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Q: I'm looking for a photo album with a lot of pages but all the ones I've been seeing are scrapbooks. Does anyone know a store that sells good photoalbums?

walmart, target, or hobby lobby.

Q: someone called me "boo" what does that mean?

It could mean baby, boyfriend, girlfriend, sweetie.

Q: Where can I find hollister-like camisoles/tanks/flowy shirts for less money?

fashion shop.

Q: well my eyebrows are a mess and there black and really thick and i dont kno wut hurts the most if pluck or wax im just a beginner so wut do i do i want something thats not painfull

Well, if they are thick it would be best if you went ahead and got them waxed because the hair dosen't grow back for a longer period of time. It might hurt the first time and be red but put some aloe vera on it and it should heal. It's just because it is the first time. Hope this helps!

Q: Hey guys. I'll be turning 16 on the 29th and I was planning on having a party with about 17 or 18 people, both boys and girls (5 guys, 12 girls or something like that). I don't live in a neighborhood, my house is pretty secluded, and I don't have a pool. So I was wondering if anyone had some good ideas as to what we could do. We can always watch a movie, but I feel like that might be too boring to do the entire time. Thanks to any suggestions!

You can play games like truth or dare or spin the bottle. You can turn music on and have a dance contest. You can play games with food and just be creative. Hope this helps.

Q: when you go to get your eyebrows waxed, what do they ask you? ive never been in my life or seen it happen or talked to anybody who has ever got them waxed. and i have this picture that is how i want my eyebrows, can i bring it? but yea. i just want to know what the lady will ask me. and how long it will take. and what all they do. (:

They ask you questions like "do you want an arch" or " do you just want a shape up" or what not. If you bring a picture of eyebrows that you like, they can do that for you.

Q: My best friend stopped eating, its been 16 days. What do I do, to get her to stop?! Help.

Talk to one of her parents about it! She might get mad at you but you seriously need to help her. She could get into a really bad condition. Talk to her about it also.

Q: Hi, I am 13/F if it helps:

I have a LOT of guy friends. Maybe even more than girl friends. All of me and my guy friends are really close. How come all of my girl friends get asked out and I don't? I am not ugly or anything, and I am pretty popular at school. How come none of my guy friends have a crush on me or anything?

Guy & Girl advice would be nice. Thanks beforehand!!!

Maybe people think if they ask you out then you will still hang around those guys and some guys get really jealous if their girlfriend hangs around other guys. Also, they might think since you hang out with guys you dont want a boyfriend. Hope this helps.

Q: okay so im 15....

and

pregnant! i just found out...
yes i know i am very young to be pregnant.
i will be 16 in 2 months.
so please dont write about how im too young and blah blah blah...i already know....dont need to hear it more. thank you.

anyways....today i was on the laptop and my dad was next to me and i was looking at abortion pictures and saying how horrible it was. and my dad was like so if you got pregnant you would keep it? and i said YES I COULD NEVER KILL A BABY! and then we had this whole argument on how its not a baby at a certain amount of weeks and whatever...so i showed him an article on how they get nerves at 4 weeks so they do feel it and he was like I DONT CARE ID DRAG YOU DOWN TO THE CLINC AND MAKE YOU GET ONE! i just kept saying you cant make me..

REMEMBER....HE DOES NOT KNOW IM PREGNANT!

also when he found out my mom was pregnant with my little brother he yelled and screamed at her and dropped her off at the clinc..she sat there for HOURS crying...finally went in but they said she was too far along to get one...thank god.

so my dad is capable of having the heart to leave me at a clinc.

how do i tell him im pregnant without going through that? im keeping the baby, im still with the father and he is staying with me so i have help.

when i tell my dad should i immediately tell him abortion is out of the question?

can he really force me into an abortion? thats my right though isnt it? its not like since im under 18 he could make it get it by law right?

either way i need to tell him soon because i want this baby to be healthy so regular checkups to the OBGYN and getting put on healthy stuff is needed asap.

i live in florida if that helps?
thank you.

