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april fools is coming up!!!yeah!!!i want a really good trick to play on my friends, please don't suggest anything that will hurt them though.thanks!

Hey, I posted these ideas for someone else who asked this, so maybe these ideas will help you too!

look what I've done in the past:

1. Wear a wig to school [haha, I have brown hair and I wore red long wavy and they were like WHAT DID YOU DO?]

2. Fake oreos that are really chocolate - They sell molds for them or they might be sold in a candy store near you. They always fool people, some don't even know until they eat them!

3. Fake food - made of chocolate- There's a site that sells it, I think chocolatecreations.com or something, but obviously I think it'd be too late to order- they have little tv dinners that are purely chocolate that you could bring to lunch.

4. Get that sparkling jello mix or w/e its called, and make it in champagne glasses! It looks like champagne until you go to TRY to sip it, then the jokes on them.

5. Just be silly. Make jokes like "Oh my god, what is on your shirt?" when there not expecting it. It's basically the oldest trick in the book, but if they aren't paying much attention, they will fall for it.

Have a great April Fool's Day, hope I helped! ♥

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I have looked at what seems every possible internet site that relates to my question. But here it is,:Does anyone know a site or anywhere, that has a list of the best highschool in Rhode Island? Like a ranking list? Like:

1.) The best school
2.) The 2nd best school
and so on

Hey, try www.greatschools.net, or looking up SCHOOL RANKINGS on AOL [I know for a fact AOL has a ton of AOL related sites w/ rankings]. If that doesn't work, give ask.com a shot, if you haven't already. Good luck and hope I've helped! ♥

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My boyfriend and I sometimes get in like Hickey fights. He always gives me them but whenever I try to give him one it never works...Ive tried on myself at home before too and I think im doing something wrong. My question is exactly how do u give a hickey and do you know of tips to help it work better besides like biting?

I truly hate to word it this way, but it's basically just "sucking on an area of skin" so try that, lol! [I accidently found this out by sucking on my hand/arm once, and then accidently bit it, looked and it was all hickey-ish and red LOL] If you still have a little bit of a problem, don't be embarrassed, ask your boyfriend for "coaching" ;] I'm sure that wouldn't be so horrible, would it? ♥ Have fun, lol!

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Hey everyone!
I'm trying to lose a few pounds and maybe an inch off my stomach or just tighten it up. I was just wondering if doing 100 crunches a day, drinking water or flavored water with no calories,carbs etc..and running at least a mile each day will show results within 20 days or so. I would really appreciate any feedback. Thanks guys!

Your on a great track, that's awesome! Don't forget to eat healthy foods- veggies with low cal dips, tons of fruits, smoothies, health food, baked potato chips instead of the reg type, and veggie sushi is also good! ♥ keep up the great work

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I am a swimmer and I get most of my excersize. I was wondering how I could keep in shape when it's over. I don't have the money to go to the gym.

Go to a local park, run around, play tennis, or w/e. I'm sure if you search in the area, there might be some free community pools during the summer, or a hotel that has swimming clubs for free. It costs some money to buy this, but TAE BO by Billy Blanks is amazing, and great. It's worth the $20 for 4 dvds, and you can find it basically everywhere. Hope I've Helped!

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14/f
I'm a Christian so I want to be a virgin till I'm married, but lately it's been real hard to stay that way. I'm letting my hormones make me too curious. (I've never actually even seen a penis before.) I get really horny a lot and sometimes I ever masturbate to get over it. I'm way too young to have sex but lately I've wanted to give a handjob or even get laid. How can I keep motivated to stay a virgin? I know I'm not ready for sex.

If your not ready, trust me you will eventually hold back. It's just the age and teenage hormones, it stinks at times lol, because I have the same motive as you, to stay a virgin until I'm married. But anyway, it's normal to never have seen a penis, but you will eventually have to, either by seeing a statue, in health class, or a baby whose a boy getting their diaper changed. Keep this as your motivation- your white wedding dress- a symbol of purity, and that the guy you marry will respect you and love you enough to wait with you. ♥ HOPE I'VE HELPED!

