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I really like my BF but I am going to Kentucky and Florida this summer and wont see him for 5 weeks =/ I dont know whether to break up with him, Go on a break, or just stay with him. BUT if I stay with him I will never see him for awhile. What should I do?

5 weeks is alot and you won`t see each other so things might get out of control so just take a break & go out after you come back.

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i don't know what to do, she was my dream my life my mind my heart, but she wanted to take "a break" but a month later we still arn't back together, she once was my gf but not now, she likes me and i like her, i AM TRYING to get over her, but something just keeps making me come back for her....

ahh i need help people that have had this situation may have beetter answer BUT ALL answer

Aw I`m sorry.. if she hasn't came back to you yet chances are ..she probbly won`t.I can see how much you like her and she is missing out one on heck of a guy..You just need to move on I know it`s really hard but while your thinking about her and all that there can be someone that loves you back.I know this is hard but you have to move on.. try and take your mind off her if you don`t you`ll just keep liking her more and more and honestly I know she will realize how much she likes you after you go out with someone else.♥

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13/f well there is this guy i went out with for like 1 year and we broke up but that was a while ago and we always flirt but lately he seems to be liking this other girl. but its weird because these past few days have been different he seems to be talking to me and when i tried to pass through the isle to my seat at school he blocked the way and it was just flirty and he is talking to me alot and stares me but he is my ex. he broke up with me but now i think he likes me. and i really like him alot because he is hott and i like the way he acts. so is that common? i wonder if he likes me? why did he break up with me then? help soon because i rate 5's for good advice!!!!

That`s totally normal..just think about it after going out with someone for 1 year there is ALWAYS going to be little feelings for them and they won`t go away.It`s common and to me it seems like he likes you but you should have one of your friends ask him.Some guys when they get mad or something they 1st thing on there mind is breaking up so maybe he wasn`t really thinking.

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ah ok.where do i begin,alright well me and my ex-boyfriend had been going out on and off for like 5 months.on memorial day he dumped me.He said he wanted to still be friends but just didnt like me like me and wanted to be single for summer.i got over it fast, but im not sure about him.On the last to days of school he kept starring at me ALLLLLL day,didnt talk to me,passed me a note about the brake up like saying he wants us to be friends a lot still,and he got jelous of me flirting with other guys(i could tell).and when one of my best friends thats a guy came to my house to get something he was like trying to get him to get away from me.he flirts with me alot still and im pretty much over him and he dumped me so what should i do?i dont no what to say to him about it.PLESAE HELP!!!i rate!

--CONFUSED.

I think he regrets breaking up with you and is really jealous that`s just how alot guys are.Just be friends with him but it doesn`t mean you can`t flirt with other guys or have them over.Don`t let him control because it seems like he wants you to himself and don`t let him do that.

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well I started dating this guy, lets call him Bob (lol).. I dated Bob before like 3 or 4 times.. I really liked him this time to.. We tried meetin each other cause we would never get to see each other.. but he always couldn't go.. well he emailed me and told me I think we jumped into our relationship to fast well I thought we would still be talkin so I was sorta ok with it.. but its 4 days and we ain't spoken a word.. I think he likes other girls and stuff.. I should move on and just forget about him..More I don't speak to him the less I think he cares..I can't even get him out of my head..Do you think I should forget about him or not?

Guys are just fags like that & you have to live with it because while your wasting you time on him there could be someone who loves you and cares for you unlike him.You need to forget him and if he does call you back or try talking don`t answer him,he will see what it`s like.

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somebody spread a rumors that im bi please help what should i do? i was just playing around my friends all the time and i dont know why some people spread the rumors about im biosexual 100% straight!! help

Just don`t listen to them the more they know you care the more they will make you mad.Just ignore it and go on with life.

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a few days ago, i gave my girlfriend a hickie and her dad found out and isnt very happy. She then tells me that her parents might have us break up for good. We've liked each other since 6th grade, now seniors. What can i do to make things right with her dad so we can stay together?? Please help ASAP!!!!

Ah that sucks..just talk to her dad and make him realize that you love her alot and won`t do it again.Just sound like you really care about her and are really sorry.

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im a 13 year old girl. im really nervous that ill get my period one day in the middle of school. are there any signs that will let me know if im about to get it?

You will start getting really crabby and your friends might notice too,you will start getting discharge,your stomach will hurt alot,cramps and that kind of stuff. ♥


you said that to some girl [[i was searching through your questions. hah.]]

well. ive had discharge for a while, i wear a 32 or 30 A, i get cramps, and yeah. ive had this for a while. well. my mom got her period when she was 16, my oldest sister got her period the usmmer before 6th, my other sister got hers in 9th. im in 7th. ill rate if you give me a good idea of when im getting mine and how to prepare!! im SO worried.

