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Potential Boyfriend or Just Friends???
15F
I have had a crush on one of my best friends for like 5 months now. He always flirts with me and his friends think he likes me. Everytime we go place in groups he always asks me to be his partner and whatnot. Anyways we went on a fieldtrip about 3 weeks ago and he followed me
the whole time. We went on rides together and everything.We even held hands a couple of times. The next day we had a dance.During the dance he asked my friends where i was but i didnt go. Monday when i was going to tell him i liked him
i had found out that he had asked a girl out at the dance.She said Yes.
Even though hes going out with
her do you think theres anychance for us?
Plus i found out that she
doesnt like him. She only
wants a BF. Oh and should i tell
him?
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Is this guy stupid? If not he already knows you like him and he obviously likes you, don't be stupid and tell him something he already knows. If you want to do something with him, do something with him. It doesn't matter one bit who else he is doing something with.
Life is about choices, but you have to know what you have to choose from. At your age you should not be looking to limit your choices, or the choices of others. Don't try to out guess other peoples motives, just get out there and play the game.
Be a part of his life, let him be apart of yours. Get to know each other, that's what it's about. The others he gets to know are of no consequence to you, this is about your relationship and what it is going to be. Are you afraid of a little competition?
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Well, i would ask him why he got a gf in such a short period of time. I do still think there is a chance for you guys because if he liked you and you liked him then you will probably end up being with eachother. good luck!
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Well, I'm mingling a bit with this answer, because I don't see why you would be interested in a guy who acted like he liked you in all these ways you mentioned, and then decided to ask out another girl at the dance that you didn't attend. It sounds kind of shady to me..especially because he's your best friend. I really feel that you can do better.
But, since I know it's hard to tell any girl that they can do better then whatever guy they're dealing with.. I'll suggest that you just wait around. See what happens with them. You don't need to be the one to tell him about this other girl's intentions, because word will get around on her being fake.
After they're over, then yes, they're may be a good chance that you and him have a chance.
I wish you the best. Let me know what happens.
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Judging from his actions I would say there is a chance he is very interested in you, but persuing this right now would be a bad idea.
If this girl really doesn't care about him she won't stay with him long. So have patience. If you run to him with gossip he may get upset with you. Plus you can never trust rumors. If you didn't hear it from her, it's null and void.
Just wait it out. Still be his friend, and as soon as she's out of the picture snatch him up!
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