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I'm not perfect. But the heartbeats add up. As well as the life challenges. And I'm only 25. So I'm here. To help those I can. Try and make a difference in someones life.to better somes life by being someone that's there when they have no one.
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My little sister's birthday is coming up and I want to get her something that is Bella Thorne related. She loves her and I want to get her something related to her. So is there any Bella Thorne online stores or something? Please help (link)
could make her some book marks?
take to sides squish over a stiff piece of cardboard n tape?
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http://bellathorneonline.com/interact/

here's some stuff n ebay you might like:

http://www.ebay.com/itm/BELLA-THORNE-Charm-Bracelet-/360427934310?pt=UK_Jewellery_Watches_CostumeJewellery_CA&hash=item53eb2dd266

http://www.ebay.com/itm/NEW-Release-2012-Disney-V-I-P-Shake-It-Up-CECE-JONES-VIP-Doll-Bella-Thorne-/220960685547?pt=LH_DefaultDomain_0&hash=item3372487deb

Hope this helps
*Jasmine!


21/f
Im going to try to make this short so here it goes. I had a fling with a guy who had a girlfriend of about 5 years last year. We went to the same college in pennsylvania. I lived in Pa and he lived in Ohio which was where his girlfriend lived and went to school. It was more then a fling though, we spent everyday together and I believe we both fell in love with one another. It turns out that we were transferring to different colleges our junior year (which is this current year) and we both cried and he said he would visit me since he was not willing to try a long distance relationship with me which I was willing to do. He never visited in the summer like he promised yet we texted all the time (he didnt break up with his girlfriend until the end of the summer) through the school year this year we've been texting still and once again he has promised to see me about 3 times and never came which got me upset because I still loved him and wanted to see him. He claimed he didnt have enough money and that he couldnt see me in the summer because he still had a girlfriend at the time.He texts me that he misses me and thinks about me yet he dosent do anything about it. Well, I met a guy through the guy from ohio at our campus named drew. We hung out over winter break and we ended up having a crush on each other. It turns out I found out that he liked me for about a year. He transferred to the ohio school that the guy from ohio transferred too, plus their roommates. drew has voiced to me that he wants me to be his girlfriend in the future so possibly in the summer we will make it offical and he is willing to make the long distance relationship work where as the guy from ohio was not willing to do. I realized that the guy from ohio was a jerk yet I still love him and probably always will he kind of is to be the guy that got away even though he was a jerk to me. So to move on, I deleted him from my friends on facebook and his number so I can forget him. After I deleted him about 15 minutes later i gt a message on facebook from the guy from ohio saying: Hey, I was going to text but I remembered you got a new phone, but listen just wanted to say I think about you a lot and it still bugs me how I think you view me or us. I'll never try to come between you or drew and you don't have to answer me back I just wanted to say that to make me feel better. The "make me feel better part" really got me like what a jerk. And he did not even have to say that i mean he did not want to try to do a relationship with me and what he just told me did not really need to be said ya know? plus he is kind of interfering with me and drews relationship. I like Drew he is such a sweet guy but I still think about the guy from ohio because I loved him and he always comes in and out of my life. Should I respond or not say anything? did i do the right thing because if he "thought about me alot" he would come and try to visit me right?like what did that note mean? Thanks! (link)
I been were you are.. sort of.. Stuck on a guy who got away. I'm just now getting over the guys who have been on my mind.

personally i wouldnt even reply.. Cool he's happy for you. cool.. he thinks of you.. but honestly..do u really give a sh*t. i mean. You have found a greay guy in drew. who is actually willing to try a relationship even thought it's long distant and make it work. he sounds like a keeper,

Ohio other dude. is prob just jealous.
You've moved on.. Congrats!!

Hope this helps
*Jasmine!


Would size 215/60r16 tires fit for a car with tires that are size 205/50r16 ?? How do tire sizes work? Thank you (link)
http://www.tirerack.com/tires/tiretech/techpage.jsp?techid=46

Hope this hels
*Jasmine


I want to do something nice for my boyfriend of 2 an d a half years.


We have done most things, hotels, breaks away, dvd film nights, cooking dinner, going out for dinner, all the romantic things

I wanted to take him to a spa to relax him as he has been really upset lately but he said he would feel uncomfortable as his skin is quite flared on his back and he has trouble with acne. What can I do thats relaxing or just a nice day out in general where he can let loose?


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Give him a full boy massage spa day at your house or in a hotel especiallyfrom the one he loves the most. you.


There is a solar flare that is about to affect my area so I wanted to know a little bit more about them.

I know they are balls of gas from the sun and aren't always powerful enough to reach Earth. But why do they affect some technology? Also, does it create any changes in the environment? Can you see them?

Thanks. (link)
http://hesperia.gsfc.nasa.gov/sftheory/flare.htm

http://www.lunarplanner.com/SolarCycles.html

Hope these help.

