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i got a message on here from one of my old friends but i dont know who it is. it said that i can get all my friends back if i am willing to change. i dont know what to do. do i change and get my friends back? or stay the same and have no firends? what would you do if you were in this situation?
plz help!!!!
-MUCH LOVE- &hearts
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i wouldnt change for them... i would just go find new friends who would accept me for who i am not who they want me to be
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don't ever change for someone else. you are who you are and people need to except that. only your real friends will except you for you are not what anyone else wants you 2 be.
*BeSs*
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Please listen to me - do not change yourself for anyone. Even if you will have no friends, if you changed, you'd still have NO friends- no real true friends that would have accepted you for you. Be yourself, and I'm sure with your true self, you will find some great people who will accept you for you, and not want to change you and mold you into something that you aren't. If you need any help whatsoever, just drop me a quick note! ♥
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think of it this way when they say to change...you wouldnt want to change from a boy to a girl...normal to weird...pretty to ugly...so if the person doesnt like the way you are then theys have to deal cuz the way you are you dont want to change its the other person who wants you to!
so they can deal!
hope i helped
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You shouldn't change, just because this person told you to so you could get your friends back. If your friends don't accept you for the way you look and act, then they aren't your true friends. If this person told you to change the way you dress, then you don't need to change that because you can wear whatever you want. If they told you to change the way you act such as your personality, then yes, you need to change that. You can find so many other friends that will accept you for you. If I was in your situation, I wouldn't change and I would try to find better friends.
-Karen
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Well, what is it that they want you to change? If it's how you dress or your style:there's no need to change. If it's your personality and they think you are sometimes cruel, annoying,etc. then yes, try to make a change.Drop one in my inbox and i'll be glad to help you.
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