Hey there. I'm 18, and my birthday is January 8th, 1988. I have brown hair, blue eyes, and I'm short.
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Please, if you have an answer, help me. Especially guys, they might understand:
The thing is, I have this guy cousin who is 15 and I was hanging out with him 2 months ago, and he really has gotten quite groovy looking since the last time I saw him. Infact, he is absolutely gorgeous. ANd he is the funniest guy I know, and amazingly fun to be around. And I love him as part of my family, but when I went to visit him in London, I realised that I think I have feelings for him. But I don't think he has any for me...then again, I don't understand how guys are...but he talks about sex with me all the time, and I have seen him pretty unclothed...and he was comfortable with that. But I don't know...is it wrong that I like him, and is it unusual? And how would I know if he likes me or not? (link)
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Okay, ignore the jokes ... that's a bit mean. Your just confused right now. But, no, don't pursue the thing with your cousin. He sounds like a sweet guy. A good guy. I think that maybe, mentally ... you don't have a crush on your cousin ... i think that you have a crush on that type of guy. the gorgous, funny, sweet type a guy that has no problem with telling you anything. I think you have a crush on the fantasy of that guy, not your cousin. Your just confused. And your cousin only undressed in front of you and felt comfortable doing it because your family, and I don't think he would expect you to be like "wow" at him because your his cuz. Anyways ... and he probley talks about sex with you all the time because you might be the only person he's close enough with to talk about that with. Anyways, I hope I helped. Bye.
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ive been goin out with this girl for over a month now. i havnt talked to her in like 4 days and everytime i try to she never answers and i send her messages and she dosnt get em
ive evan tried talkin to her but she won't talk back
what should i do?!?!?!?
(i really like her so much)
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Hey there ... um, something is up. I mean, to be truthful, i think she might be avoiding you. For reasons unknown really. Ask yourself some questions. Did you do anything that would make her angry, or sad that would make her want to avoid you? Was she acting weird before she started avoiding you? Because girls tend to avoid guys when a guy angers them. If she was acting weird before hand, there could be several reasons ... she might like another guy (not to be harsh, just an option of what's going on.) , you said something, and she took it the wrong way, or she could just be PMSing or something. I'm not really sure. As being a chick myself, I know, girls are very confusing, and are extremly emotional. Hope everything works out for you two!
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Me and My guy friend make out alot and its getting boring..Is there anything we can do to spice it up..Can you give details on how to do things too! I rate good! (link)
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Well, there are lot's of things you can do. If you guys don't already to this, use your hands and feel each other up. You have to take it in steps, so you'll feel comfortable. Once that gets boring to you, maybe you can start manual sex, or oral if you feel up to it. If you and your guy friend are close, and you feel you can talk to him, ask him how he feels about certain things like oral or whatever. That is truely the best way to deal with things like this, talk about it first. Hope I helped.
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i cut myself..badly..the underside of my left arm is alomst completley scard and my left upper thigh is wicked bad..my mom knows i did* it but she thinks i stopped i promised my ex-best friend i would stop but shes dumb ne way..my boyfriend hates it but he said he cant stop me..ive already been to therapy..they THOUGHT it helped..yea rite..but i found a new friend..lets call her Babee C..well she cuts..worse then me..she carves like long poems into her..all my friends arent talking to me because of it besides her..and the truth is i miss them all..i used to be wicked happy untill my dad got lung cancer..i loved him..and i was his baby..i really want to stop but everytime i see blood ne where..it makes me want to..i think i should just keep my head up and rmember my dad how he was before..but its gonna be hard..if ne one has any ideas of what else i can do to stop please help me..i cant keep livin this way..thanx xX mandie Xx (link)
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Hey there Mandie. I hate to say this, but you have an illness. Go to your family doctor, go back to therapy, and ask if they think that Anti - Depressants would help you. I know your going through a hard time right now, but no matter what happens to your dad, you'll always be his daughter. Also, stop hanging around with people who cut. It only encourages you. ithink you should talk to your friend too. Someone who carves long poems into them ... they sound like they need help too. Anyways, I hope I helped. ttyl.
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my best friend has changed soo much since last year.. her brothers are stoners and drunks and now she is starting to smoke and she also drinks some.. and i love her dearly and i dont kno what to do i try to talk to her but i am afraid shell get mad at me or something, somebody please help me!!!! (link)
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Hey there. Okay, obviously your friend doesn't have the best role models in the world. You should talk to your friend about what she is doing ... it's normal for teenagers to experiment, but if she starts making a habit of everything, then you have to talk to her. Your going to have to risk the chace of her being mad at you, because if you don't talk to her, she may not realize what she is doing to herself. But you also have to realize that teenagers usually drink sometimes ... but still, talk to your friend.
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my name is Alanna(girl)and i am 14 years old. I havent had a boyfriend in a while;i have had offers, but i feel like guys only like girls with good looks. how can i feel like guys like me for the right reasons? (link)
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Hey Alanna. Your pretty smart for a 14 year old, but I think that u should let your guard down just a tad. Some tips on how you know your guy isn't only for your looks are:
1. He looks in your eyes when he talks to you. Some guys don't do this because they are shy, so this isn't always the best one to be going for ...
