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How short do you have to be to be considered a migit? im 15 and 4'10...does that make me a migit?

no, i know a few adult asians that are even shorter than that...like 4'8.

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Hey ok i just asked a question about how old you should be to wear a thong and most people said about 13 and well im 13 and i wanta ask my mom if we can get some but how should i ask??

well next time your shopping, preferbably at a place you would get some, ask her normally (mom can i get a thong?) and state a reason like "to hide pantylines" and i doubt she would have a problem with it. if she does, then buy it yourself. dont try sneaking...shes bound to find them in the laundary sometime and with some clothes its obvious to tell when you are wearing one.

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Ok my best friend started datin this guy and his name is Josh but ever since they started datin she has been ditchin me like crazy and I am sick of it.Besides he is supposed to ask a lot of girls out which he has but she won't talk to me so I can't tell her what should I do?

so basically she finally got a chance with a player and she thinks your gonna be there forever for her? see what happens when they break up, then shell be talkin. well you cant really do anything about it but if hes a player, i doubt it will last very long anyway so just hang in there. another thing is, it happens to everyone at some point, usually in the first couple of relationships, if you are not extra careful...pretty typical, dont worry too much about it. hope this helps!

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who sings that song that like "move, its on,B**** N**** goanna rock yo dome" ive heard this song in movie trailers, commercials and its a very high tension song its rap by the wway i really wanna no pleaz help me out!!!

i know ive heard that! im gonna guess lil john and the east-side boys. im not posative but from the looks of it i doubt anyone else knows.

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MY FRIEND IS ON DRUGS NOW HE TOTALLY RELYS ON IT he thinks its impossible to get off it he does pot and alcohol and HE CUTS HIMSELF HOW CAN I HELP HIM?!

look up some info on rehab centers in your area then let him know you care about him and are willing to listen whenever he wants to talk. thats all you can do.

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ok well there is this guy that i like ok well hes 2 1/2 years older then me and my mom is like no hes to old but its not really the age difference its the grade difference cause i am gonne be a freshman and he is gonna be a senior i have a b/f but i really dont know wat to do cause i mean i sorta liek my b/f but i like this guys so much better but hes older then me and my parents dont approve mmk well please help me out i rate!!!

uh oh. you found another. dont worry about the age difference just yet, the problem is the fact that you have a bf still... break up with him THEN try to get your parents to approve.

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I am datin this guy but he checks out all these other girls and today he was like (name) has a nice butt.Then he was like man look at them titties and it makes me so mad what should I do?


sign,
confused

yeah, guys have wandering eyes. tell him to AT LEAsT keep it to himself when he's with you. if he respects you/cares about you, he will stop. if he doesnt, break up with him.

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My best friend since Kindergarden is acting really weird. i think it's her mom. Her mom really bashes people and says mean things about them.

Well, we have "popular" girls at our school. And I like them, I really do, and I hang out with them

Well my best friend is saying I am only friends with them to get popular. And it's not true. She also never calls, acts weird around me, and said she couldn't come to my party for a dumb reason. Her mom also said something nasty about me, and my other best friend. Please help me.

well i dont think she's your friend if she does that. i think the whole popular thing is getting to her head and shes pushing you down to look better so dont give in!..thats where the "only to get popular" thing comes from. another thing...jealousy. it comes between people, its scary. i hang out with all different groups and i have a lot of different friends and it happens everywhere. even theater geeks will do that to each other, but its more noticable with popular kids. [sighs] i hate when moms get involved. it shows that not only is the girl is weak, but her mom is low enough to diss someone less than half her age which is pretty sad. just respect her. dont get into fights and avoid her. if she talks to you, then be nice, if she doesnt, so be it. hope this helps!

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wats the easiest way to break-up with a guy without saying "lets just be friends"?? or getting someone else to do it??

well theres not "easy" way to dump someone. you can be a loserand give him a note..thats wat i did once. tell him it just isnt woking out sweet and simple.

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okay so there's this girl i've found myself quite infatuated with. and things seemed to be going jim dandy and the world seemed to be turning right for once. and then to my shock and dismay it comes out that she has an eating disorder. she refuses to eat, refuses to do anything but excersize and sip water. and she is slowly killing herself with this. i try to tell her that it's not good. i try to tell her of the damage it can do to her. and i try to tell her that it hurts me too (it can send me to tears.. and i never ever cry) and i try all that i can to let her know that it's terrible but nothing will ever work. i feel so useless and worthless and like she's gonna slip through my fingertips and i wont be able to save her. and well i really have no idea what to do or where to go. and i need some help from somewhere in order to help her. this is not good. yet she feels that it will make her feel better about herself. i just don't understand how slowly killing yourself makes you feel better. agh this is so saddening. someone please help me, somehow.

oh my. you have my sympathy. you are so sweet for caring but please, dont beat yourself over it, its not your fault! anad.com is the site for eating disorders and maybe you can find some info on there. hope this helps!

