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Friendship


Question Posted Thursday June 16 2005, 12:31 am

My best friend since Kindergarden is acting really weird. i think it's her mom. Her mom really bashes people and says mean things about them.

Well, we have "popular" girls at our school. And I like them, I really do, and I hang out with them

Well my best friend is saying I am only friends with them to get popular. And it's not true. She also never calls, acts weird around me, and said she couldn't come to my party for a dumb reason. Her mom also said something nasty about me, and my other best friend. Please help me.


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henderson09 answered Saturday June 18 2005, 9:34 am:
your friends in jealous. that happened to my best friends too when we went into middle school and i was making a lot of friends and she was having a hard time. she got over it and now she is friends with all my friends, so just be patient and if it gets worse then i dont know what you shuld do.

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abercrombiebarbie answered Thursday June 16 2005, 1:47 pm:
Sounds like she is jealous or she is scared to lose you as a friend. Maybe her mom even said some stuff to her that would get in her mind about this. Try and get her to talk it over with you and see what you guys can do about it.

Hope this helps love.

♥Jessica

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LoveNJstyle answered Thursday June 16 2005, 7:17 am:
well i dont think she's your friend if she does that. i think the whole popular thing is getting to her head and shes pushing you down to look better so dont give in!..thats where the "only to get popular" thing comes from. another thing...jealousy. it comes between people, its scary. i hang out with all different groups and i have a lot of different friends and it happens everywhere. even theater geeks will do that to each other, but its more noticable with popular kids. [sighs] i hate when moms get involved. it shows that not only is the girl is weak, but her mom is low enough to diss someone less than half her age which is pretty sad. just respect her. dont get into fights and avoid her. if she talks to you, then be nice, if she doesnt, so be it. hope this helps! <3

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IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug answered Thursday June 16 2005, 2:45 am:
i think you should totally ignore her. Dont give into it.. if she sees that you get mad at somthing she does to you she will get happy and you give her pleasure. In life, you should have 1 best friend because otherwise the group of friends you have all know what gets you mad and how to push your buttons, you know? Get new friends or talk to your other friends about her and see what she says, stay away from her but dont isolate yourself with only one friend.
&hearts; Michelle

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danni3 answered Thursday June 16 2005, 1:04 am:
heyyyyy!
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i think you should talk to your friend about it.just pick a time where you can both just talk to each other.lik you could play 'the secret game' where you ask each other questions, and you HAVE to answer it honestly.if she doesnt listen to you maybe she's just not the right friend 4 you.
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hope i helped!
tootlez

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ronda answered Thursday June 16 2005, 12:45 am:
Well it might not her more.Mabe she thinks that you care about being popular then realy being her friend.Try to spend more tie with her and settel your argument.And if it is cause of her mom mabe you need to ask her mom to stop saying all those rude things about you cause she has no right or you could ask your friend to talk to her mom when yall settel your argument.


I hopeeverything works out dont forget to rate:)

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