Omg, i feel so sorry for you! Poor thing! Well, what i would do is tell him your pregnant so you don't het in trouble for keeping it from him. And when you do tell him, tell him abortion IS out of the question, it's your baby and you aren't going to kill it. It's your choice so you have to have bravery. Im really sorry about what your going through. Hope this helps.

Q: Hey, i'm 13 and I weigh 178 pounds and i'm 5'2, people say I don't look like it, but I do. I've played almost every sport you can name, soccer, volleyball, and basketball. My stomach looks ok, but its just my legs and thighs. I have alot of friends and stuff, but when they joke around about my weight and I get depressed. Especially when my brother jokes on me. I love excersising, but my also overweight mom always doesn't "feel like" taking me to the gym. I also try to eat healthy, but she stops me from it. I eathier eat what she brings home (Macdonald's, KFC, ect.) or I eat nothing scince there's never anything in the fridge. I tried dangerous ways, but I don't have the gag reflex which sucks. What do I do?

Don't get an eating disorder, that will just make it worse and cause you a lot of health problems. I would ask your mom next time she goes to the store to get fruits and vegetables, yougurt, just some healthy foods you can start out with, then ask her if you can make dinner once or twice a week and fix something really healthy for everyone and eventually you will feel better about yourself. Also, about excersising, you can walk around your block or run , whatever suits you, you can lift wieghts, and just stuff like that to get you in shape. Hope this helps!

Q: I got BAD sun burn on my nose, cheekbones, forehead, and lips. My lips are blistering, ouch. How do I help this healing process move faster???

Try aloe vera and get some chapstick that has sunscreen in it. Rub healing cream om your face and get some treatment chapstick for sunburned lips. Hope this helps!

Q: 15F

I have had a crush on one of my best friends for like 5 months now. He always flirts with me and his friends think he likes me. Everytime we go place in groups he always asks me to be his partner and whatnot. Anyways we went on a fieldtrip about 3 weeks ago and he followed me
the whole time. We went on rides together and everything.We even held hands a couple of times. The next day we had a dance.During the dance he asked my friends where i was but i didnt go. Monday when i was going to tell him i liked him
i had found out that he had asked a girl out at the dance.She said Yes.

Even though hes going out with
her do you think theres anychance for us?

Plus i found out that she
doesnt like him. She only
wants a BF. Oh and should i tell
him?

Well, i would ask him why he got a gf in such a short period of time. I do still think there is a chance for you guys because if he liked you and you liked him then you will probably end up being with eachother. good luck!

Q: for the summer i want to have a book i can read like while im tanning or somethings.
im 15 soo nothing like too kidish or like whatever. :)
umm so have any ideas on some good books :) ?

Anything by Jodi Picoult! She is a really good author and you will be hooked on all he books, i recommend "My sisters keeper" or "harvesting the heart"

Q: My name is BLANK and I need help. I am about to be convicted of a Federal Crime involving bank fraud from 1999. I lost my girlfriend, two children that I love, my job, and have no money.

I am an idiot and still have not learned from all of lifes mistakes.

I am in such pain and want to commit suicide. Please help me. I am in such pain. Just provide me with a way to commit the detergent suicide and end my life painlessly.

PLEASE HELP!

Don't Do It! You will regret it later! Please!!!! I cry every time somebody does this!! There are people in this world who care about you deeply even if you don't know it! You can turn your life around soon and start getting on the right track...Don't do it...you never get a second chance!!

Q: okay so i have been going out with a guy for about 2 months and i really really like him but these past few days he has been getting mad at me for the weirdest things like i got my phone taken away and he got mad at me and called me stupid and when i talk to him on the phone he starts yelling at me and calling me lazy and stupid
should i put up with that or should i break up with him?

Don't put up with that. He needs to respect you even if you cant call him. Your better than to be treated like that. Tell him its not your fault, and tell him not to yell at you and be demanding! hope this helps!