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me and my boyfriend broke up probably two months ago. i dumped him because he changes and stuff and gets really quiet. i dumped him because he wasnt being the guy i fell in love with. im 14 and you might not think its true but i did fall in love with him and he said he loved me too but after we broke up we didnt talk or anything and it sucked. about a week ago we finally started talking again and i realized yet again what i loved about him and that i do still love him. i dont know if i should keep it to myself and try to get over it or if i should tell him

tell him...you guys will probably get back together if you really loved each other.

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Has anyone used the Secret Platinum deodorant before in gel form? does it last for 24 hours? i usually use Dove but i'm tired of the smell and want to try something new..on the back of the dove it states 24 hours but it doesnt on the other and i was wondering if it does because i have to run tomorrow and i will get all sweaty and i dont want to smell for the whole day during summer school since i'm taking personal fitness. thanks in advance. i dont need stupid answers either.

well i used that efore and yes it does work. im not sure about the exact time and all but after hours of bball and sccr i was still ok. um, well you smell good but if i remember correctly, you still feel wet. its not bad tho. hope this helps!

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This girl and I have been together for about 8 months, then we broke up about a month and two weeks ago. She always told me I was the best boyfriend on Earth but I lived kind of far away and she fell for someone else who lived closer to her. Before we used to be able to talk for hours on absolutely nothing, no we have a hard time filling up a five minute conversation. I try to lessen the distance between us, but it only gets bigger and bigger. I know there is a way to get her back, some way some how. This is a really tough question to answer and I'll rate fives if you even attempt this question.

awww!! well all you can do s wait til she gets rid of the other guy. you cant do anything about it especially with the distance issue. just have fun being single and dont think too much about it. you guys are good for each other..time will tell.
by the way, if you give me a 5, it wont count towards my rating... add me to your favorites! :-) thanks for askin!

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Tomorrow and Friday I have final exams and I'm sick. My head hurt, my throat is sore, fever, can't breathe... all that good stuff. Does anyone know of any cold pills that actually work or anything that'll just make me feel better for a few hours to get through exams?

water, dayquil!, and a lot of sleep. hope this helps!

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ok ive been looking all over the web and i cant find what the name 'Pender' means. Does anyone know?
when ive looked it up i found 'Peder' which means stone but i just cant find 'Pender' ..
please help!
thanks for those who do

* edit * sorry, i really wanted to help but i really dont know! :-[

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i've dyed my hair over 10 times in the past 2 years and now its dry and gross, does anyone know if there is any hair product that doesnt cost alot that would make my hair more silky??, ill rate high.. please someone help me out

garnier fructice 3 minute masque should help a bit.

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I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend heeps on looking at me.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.

yeah i think he likes you. it really depends on the guy and i know that sounds retarded and over-used but its true. lead him on...smile, flirt with him and he'll eventually ask you out. sighs. thanks 4 asking!

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alright, so i have this friend who loved this guy to death but didnt treat him right. she cheated on him and hung out/constantly flirted with other guys and blew him off. he is a nice guy, whos very good looking and also not prude. he goes to church and is very family oriented and close with friends. however, she is the opposite. she hates her family, never goes to church, and does drugs and gets drunk. she tried to change for him, but it didn't really work. he told her that she had to change her ways, or the relationship would be over. she was mad and dumped him. hes my friend, and i dont want him to get hurt again by going out w/ her, who is also my friend. how should i tell him that this isnt right and he shouldnt go out w/ her? please help me, because i really want to get through to him!

tell him that as much as he doesnt want to, he is going to have to let her go and move on. its not good for him to be involved with people like her. dont be totaly and completely against her or he'll be defensive and say youre jealous. say somthing then let him think about it and he can make up his mind without puttin your relationship with him at risk.

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Ok I was talking to this boy that I like online, and tomorrows the last day of school and we have a half day so he asked me if I want to come over his house tomorrow. So I was like yea and I asked what he wants to do..and he was like I don't know we could watch a movie, makeout, have sex, or I will eat you out! and im like um ok..I really want to go but I don't really know if I want to have sex with him I mean I do want to but I don't...its really confusing. But he says its totally up to me up to me..so what should I do? Thanks iLL rate hiGH!!!

dont do anything you dont want to do!! tell him what you will do and what you wont do. if you wanna make out then do it, that doesnt mean he has to eat you out. if youre confused, it means no until further notice. hope this answers it.

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whats a way to get your hair really shiney and not look at fried?like what products can you use?

thanks ill rate high for real answers.

garnier fructis sleek & shine weightless anti-frizz serum is AWESOME. and it smells good.

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