealous..Just talk to him about it and become closer to him but don`t break up with your boyfriend because 2 months is alot..and you shouldn`t mess that up.♥
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Hey hun
well yeh he might like you or maybe he looked at you like that but he didnt mean to maybe you tok the wrong way maybe you should ask him why he did that cause if you dont your gonna be raelly confused so teh best thing to do is ask him and if he likes you just tell him when he the chance with you he blew it so it'sm not really your fault you have a boyfreind and just say sorry but i still want to be friends :):)
well i hope i helped
take care mwa mwa love : hilda
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I think he has liked you all this time but seeing you kiss another guy made him relize that he does. Sometimes it may seem like a person doesnt like you but that person really does. He didnt relize what he had until you relized he had lost it so he does like you finally. If you are only with this b/f b/c you liked someone else and needed to get over that person then thats the wrong reason to be with the guy.
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well since you currently have a steady boyfriend (i'll call him seth), your previous crush (whom i'll give the fabulous alias of jojo) is going to have to deal with it. maybe the reason he gave you a hurt look was because he used to having you like him and now you're with seth and your attentions are focused on him; not to stereotype the male gender, but his hurt look could be the sign of a slightly bruised ego.
from a personal standpoint, when i started dating my boyfriend, one of my best friends (who happens to be a guy) started to get a little, not jealous, but starved for my attention. he and i are really close and we joke around a lot and sometimes act/talk like we're lovers (i.e., he grabs my boobs and goes "honk", i smack him on the butt when he says something rude to me, we jump around in the backseat of his car to confuse his friends, etc. ^_^), and when i started spending more time with my bf, he kept asking every time we saw each other (which became less often) if i was still dating him, and "whine" at me when i said yes. but now the two of us are fine, because we've kinda talked about it and we know that we're still best friends.
now, i don't know how close you are to jojo (previous crush, remember?), but if you're really concerned about where you two stand with each other, then i'd go talk to him about it. don't go crazy and ask if he likes you, or do something like break up with seth and run to jojo.
biggest, most general advice i can give: don't overanalyse things. make sure you know the facts. if he has a problem with you dating/kissing seth, then jojo should talk to you about it.
hope this helped. good luck!
~*kitty*~
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I guess the question kinda is : Do you like this guy? Because if you don't then who you kiss is your business. If this guy has a problem with it, he will deal with it, it's not your fault.
good luck
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