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Hey Everyone!
My Names Tory I'm 15 years old and a freshman in highschool.
I really like riding horses,watching Grey's Anatomy (my favorite is Kate Walsh aka Addison),fashion, graphic design, and taking pictures. I'm pretty good with most computer, iPod, and Myspace things so if you ever need any help with those, feel free to ask me. I also know a lot about drama, particularly with small groups.
But those are just a few of the things that I am pretty farmilar with, so if you ever need help with anything please don't hesitate to IM me, or leave a question in my inbox.
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My math 10 teacher has been acting really strange around me. He came up to me the other day and said "my wife's maiden name is the same as yours". He also said I reminded him of his wife when she was younger, and said it in a kind of romantic (yuck) way. Another time he caught me and my friend writing notes, and then he came up to me, tried to read the note, and then said "oh it's a love letter to me". Another girl heard and thought he was joking, because she said "I highly doupt that sir". But I know he was being serious. I always catch him staring at me. One day he heard me say the F word. He told me to stay behind after class. Instead of giving me crap, he said "I'm really suprised at you, but I'm just going to give you a warning". He was talking seductively. I know he was enjoying having me all alone.
It feels really gross and wrong of him. I am only 15. He's like old enough to be my father. What should I do, and is he being inappropriate or am i overreacting?

wow thats very scary. you should definitly TELL AN ADULT or thhe princeable of your school. I am almost positive that uyou are not overreacting, 1st feelings are almost ALWAYS CORRECT..yep.. hope this helps

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15/f. ok i have a problem. i am always thinking someone is behind me or someone is going to kill me or something! i seriously have no idea why, but i just want to stop thinking about it and get these thoughts out of my head. please dont tell me to go to therapy thats not an option right now. thank you what are some things i can do?

i not trying to not answer ur question but here is what i have to say. well this used to happen to me all the time it happens sometimes still. this could be happening because you are feeling gulity for something you have done wrong. if you think this is the reason you need to find a way to resolve the problem and not keep it bottled up inside you.. if you have more questions hit my inbox.

please let me know if this helped or not..
Tory

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Is it uncommon for a 13-year-old girl to want love?

Nope not at all uncommon....just the loveliness of being a women *ahem*...Hope this helps

Tory

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i'm 113 pounds right now and i need to lose about... 15 pounds but i'm 5'7 so it's sort of hard any suggestions?

Um please dont lose wait u are very thin alread espescailly for your height...eat helthay ...small portions...

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Hey guys, I wanted to know what kind of hair products make your hair sleek and shiny, won't weigh it down and conceals dead ends? Thanks. I'm open to all opinions =)

Um Garnier Sleek and Shine conditioner is awesome i love it works awesom and i have REALLY thick hair. Hope this helps.

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what are sum programs to download any type of music?

lmewire....so i have heard

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my hair is very hard to straighten..what are sum products i can use to straighten it.

thanks. i rate 5's

what kind of sriaghtener do you have..vidal sasson works best with all types of hair..they are only about $20-$30 dollars at Longs.
Hope this helps.

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How do you hook up the 100 dollar Kodak Easy share cameras to the computer to load them? I don't have a docker. I have one wire that you're supposed to hook up the Camera to the computer with, but where on the back of the computer do you hook it up too? I didn't read the directions because I want to take the easy way out.

Thank you :) - Adrianna, 15

Oh and I don't know if this helps but, I do have a memory card.

well it is easiest for me to put my picture card into the computer. but that will only work if ou have the spaces for the card under the cd spot.

hope this helps ...if you have more questions message my inbox

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13/f and well i have just recently gotten my first period, but its been a week and 3 days already and i still have it !! its light right now but is it suppossed to be like this considering its weird the first time or is there something wrong with me ??

xoo ♥

no its completely normal...it kinda creepy i know

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Could this be a possible sign of a STD?

I have this open, gaping wound in my mouth. It's more like a hole inside my mouth. A lot of the time it's white, but you can see it going into my mouth.
I've been sexually active, but not in the past month and this has just appeared in the last week.
My boyfriend I am 99.99% sure that he is STD free because I'm the only one he's bee sexually active with.
Could this just be a severe canker sore? Or possibly I bit my lip and didn't remember? Or is there a chance it's a STD.

If you have any idea what an oral STD might look like, I'd like to know that too.

Thank You

i have had canker sores that were very very bad and sound as you described. but you might want to have it checked.. hope that helps.

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hey...im 13 and tody i think i might have started my period but im not sure if its like blood or a stain because it happened twice so what i want to know is does it look like red like actual blood or kinda brownish?

yes you did get your period and it does look brownish at times.

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Who sings "IM SPRUNG"?? Please help me out here!

t pain
love that song

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okay i have a total big problem with biting my fingernails..i want to stop but i don`t know how. its like a bad habit i have tried to stop but couldn`t..sorry sounds sooo weird..

i would try chewing on something such as chewing cum or even altiods or some candy or mint of some kind to suck on to take you mind off it. this worked for me, just consantly have mints or small candies on hand. (hope this helped).