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i made my friend a cd with 'happy' 'upbeat' music..does anyone have a catchy title i can label the cd.It could rhyme..as long as it's cute..Thanks!

"Music For You That's Happy and Upbeat, It'll Get You Up Dancing On Your Feet" Sorry I'm so lame haha ♥

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i think i like this guy...but i have dated him before. i dont know why i like him. everytime i see another guy who is really cute, he always comes into my mind. i dont know why he wont leave my head. the problem is, he has a girlfriend now and we barely talk. we go to different schools and we are barely friends. even though i never see him the past always comes back to me. can u help?

Obviously, you still kinda have feelings for him. You have to ask yourself why. Try calling him and talking or something, and maybe your whole thoughts about him will change and you'll hang up saying WHAT A JERK! ♥ Hope I've Helped!

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i got a message on here from one of my old friends but i dont know who it is. it said that i can get all my friends back if i am willing to change. i dont know what to do. do i change and get my friends back? or stay the same and have no firends? what would you do if you were in this situation?
plz help!!!!
-MUCH LOVE- &hearts

Please listen to me - do not change yourself for anyone. Even if you will have no friends, if you changed, you'd still have NO friends- no real true friends that would have accepted you for you. Be yourself, and I'm sure with your true self, you will find some great people who will accept you for you, and not want to change you and mold you into something that you aren't. If you need any help whatsoever, just drop me a quick note! ♥

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Ok there is this kid at school and i really like him and he likes me. But im afraid to tell him that i like him because i think ill be imberrassed. Plzzzzzzzzz help me.


signed in love but confused.

Well, if you know he likes you, why not go for it! Don't be shy, just be yourself. And even if you tell him and he doesn't, then he wasn't worth it ♥ If it's meant to be, it'll happen, so go try and see! Good luck hun!

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what are some good april fools jokes to play on my friends? I want to do a realy funny joke to them on april fools day the only thing is im afraid theyll be too sensitive and get mad ..what can i do that wont get them mad at me?

Hey, well here's some subtle, yet funny things that I've done in the past, so here's some ideas:

1. Wear a wig to school [haha, I have brown hair and I wore red long wavy and they were like WHAT DID YOU DO?]

2. Fake oreos that are really chocolate - They sell molds for them or they might be sold in a candy store near you. They always fool people, some don't even know until they eat them!

3. Fake food - made of chocolate- There's a site that sells it, I think chocolatecreations.com or something, but obviously I think it'd be too late to order- they have little tv dinners that are purely chocolate that you could bring to lunch.

4. Get that sparkling jello mix or w/e its called, and make it in champagne glasses! It looks like champagne until you go to TRY to sip it, then the jokes on them.

5. Just be silly. Make jokes like "Oh my god, what is on your shirt?" when there not expecting it. It's basically the oldest trick in the book, but if they aren't paying much attention, they will fall for it.

Have a great April Fool's Day, hope I helped! ♥

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My mum says that i'm like obsessed with coffee, but i am like soooooo not but like here's the deal i don't actually know how to make it for myself can someone please tell me how?

Okay well I'm not exactly a pro at making coffee, because all coffee pots are the same, but if you have a coffee pot, look at the instruction book. They all pretty much have similar instructions, put the desired amount of coffee - remember no beans, must be ground up- [strenght and cups] in the filter [if its not like those little pouch ones, the new one cup ones] and then you put the water in wherever your pot requires it and then you set it according to your pot. Instant coffee packets are much easier, all you do is drop the packet contents into hot water, and you're done! If you don't like instant I'd suggest asking your mom to get you one of those java pad things, you put the little pouch in instead of worrying about coffee beans being grounded, making a mess etc, etc, and all you have to do is put the water in and it's perfect for one person.