^*Jasmine~




Can I lose 20-25 pounds in less than 10 weeks if I eat healthy, 1200 calories and work out 1 hour everyday. I'm 5'5" and 145 pounds (link)
Depends what areas youare working on.. a huge thing is diet. no fast food. no cheating.. and my fitness buddysaid results don't start showing for about amnth. you might have to work out for a couple hours a day.. what i usually do is run for 30mins. do 10 ab exercised 3 reps each a minute. ad your usual muscle work outs for an hr to hour ana half

Jasmine


There's i guy i started talking to at the beggining of the year when we took a band trip. Hes really nice and i was kinda shitty to him yesterday because he has me all confused. He asked me what was wrong but then had to leave so instead i got everything out and texted it to him and now he wont answer my calls or texts and i think i might have really hurt him... Can anyone help me out?
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what do you mean by got every thing out.. such as what did you say to him.. tell us that and wecan give u advice but from what you put it's far to a wide question to answer.





I'm looking to make a slide slow video similar to what you would use in Youtube with music and pictures. I was wondering if anyone could possibly explain to me exactly how to do this? I am not familiar with Window Movie maker and this video is to post to a family member on Facebook. It will have nothing to do with Youtube I am just looking for video similarities or if there is another program out there I could use preferably free. (link)
try Windows powerpoint. or looking at a tutorial forwindows movie maker


I have no interest in becoming anorexic but seriously, how do they eat so little for so long!? I went 2 days without eating because, well I forgot lol. Anyway, I eat so much, like a LOT!!! I couldn't imagine ever not eating for so long! Are anorexics really that determined? Thanks! :D (link)
It's a illness that makes them think that eating is a bad thing to do. they look in the mirror and no matter how skinny they are they see someone like peter griffen. for example only.
Somtimes it can get really really bad!


Jane 13/f
For the past week this guy maybe 18 or 20 has been sending me disgusting messages on facebook and I don't know him. First he started sending me messages like how old are you and where do I live, but I never answered. Now he sends me messages like I want to F**k you or he would send me messages saying he wants to touch my body and other disgusting messages. Now I starting to get scared and he won't leave me alone. What should I do. (link)
I had this happen when i was in elentary school. I know exactly how you feel. This person also threatened to hurt my parents if i told em. to this day im still worried who ever it is will pop up.. You have to tell your parents. You have to report him especially if he lives in your city. Print out those messages as proof. This is cyber harrasement. then you have to perminently block him on facebook.

Don't be scared jane, you are not going through this alone. i'm here for you!


So ... I need to know pushing out a guys sperm out of your vaginal or where da seamin goes does it make a different weather you do or not or can u still get pregnant ??
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hhahaha. First off. You can't 'push' sperm out. penis' are very long and go deep inside. The only way to help with the preventation of getting pregnant. is birth control and condoms. If you forget a few pills. You can take 'the morning after' pill the next day.


Hi ,
I am in this relationship for the past year n a half. It started off as a family friend proposing this guy but we ended up meeting in private n falling in love before this could happen the formal way. His parents were totally against it since they thought he could do better and I was not their choice. After a long battle he convinced them.Engagement n wedding dates got finalised and broken off in a week since his mom kept constantly trying to find faults with me n my family n spoke rudely to my dad. with such things happening me n my guy ended up fighting over everything n he complained about our fights to his family n my dad. Hence I had to call it off. But we still love each other n panning to still make it work . he is going abroad next week n is going to settle there. He wants me to settle things with his mom n marry him in few months. M not sure wot m supposed to do since his family totally hates me. And my boyfriend hardly has any communication skills,and doesnt wish to talk to his parents anymore regarding this. Is it worth it? staking my self respect n family's ego? Any suggestions? (link)
Dearfamily. I know you don't like me. And i know that you think your sun could do better. But our son is happy. He deserves to be happy. With who he chooses. NOt who you choose. I make your son happy. and he makes me happy. Please accept the fact that he's in love with me. and i'm inlove with your son. You need to be the better perso and accept the fact that although you may not like me. You son wants to be married to me. he wants to live with me. and you have to accept it. Think of your son in this situation not your self. This is not your happyness it is his. I am marring your son. because I AM GOOD ENOUGH. And you have to bite your tongue. and realize, I love your son. I am not going away. And you have to be quite and accept it. Do not judge me on my faults. do not try to find things wrong aboutme to report to your son. because we are happy. LET US BE HAPPPY. snap your ego in half. and deal. This is our lives. let us be happy. please support us.

haha.. just an idea of what i would say. hope this helps!


Okay, so to start off my boyfriend is very insecure. He's the kind of guy who thinks being friends with guys,is no good. Also if I'm smiling and talking to guys, he'll instantly expect that I'm going behind his back and doing something wrong. This lead me to believe something was not right with him and, what if something was going on behind mine?

Haha, and here's where things get great.

The other night I had the chance to casually look through some things on his laptop while he was out for about 10 minutes. I know this is wrong, but I have things that can back me up. He is constantly looking at my phone, facebook messages, and is basically an overall controlling in his actions. I accidentally left my computer over his house the other night, and know better to assume he didn't just "put it in it's case". Had he have trusted me, I would have respected his privacy as well.

