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My best friend is lying to me about my boyfriend.
me and my best friend have been friends for a while we do everything together but here lately she has been telling me that my boyfriend was making out with his ex girlfriend and that he was cheating on me and when i ask him about it and my other friends they tell me that they havnt ever seen him kiss another girl and that he would never cheat on me but because of what my best friend it caused me and my boyfriend to break up so i dont know what to do any more.
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OKay I think that you and all the other people that answered this question and being naive. Do you think tha your boyfriend would admit that he was cheating to you? Doubt it. If this person is really your best friend then why would she want to hurt you. Friends are there to help you not sabotage your relationships. Wouldnt she want to see you happy? And just because no one else saw it doesnt mean that its not true. And how would you feel if he was cheating on you and she knew it and didnt tell you? Im sure you would be mad about that. Give her a break. And if your still unsure do some detective work and find out if hes cheating yourself. But dont just take his word for it.
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You should believe who you think is telling you the truth.Who do youu trust more? Think about who has ever lied to you. And im not saying that your bff is right but maybe you've been spending to much time with your boyfriend and she's getting jelous.Or maybe your boyfriend is right because like you say that all of the other people say they have'nt seen him with anyone so how come the only one is your friend. doesn't that sound weire dto you. Hope I helped and that you make the right decision. I think tha tif you really love your boyfriend and you trust him thendon't be afraid to take a risk. If he was dating someone else I think you would know by now.
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princessita
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It depends on who you trust more. Have they ever lied to you? If i were you i would believe the one who hasn't lied to you ever, and once you find out if he did that or not, if he didn't, i wouldnt consider being her friend. Hope i helped.
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I am sure your best friend is jelous. It happens to the best of us. you are going in a different direction than your friend and she is not liking it. You need to tell her that your life is your own and that hers is hers. Many people try to make you who they want you to be and you cannot let her do that!
Tell her that she has to stop lying and even if she is telling the truth you will find out on your own and that is not her business or her place to interfer.
I hope I helped
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Well if your friend is the type that lies alot DON'T beleive her. But I think in my opinion that your bff is probley right. If she's truely you bff she wouldn't lie like that. BUT if she's been jelous of u spening more time with your bf then her then she might be lying to make you dump him for her. so I don't know it depeneds on your friends
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if you know shes lying, then just ignore her. or tell her to knock it off.
or, maybe your bf is the one who is lying.
what i would do is all three of you: your friend, you, and your bf...and get them to argue this case out until one of them confesses about lying. both of them cant be telling the truth, and both of them cant be lying.
if one of them isnt being truthful, its your job to find out, right? anyways, i hope i helped. and i hope everything works out for you. take care. :)
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Some people will say things like that to get a couple to break up. I'm not saying she is but I would sure find out.
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