Hope I've Helped! ♥

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hi im 15 and every night and morning i have an itch 'down below'. and it wont go away. its really annoyin me and i darent tell my mom.
please help...what can i do?! xxx

Try some diaper rash or feminine itch cream. If it doesn't soothe it, then don't take any chances and go see a doctor, quick, because it can be an infection and it can spread. ♥ Hope i've helped

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I'm 13, female, about 5'4" and about 140 lbs. I've tried dieting, since i'm too young i can't use diet pills, and i've run out of solutions. I can't even get dressed without crying because i can't stand the way i look. i have absolutely no idea what to do. any suggestions are greatly appreciated. thank you guys so much

For starters, do not try diet pills! EVER! They are super bad for you, and usually make you put on more weight AND can kill you , I read it in Seventeen.

140 really isn't fat for your height, and just because you are most likely doesn't mean that you are 140, it can "store" in different parts of your body [like your tummy], you might actually only look 120, which, is a healthy weight.

Try tennis out, it's really fun! Swimming also can help. Eating healthy also will help, try veggie sushi out- it's delish!

Don't cry over it, you can do it! If you need to talk to anyone, just send me a question and I'll talk to you and support ya all the way! ♥ I know tons of stuff, and Seventeen has a workout monthly, and they work awesome! Please keep in touch! ♥

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Kay... well there is this guy and he and I started talking about 3 weeks ago at a track meet and now we flirt a bunch at the track meets.. he is in some of my classes and like yeah I always catch him looking at me and then he always like brags about how good he is at trfack and how much i suck in a JOKEING way... but Iono if he lieks me or what.. and I am really confused plese HELP!

Guys USUALLY tease when they like a girl! It's there stupid way of flirting lol, so he probably does! ♥

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okay im going to my girlfriends house on sunday for easter and i want to know what exactly turns a girl on like what to do to her you know like kissing her neck. i need all the help i can get!! thanks

If her parents are there, keep all actions low lol, like just hold her hand or put your arm around her neck. Be super polite.

If they aren't, just try kissing her, I mean after all she is your gf ♥

Girls LOVE when guys bring little treats, so bring her a little stuffed bunny! Good luck!

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Hi! I have a hugeeee family. The number of people that live in my house is 12

Psh! She shouldn't be all stuckup and thinks shes better than everyone in her family. I would totally say something, believe it or not I have to someone in my family once about something different, and I felt SO much better afterwards. Believe it or not, she probably doesn't realize half as rude as she's being- she's probably trying to act cool, so ask her what's her problem, really. Hope I've Helped, and have an awesome party! ♥

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I am 13 and a girl. i like a boy and he is my friend and we went out and then he dumped me 3days later and he still liked me or thats what he said. now i like him again but he is going out with some girl who i dont no! what do i do to get him back?

Give it time, I'm sure if he really really wants you back he will realize it and break up with the girl he is going out with- after all, you guys have a history! ♥ Good luck, and don't worry, if it's meant to be it'll happen.

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i went on a cruise this summer and met a lot of new friends and still keep in touch with a few. but heres the thing, my friends at home get really mad if i even mention them. i dont think its because they are jealous because they are always exclusive to me and never have me over, ect. they also get mad if talk about a boy a like. its not really them getting mad, they just role they're eyes or sigh or look like really annoyed. i constantly feel like i have to watch what i say or they'll get mad at me. what shoudl i do?!

I know you said there not jealous, but to me it seems like they kinda are. But anyway, you can't help what you like or who you like! So just ignore them and talk about it anyway, and if they roll their eyes say "Am I bothering you?" and ask why, because I don't see anything wrong with it! ♥ Hope I've Helped

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what brand of mascara works really well?

Personally, I don't use much of it, but I like Lancome. I've also tried this cheaper brand called NYC, it's sold at like all Targets and Walgreens, and it works like one that is pricey. [Get the waterproof in the NYC of course, its like $1.39 i think!]

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