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alright so heres the deal. me and this guy used to go out. we went out like 6 times, and one time was almost for a year. He's always the one dumping ME, but somehow we end up back together again. Six months ago,he broke up with me so were not currently going out, but i still really like him, and i think he likes me again, too.Maybe he changed, but Im not sure if i should just keep giving him chances? but i really like him. Do you think its a good idea if we go out? Or should i just get over him? THANKS ALOT.
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I honestly think you should go out and give him a chance.Some guys really do change.You can`t hind your feelings for him there is a reason why they are there..just give him a chance and see how things go. Good Luck ♥
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If you still like each other then you need to get back together and concentrate on keeping it that way!
Breaking up and getting back together is just to easy. Work on communicating with each other and stop any problems before they get out of hand, and you may be able to make it work.
If he is going to continue dumping you though every time, best to find someone else. :)
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♥♥ Before you two go out again I think you should talk about the relationship; not just jump into it again. You should make sure its going to be a good one this time and make sure it'll be more serious if thats what you want.
If you feel like your going to get hurt by him again I would explore new people for awhile until you find out what has been causing him to break up with you so many times.
Its totally upto you. Its a risk you have to take. If you feel like your happier with him then Go out because you might learn things from eachother. And even if your relationship doesn't go that far, you could end up being really good friends.
And like I said before, If you want, talk to him and make sure this time the relationship is diffrent and better.
:D GOOD LUCK BABE. ♥ ♥
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I think you should tell him your true feelings . You cant just let him go.Then you would be more misserable. Let him know how you feel.AbBeY!!!
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well if he DOES in fact like you again.. let this be the last straw;; his last chance to have you and if he ends up breaking your heart this time just forget about him.. just know that i wasn't meant to be ;] hope i helpeddd sweetheart
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allright listen babydoll.
my friend has been going thru this problem too and i know exactly what you should do..
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you cant keep going back out with him because i mean 6 times going out? and then breaking up? i dont think its worth it because if it was meant to be then you guys wouldnt keep breaking up! i think its DEFINATELY time to just go out and explore new guys and try to find a different one that loves you for you and wont keep doing that to you because you deserve better ♥ the more you keep going back out with him the more you are gonna like him but then if he breaks up with you again i dont want your heart to get broken! i would just try and forget about him because to me it doesnt sound like he is worth it!
if you need anything else be sure to let me kno! goodluck hunnie.
♥ always-kristenlynn
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you can't just get over someone you really like.. but i think youre just wasting your time.
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Honestly? I think you are wasting your time with this guy. I'm sorry. I know it's not what you want to hear but I'm shocked you are even considering getting back with this guy who has dumped you so many times! You ever heard the phrase 'once burned, twice shy'? Take heed because it's applicable. You need to realise that if this guy has broken up with you 6 times already, he WILL do it again. I have to add that you ought to be questioning him as to why he keeps doing this to you. Either he wants to be with you or he doesn't but you cannot keep having your heart broken just because Mr Indecisive can't make up his mind.
I really don't think this guy deserves a seventh chance. He's lucky to have got away with treating you this badly! If you really want to give it one more try then that is entirely your decision but think carefully about it first and ensure that before you take him back, you ask him why he always breaks up with you. The fact is, in my opinion at least, you deserve a lot better and you ought to be out looking for someone who KNOWS they want to be with you, rather that someone who treats it like the whole thing is some sort of game. So ask him straight out, does he want to be with you or not? After that, the choice is yours but personally, I think you should move on.
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Try and get over him. If he keeps on dumping you, he's not worth it. Believe me, I'm all for second chances, but this guy seems to want more than just a second chance. If you are really still into him, I guess you can go for him. Just make sure his intentions are real and he truly cares about you. If it were me though, I wouldn't want to be getting hurt again and again, so I would probably try and forget about him. If you need help on getting over him, you know where to find me. Hope this helps.
-cindy <3
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I think you should just forget about that guy. If he keeps dumping you, he probably doesn't have feelings for you that much.
Snowi
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hey!! alright this is kind of a difficult question. i was once in a situation like that, and i kept breaking up with the guy because the relationship got pretty serious, and i got scared and decided i wanted to experience the single life before commiting to him. we broke up once, and then we kept talking and ended up getting back together (and then breaking up again) like 5 times. i would break up with him, and then decide that i wanted him back, but once i got him back i would want to be single again and so on. it's such a terrible situation but i was really confused and didn't know what i wanted. we eventually broke up and stopped talking for almost a year (9 months) and in that time i lived the single life. we just got back together and are trying to do it long distance because he is now in the army! :(
ok aaanyywaayy the reason i told that whole story is because it is difficult to tell why he wants to get back together with you. does he want to do it because he is actually ready to settle down for good now, or does he want to do it because no one better has come along in the time he was single and he wants to fill the void? if i was you, i would make him wait for it... tell him you need time to think about everything and stop talking to him and seeing him for the next 2 months. in that time, you should be able to see if you really want to be with him, and he should be able to decide what he wants as well. if he still wants to be with you, then he might have changed and he could be ready for the relationship. i think if you get back together with him right away every time he comes back to you, he will feel like he has all the power and he will break up with you whenever he wants, knowing that when he wants you back you will take him! that's bad and you don't want to make him feel that way... so make him wait. after that, if you feel like he is ready, then give him another chance, but be prepared to get hurt by him again. if you don't feel like you want to go through the pain of breaking up with him again, then don't give him another shot. it's all up to you.
you guys could be right for each other, but it could be that the timing is wrong. if things aren't working out now, you never know what could happen in the future if both of you still have feelings for one another. the point is, if he feels like he is not ready for a relationship yet, you won't be able to change him. he will have to stay single until he gets it all out of his system. otherwise, he will never be able to have a meaningful relationship, because he will never feel ready for it. so i say let him wait a little bit, and if you think he has changed and are willing to take the risk, then go for it. but if he hurts you again, deffinitely kick him to the curb and find a new guy! let me know if you need more help and good luck!! :)
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