i never tried this ask a random columnist thing before but oh well. Im 15 years old, female, from a small small town and like every teenager i have issues. sometimes i just feel so alone and i have friends and they are the best and i have family who are great as well but still i cant help but feel alones sometimes, also i cant help but feel like im not doing what im supposed to be doing like somehow im living a different life than what i was supposed to. i just need someone to talk to and maybe someone who can relate you dont need to answer this but u if do thats great too -PeachEffect
Psycotheis answered Monday May 12 2008, 6:41 pm: Loneliness is a common feeling among people. Big town, small town; lots of friends, few closer friends. Doesn't matter. Its always been a terrible factor in my life. I've moved so many times, I've never actually had any childhood friends. And my parents aren't even in the army! So I hear all my friends talk about people they new since elementary and it makes me feel rather lonely myself. I can't tell you its a phase that will go away, but I can tell you that being with your friends takes that loneliness away for small moments of time is good enough, in my opinion.
If you feel like your not living the life you think you should be living, then find what you think you should be doing and find ways to start doing them. You can easily change your life by the choices you make. Trust your instincts, that gut feeling of yours, as well as your conscience, and all the things that should happen will happen, and the right things will come in time. Your only 15, so you have a ton of time to figure out what you feel you should be doing in your life. If you need someone to talk to, anyone you trust most dearly and you know will listen intently to what you say will be the best person to talk to.
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