There is nothing to worry about. It just kind of happens just always have a tampon or pad in your purse. If your having all those now I think your going to start pretty soon. Just don`t think about it.

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alright so heres the deal. me and this guy used to go out. we went out like 6 times, and one time was almost for a year. He's always the one dumping ME, but somehow we end up back together again. Six months ago,he broke up with me so were not currently going out, but i still really like him, and i think he likes me again, too.Maybe he changed, but Im not sure if i should just keep giving him chances? but i really like him. Do you think its a good idea if we go out? Or should i just get over him? THANKS ALOT.

I honestly think you should go out and give him a chance.Some guys really do change.You can`t hind your feelings for him there is a reason why they are there..just give him a chance and see how things go. Good Luck ♥

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what are the chanches of a condom breaking when have sex?

It doesn`t happen that much people always make a big deal & stuff .. 1% or 2% as long as your using a condom your usually safe.

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do you have to be a certain age to buy them?
i live in VA

People always think you have to be older but you don`t you can be any age to buy them.

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i feel like love doesnt work for me. i've went out with alotta guys this year but i feel like none of them are rght for me and i think im about to give up? i need sum advice of how to be better in relationships that way i wont give up on boys so easily
i rate high!

You sound just like me.I have wanted to give up so many times.But don`t give up just because your past boyfriends you don`t like doesn`t mean all of them are like that.Maybe you should be friends with them for a longer time and get to know them more then go out.Something that makes relationships better is talking to each other more & being honest & open.

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Okay so, when my boyfriend & I are together (which is like 3 days out of the week or more) we get along perfectly fine.. but the days we aren't together & we are talking on the phone or internet, we always argue about something, normally over something stupid. And either me or him is always in a blah mood. It's totally different when we are together though.. we're very happy and don't argue one bit.. and can't stand a minute apart from each other, everyone says how happy we are. We love each other.. but we dont get this.

Oh my gosh that sounds so familar .. cus happened to me before alot.It`s because you two miss each other so much that it makes you so mad then you just have to argue.And in person your so happy to each other that you don`t even think about fighting.It`s totally normal & happens alot.

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ok well so i like this guy ok.. n hes a total flirt! he flirts wit all the other girls... even me.. well ive liked him for a LONG time n hes like going out wit someone at the moment... well the thing is i dont WANT to like him i wish i couldnt like him n just be his like best friend n think of him in tht way not in the i love yu way but i just do n i have no clue how to help this situation!! please this is killing me soo much i like him alot but i sone want to like him n hell never go out wit me.. ive tryed n he almost did but then sed hed rather be like bestest friends..
PLEASE HEEEELLLLPP! :'(

That has happened to me before at it sucks.You should just try and find someone new I know it will be really hard because your in MAD LOVE with this kid but I don`t think he will change his mind so just move on .. it`s hard but it`s the best thing to do.Then he will realize that he is missing otu on one heck of a girl.But also when he is flirting with you just don`t flirt back & don`t let him know you like him then he will want you more.

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1 - how do you make your myspace private (or friends only)? I can't figure it out.

2 - what are some sites where I can get good premade layouts for my myspace?

Thank you!

1-Change your age to 13 or younger
2-Go to xanga.com & type in myspace layouts you will have a ton on there.

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is there any thing that makes your hair grow faster?

If you get a split ender & work with it every 3 days your hair will grow really fast because all your split ends are gone so it makes it grow really fast.

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How long does a period usally last?

Some end earlier but some later usually its a week.

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what is it? is itt illegall? can you get caught? just tell me basically ab it.

iill give 5s

Limewire is something you can download music on & yes you can get caught and its illegall but honestly I don`t think its possible.Most of my friends have it and had it forever and haven`t got caught or had any problems it`s really good.

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i kinda have bad back acne...what can i do to stop it!!!!????

Proactive , it's really cheap & works fast.

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Okay so i have been with my boyfriend for sometime now and its like lately i have been feeling hurt...its the things he says like ill ask something and hell call me dumb because sometimes i dont think before i ask things i guess...but we have been going through somethings for the past week..and i really dont know how to get out my feelings out to him in person its easy to text or write it down for me...but he wants and likes to talk face to face even if were laying down in the dark i still dont know how to get out my feelings to him..i really do love and care about him...hes my world my everything and i know i mean the same to him were very close eachothers best freinds we do everything together always with eachother..i just have this in the way of us getting even more closer...so please i need help on how i can be able to step up and talk to him face to face..il rate 5s!!PLEASE HELP ASAP!!

I hate when guys call girls dumb or stupid.It's gay and not matture.Next time he calls you that and your on the phone hang up on me or if in person just turn around and walk away.He will realize it after a while that he is being rude and shouldn't call you that.Just tell him how you feel face to face I know your prolby like I can't but you have to or else he will keep doing it over & over again.

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