2. Look for a gentlemen. A guy you've known for while who has always been nice. I mean the real kinda nice, not the, I'm-just-being-nice-to-get-with-you-nice. lol.
3. If you meet a new guy, give him a chance and get to know him better.
That's all I can think of right now. If you know a guy has got a bad rep or anything like that, stay away. You just don't want to get your heart broken. Good Luck with the guy thing though.
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((I'm 15/f))I think i am ready for sex but im not all that sure cause sometimes i think about it and think that i might regret it in the future. I REALLY like this guy tho. Also, I'm kinda scared that it will hurt really bad and i'm scared that i might not know what to do. What do u think? (link)
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If you think you will regret it in the future, then your not ready for sex. To me it seems that your body and brain are conflicting with each other. Your body is ready for sex, but mentally, your not. Here's how i see it, you say you really like this guy .... you should love the guy your having sex with. It makes sex better. Also, about the pain thing, the first time, it's always painful, but it doesn't hurt as bad as you think. And eventually, it starts to feel good, once your body is over the shcok of something different in your body. And with sex, everything comes naturally. If you are confused about anything, go to http://www.sex-project.com/ It's not a porn site, it is a site that gives information to women and men just like you.
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I am 23 years old. I just moved to California from Alaska with my boyfriend. The problem is, i do not think i love him. I am still in love with my guy friend back home. I am very unhappy in my current realtionship. I told him i wanted to go back home to Alaska. He agreed, but i am afraid once we get there, I will not want to be with him anymore. I want to be happy. My guy friend back home loves me also and i know that he would be with me and we would be happy but i do not want to break my boyfriends heart. What do i do to make this easy for us all? (link)
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Hi. Well, the sad truth of it is that somebody is going to end up hurt. Whether it be your boyfriend, your guy friend, or you. I think you should get together with your guy friend. First of all, you'd both be happy, and as much as your boyfriend will be crushed, I think he'd be happier knowing that he wasn't wasting his time with someone who didn't love him as much as he loved her. That's all I really know on the subject. Sorry, hope it works out for you.
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ummmm i was hanging out with my friend one day in a park kinda place, and ahh we were being attacked by a squirrel...i mean the squirrel literally crossed his arms and glared at us? he also hissed...so what does this mean? does it mean that the squirrel was pissy that day or did it really mean to do harm to me and my friend? please help me! (link)
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Hey there. Well, maybe you shouldn't hang out in the park anymore. lol. A squirrel???? Really. You musta been scared. lol. You probley clutched onto your friend for dear life. lol. He crossed his arms and glared at you? I've never heard of that before. He hissed? Maybe he is sick? I think he was just PMSing or something. lol. Do squirrels PMS? lol. Well, I'm sorry, I can't help you. I don't know what to say .... Bye
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how much is over protective when it comes to your bf. mines lives 15 mints away, but different schools different friends, i love him and trust him! but i know he used to be a player, and some of his friends dont like me because i actully broke his ways, i know he wouldnt cheat, but when i talk to some of his friends that are girls online i just get unconfrotable and feel bad when i hear things that he didnt wanna talk to me about, am i over reacting if im just not confortable when he talks to other women?
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Hun, i understand you completly. I'm glad you trust him. I'm also glad you broke his player ways!!!! Screw the friends who don't like you ... they're just mad because you changed your boy into a man. You are nto over reacting when you get uncomfortable about your boyfriend talking to other women. It's a normal feeling, that is very hard to deal with. You trust him though, and you know he wouldn't cheat. So everytime you feel uncomfortable, think of that. That is what I do. When you worry about things like that, you add a whole bunch of stress on you and your relashinship, so calm down, and you should actually just tell your boyfriend, "I get a little comfortable when you talk to other girls" or even "I get jealous easily, but i trust you, and I know you wouldn't hurt me."
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My parents and my bro dont get along at all. My parents have disagreed with my bros choices for years. My mom and dad dont want nething to do with him really. They are tired of him expecially mom. But my bro still wants to have a relationship with me (sister and bro). Should i stick with my parents or form a relationship with him.
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Family life can totally suck sometimes eh? Well, i can see where your stress is ... but the fact is, is that you don't have to choose which one to remain "faithful" to. It's your parents that are tired of him, and if they don't understand that you still want your brother in your life, then they don't matter. Keep your brother in your life, and your parents should understand. Maybe if they see your brother and you closer, they might decide to forget the disagreements and see what they have been missing.
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ok , i dont kno what to do anymore . im babyysitting this 4 yr. old little boy . i came at 9:30 this morning and like 10 min. after the mom left for work , he's throwing his toys at me , one hitting my chin , then he took some statue thing the parents hav and starts biting on it . nd i cant control this kid . can u help me pleasE (link)
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Hey there. I went through a simalar situation a couple of years ago, except I had two boys. Some things you can do is talk to the parents about it. That is something I did and they helped me out a lot! Another thing might be that he has trouble being around new people ... he may have to get used to you first. There are many possiblities, but talk to the parents. If things don't change in the next month, talk to his parents about finding a new babysitter.
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