Q: http://s167.photobucket.com/albums/u140/bumarse/?action=view¤t=Untitled13.jpg

Above is a picture of me.
Recently I got in a megafight with a good guy friend.
He told me that I'm really, really, fucking ugly and it got to me.
Since he's always been honest with me.

So I'm wondering what you thing.
Btw my nose has a bump on it because I hit it a couple of weeks ago.
Sorry it's a posey picture. It's the most recent one I have :\

Omg, don't listen to people like that. You are really pretty so don't listen when people tell you that your ugly! Your very pretty so always remember that!

Q: Hi, I'm Jacky.
My life has been rough, because of me.
It got better, until I did stupid things, and now I feel like there's nothing else I can do to make it better, I just mess up more and more. The more I mess up, the more I look like a dumb ass.
First, I have a friend over and I sneak two guys downstairs at 11 at night, and my dad's caught us.
So, my dad and mom have absolutely no trust in me, what so ever. I actually think my family hates me, because I don't listen, and I do things I'm not supposed. I've been doing that, for the past years. Plus they found out I tried pot and I'm sexually active. So that's a huge minus. I get in huge fights with my parents, mostly with my dad. I feel like I just failed my family, honestly. I don't know how to talk or act around them anymore. I just feel uncomfortable and awkward.
And then, I reported this kid for selling drugs, which he sold them to me, and I told a teacher at school about it, and she ended up telling the principal on me, I thought I could trust her. Then I had to rat him out because of what I told my teacher, then I have to go to all this court shit and be a witness, which I don't really want to be. I wish this would've never happened, this kid is going to have a fucked up life with my involvement. What the fuck is wrong with me. It's all my fault. And I can't take it back. But that's my fault.
And 3rd, I cheated on my boyfriend with another guy. I couldn't stand my boyfriend, he's attracted to assholes, shit, and farts. And I'm being honest. He hits me. He's just a jackass. But he knows how to cover himself to make people believe him. But honestly, he was a huge part of my life. And now that's gone. But now I'm with the other guy, who hardly calls me, he says he thinks it's best because he doesn't want us to get too attached and end up being bored with each other. Now, I love talking on the phone, and really like him, but I don't know. I just think there's something wrong with me. I honestly think I'm hated by a lot of people. I do not know what to do with my life anymore. I'm really scared and stuck. I've cheated and lied before. And I've just been a bad person lately.
I wish I could've handled things differently. But, I didn't. I have no idea what to do. I feel like I've fucked up my life. I think a lot of people hate me too. But that's besides the point.
Please anybody, give me advice. I don't know how to start know, I have no idea what to do with myself anymore.
Thank you.

I would just try to be good and not get into drugs or sex and talk to your parents and tell them that your sorry for the things you did, that's your past and your planning to improve. Just start improving yourself a little at a time. Hope this helps..

Q: me and my best friend have been friends for a while we do everything together but here lately she has been telling me that my boyfriend was making out with his ex girlfriend and that he was cheating on me and when i ask him about it and my other friends they tell me that they havnt ever seen him kiss another girl and that he would never cheat on me but because of what my best friend it caused me and my boyfriend to break up so i dont know what to do any more.

It depends on who you trust more. Have they ever lied to you? If i were you i would believe the one who hasn't lied to you ever, and once you find out if he did that or not, if he didn't, i wouldnt consider being her friend. Hope i helped.

Q: ok so i have this friend her name is lizsandra. her recent boyfriend dumped her and he didnt tell her why he just said he wanted to be friends with her.so today at school she was in the girls bathroom making she was making herself through up and shes thinking of commmiting susicide what advice should i give her?

See an adult and tell them immediatly!!!!
This is the only way to save her life!!!

Q: for baby names can anyone think of any names that start have an "on" or "en" ending like :

braylon
brighten
lyndon
aiden

any other names like that boy or girl?
or just any unique cute names you can think of could help
thanx

braydon
allen
jackson
brandon
london

other names-
grace
michelle
maya
allison
sasha
jennifer

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