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so recently there was this guy on my bus and he is know gone for a couple of months for harrassing me and my friends. well he has a twin brother and sister. well his brother has a criminal back ground (such as convicted of attempted murder and that stuff) confirmed by the police and his mother. i was at school the other day waiting for the bus afterschool and i was hanging out with some friends and it looked as if his brother was walking straight towards me and i kinda freaked out a little bit and then like he turned a little and was right behind my friend i was talking to and played a gun shooting noise on his cell phone and looked straight at me. He looked me straight in the eyes and my friends were all like ummm... okay? and i was terrified. As soon as he turned the corner i got up and ran to the nearest adult and just stood there. I know i should of went to our school officer but i wasn't thinking clearly. That monday when we got back to school i went to our school officer about it and she did nothing. I mean wasn't she supposed to do something about it? What can I do?

wow i would be freaked out 2. what i would do is tell a parent what exacttly happened or you could go to the school councoler(sp sorry). hope this helps some...love and hope it works out.

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Ok, first of all my girlfriend and I are both sophomores in High School. We've been together for just over two months but we've known each other for almost four years and everything is going okay. But i'm in the middle of a depression right now and its making me reconsider a lot of things. For your information we don't have a typical on-off high school sort of romance. See we've determined that we are soulmates and intend to marry when we can (we even made these cheap little pretend rings to wear until then); in short, we're very serious for teenage romance. My question centers around the speed of the relationship. We've basically done everything aside from sex and being a guy, I feel I should try to get it to that point, you know? But for some reason all I really want to do is slow down. I feel if I tell her this, she will think I'm not ready for the kind of relationship she wants. And if she does, she might want to find someone else. My question is should this relationship take a step back or stay where it is now?

if you are as seriuos as you say you are then this should not be a problem at all. this girl should accept yourfeeling if she loves you. i know that am in no place to say this i cant tell you how ur supposed to feel,right? but you should not feel pressured to have sex, the best thing to do is to talk to her and see what place she is in. im sure everything will work out great! luv and happiness __tT__

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ok well im suppose to spend the day with my bf and i hve this huge like BUMP on my face.. pretty close to my nose.. ive had it for like 2 or 3 days and i popped it bc it was a zit when i first got it.. yah i know ur not sapose to pop zits.. but now it is like a big red bump and it doesnt hve puss or anything in it.. well im suppose to spend the day with my bf and it looks so hideous... any home remedies that will help plllleeeaasse....

ummm make up...ski mask (srry i had to)

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ok there is this guy lets call him bob.. a lot of girls like him and im a very lucky girl. he likes me back.ive liked him for only 2 weeks and hes liked me for over 2 months and i just told him online on friday that i like him. he told me that he LOVES me back. the problem is that hes moving like 40 minutes away from here so he might not come to our school anymore. He says that if he does still come to our school then he will go out with me. Thats the least of my problems now.. we both have myspaces. and he has some friends that i dont know because they dont go to our school. And they're girls. they always leave him comments saying that they love him etc.. and he does the same with them sometimes . now i dont know if hes playing around with me or if hes serious when he tells me that he loves me and thinks im pretty.i tend to jet jealous alot because of this. so what should i do ? should i tell him ? and whenever we are online and we talk to each other we say the same things over and over again like i love you i miss you etc... so if you have any suggestions on what to talk about that would be nice too!
im sorry for writing so much i just really had to get this out
~ heart broken~
Oh AND IM 13/F IF that helps

okay well im a 14/f and i have lots of friends and i say i luv u to them all time ..its nothing serious...other times i mean it and im serious...so yeah if that helps at all the i luv yous he says to his girl-friends are most likely harmless. ask him if it bothers you...be mature about it though.

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ive been dating my boyfriend off and on for 5 years. were together and doing very good right now... but christmas is just around the corner and i cant think of anything!! every one says get im cologne or clothes but he wouldnt like that. were 16 and i know one of the things he got me and its a bracelet..i want to get him something special. maybe something i make and something to buy. im willing to spend 35-40$ any ideas?? thanks!

well if you have been dating for that long you most likely have pictures...so maybe make a little memories srcap= book with fun times you have had together. something to buy could be a little suffted animal or necklaces with eachothers name (barclets).....okay hope this helps srry i couldnt think of anything very good.

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i went to the pet store to buy some things for my dog, and when i went to the cashregister i donated a dollar to a pet fund. well then the girl asked me to write my pets name on the paper that they hang up, so i did. however about 15 minutes later i realized i wrote my other dogs name on the paper, who died last year! now i know that's not a crime or anything but i felt really weird because it's like i still thought he was my dog & i feel guilty. am i a bad person?!

no your definitly not a bad person at all!!! you just miss your old dog alot...most likely because you were very attached. you shouldnt feel guilty maybe talk to someone to get rid of the greif you have in you. love and hope it helps.

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Can you give me some websites that sell cute clothing. not hollister,abercrombie,american eagle or old navy. Thanks alot i dont know where to shop with my christmas money lol!

www.wetseal.com
www.forever21.com thats all i can think of
luv and peace

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