What I found clearly surprised me, although, I expected it to happen.

What I found, under and untitled folder, was a ton of other folders. These folders had names of various ex's, and some other girls I knew. When I opened up the folders I saw naked pictures, photoshopped pictures of the girl on other pornstars' bodies and some possibly sent to him. There were about 6 folders, and I know pretty much all of the girls. Also, one was of me (and of a picture I hadn't known he'd taken of me). My hands are shaking just writing this. I wouldn't be so upset, if one folder wasn't so recent. It was of a girl he had just met at school,and I've even hung out with her. He'd took all of these girl's pictures off of facebook, while we were dating. I'm not sure if they were sent to him or not, but some, look clearly sent.

Now, now I just don't know what to do. I can't unsee what I've seen and feel that all he's been is a lie. We've been dating for about 2 years, and on the surface things are wonderful. We've told eachother how much we love one another , but I trust my instincts and intuition enough to try to comprehend that something,right now, is not right.

My question is what would YOU do? I need more perspectives. (link)
Honestly. I would take a 'break' tell him you need some time to think about the relationship.
Tell him, you just need some time.
and think seriously. Don't talk to him. Don't text him. Give it at least a week to litterly think about you two.

What is a relationship with out trust. It is nothing. If you can't trust someone how can you trust them with your future.

Is it worth being withsomeone, and forgeting a lie or thinking everything is fine when it's not.
This guy obviously wants to have his cake and eat it too. I know you deserve better than some guy who takes naked pix of recent girls.

I know this is honest. But if those pictures are really recent. Then there is no saying, just what he is doing, or what he is capable of doing.

Sometimes, it's better to let go, then to be in a relationship lie. Ive been in one. And i'm much better today then i was then. I got out off his control. His power oer me.


I'm 15 and so is my boyfriend. He and I have been dating for about a month and 2 days now. I love him to pieces (link)
First of hon.. This is a bad sign of a relationship. He needs to understand, that you are not commited to spend every second with him. You have your own life. And your own commitements. Your a cheerleader, and your squad has responsiblities for you.

If you don't stand up for yourself here are some things that might happen:
- You will lose your friendships.
- he will control your every move.
- You won't be able to do anything with out his approval.

My ex best friend got into this situation and it's alot mor violent and dangerous now.

You deserve to do what you want, when you want.
And if he breaks up with you,. because you have your own commitements. then screw em. You deserve someone alot better. and your still very young. Don't let a guy control you!!

:Jasmine*


Hey 13/F. There is this boy in my class we became best friends and now he ignores me on bbm but chat with me in class. He is not mad at me. And he is not busy do j think he likes me? (link)
hmm.. not likely. because i guy who likes you would talk to you other then just face to face.. ask him about it. and his reasonings? As him if he only talks to you face to face because he's forced to by the situation,


So first of all I have a phobia of throwing up and what started this was that a few years ago I drank too much soda and was throwing up all night. Every since then I have refused to sit on the couch the I spilled on and I have been scared to sleep in my bed. My mom wakes me up every morning because I am immune to my alarm clock and I wake up by being yelled at like this morning. She said she might a well take my bed out of my room but I am scared to tell her why I don't sleep in it. How can I overcome this? It also could be helpful it you could tell me how to wake up with an alarm because in a couple of years I will have to get up before my mom.... Thanks! :D (link)
as far as the alarm clock goes.. try different ones. I had one that didn't work at all switched to my phone that worked for a while. now it doesn't.. I think over time you get used to the sound so it doesnt effect you the same.. as for can't sleep in your bed.. definetly talk to your mom about it.


I have a boyfriend which every girl seems to like. I've been getting threatening phone calls from girls. What should I do? (link)
Talk to your boyfriend for first off. Second of all. Talk to your parents i your still living with them. and under 21 kinda thing. also talk to the police. If your afraid for you life. you need to report these girls to the police. You should not be threatened and they need to be put in your place.


I am 12/F and there is this guy that I was best friends with for 4 years. But on my 5 birthday, WHEN I TURNED 5, he kissed me. He always gives me presents like he's raided his mom's jewelry box for presents. Now he will text me and ask stuff like "what level are we at" and I don't like him I mean he's kinda rude and he likes to show off. I'm confused so help. Please? (link)
Tell him the truth. Be honest with him. Tell him that you only see him as a friend, and nothing more. and that you will not be anything more than that. And if you really think he raided his mom's jewelery box. then you should do the right thing. and give those things back to his mom.. she could have gotten some of that stuff from her grams or her mom.. and be extremely important to her.

do the right thing.


How to know if my cherry is popped/hymen is torn?
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You will have a little bit of bleeding but won't last the same length ofyour period should only last a few ten seconds.


My boyfriend gets jealous when i talk to male friends in the office...i am thinking it was a mistake afterall (link)
First of all he has to understand that you have friends. and some of them are guys. he has to understand that he has to trust you to do the right thing. and not do anything more then talking.
He needs to trust you. Especially at the office, your not gonna go to sex with them. when you are in a committed relationship.
Talk to him about his jelousy issues.




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