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ok so i have this friend her name is lizsandra. her recent boyfriend dumped her and he didnt tell her why he just said he wanted to be friends with her.so today at school she was in the girls bathroom making she was making herself through up and shes thinking of commmiting susicide what advice should i give her?
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Report it to an authority figure. A teacher, parent, adviser. I know you might be worried about her being angry with you-- but her life is apparently on the line. She confided in you.. so she trusts you. Make the right decision for her.
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See an adult and tell them immediatly!!!!
This is the only way to save her life!!!
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I have had this happen many many times take it from a pro this is what you do:
1. Reminder her of how much you love her and
you dont know what you would do with out her
2. Give her a brief list of people that love her to death
3. Tell her that you will always be there for her no matter what
4. Tell her what she has to look forward to such as another boyfriend sometime in the future
5. Tell her the boy isn't worth making her suffer over
Try that
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Oh jeez. i've been through this before. SUICIDE IS NOT THE ANSWER! remind her of how loved she is. let her know that things are only temporary. they WILL get better. show her how much you care about her and how much everyone else cares. remind her of her family and how devistated they would be if they ever lost her. just show her how much better her life will be in the futer. tell her what she has to look forward to... (getting married, having kids, ect.) all the fun things in life.
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i really really hope this helps. and after you've talked to this girl, i would really like to know what happens. so please let me know.
"ok i know sucide seems like the only way out. BUT killing yourself means that life for you right now is as bad as it's ever gonna get, which means, it WILL GET BETTER. the time might not be this instant but it will soon. and for this guy that left you... you should be glad because why would you wanna be with someone who doesn't want you? it should just be a TURN OFF for any guy who doesn't like you for who you are... and i'm sure there are plenty of things to like (here would be a good time to name some). and suicide isn't the answer... its only an easy way out.. so would you rather find a way out, or stick around and find a guy that's absolutely amazing... which i'm sure will happen.
IM me if you or this girl wanna talkk and please let me know if i helped and if she's alright.
xxes25 is my s/n
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well, let her know how much u love her, and how much her family loves her. Tell her how much it would hurt all of you if she was gone, and then tell her that no guys is worth that. Its his loss, and shes still young. There are plenty of guys out there, and she should be happy that he dumped her because now she has the chance to meet the right guy, someone who will appreciate her and treat her the way she deserves to be treated.
Getting dumped is not the end of the world, its the beginning of a new and hopefully better relationship..lol
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