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Okayy ; So I'm 13 ; i weigh around 95 - 98 pounds and i'm 4"10 . 95 - 98 pounds doesn't sound like a lot, but because of how short I am, i have a stomach that like bulges out! I kind of considered anorexia, but it doesn't work for me. And I also have humoungus thighs that like touch together when i walk![ that's also because of my shortness ] . Do you know any workouts or diets that i could go on. Like not a major diet but like just one that could keep me away from junk food. Oh and people tell me i'll grow but i can't wait that long, so pleaseee pleasee help me!!

thank youuu! (link)
http://www.discussbodybuilding.com/Back_to_Basics_~_Body_Weight_Exercises/m_76900/tm.htm

http://www.egoplanet.com/health.htm

http://www.holbrook.k12.az.us/hhs/geny/kim/diets.htm

http://www.overweight-teen-solutions.com/lose-weight-safely.html

I suggest you only stick to excersing like jogging/running, pull ups, sit ups, working out because you are only 13 and weigh 95-98 pounds and it would not be healthy to decrease in the amount you weigh.



I technically can't "date" until I turn 16. I've had boyfriends before but not ones you actually go on single dates with and things like that. My parents are okay with that kind of thing, but what if a guy actually asks me out? What should I do then? Thanks! (link)
If you really like the guy then you should totally say yes to him.
Explain to him the situation you are in about dating.
I'm sure he will understand considering he likes you and wants to go out with you.
You can also try talking to your parents about this when the time comes.



okay, my hair is very very curly and frizzy and thick its nasty!! i sometimes put hair gel in it and it looks fine and then other times i stirghten it but it still gets frizzy easily. I use hair serum and this one spray to control the frizz but hey im always lookin' for something better can you guys suggest anything? (link)
I have curly frizzy hair as well. What I do is before I straighten each strand, I spray Thermasilk Detangler Leave In Conditioner. Then straighten the strand. It doesn't come out frizzy at all. Also you can use Thermasilk Detangler Leave In Conditioner to make your hair wavy/curly. Spary it all over your hair and jut scrunch your hair the way you would normally and spary some more of the Thermasilk Detangler Leave In Conditioner.

If you need anything else drop one in my inbox.



does anyone know were I can get a free web page? like i can totaly design it and every thing. but dont say maxpages, i tried it, and its not very good, ill rate! =D (link)
http://piczo.com/?cr=1&rfm=y



if i put on pressed powder.. does it cause freckles ? (link)
Nope. It doesn't.



I'm 13 and in 8th grade, and I still haven't had a boyfriend yet. I'm not HORRIBLY ugly, I actually think I'm pretty. But NO guys approach me at all. I've been told it's because I'm shy. And I am shy, but...I'm not sure if it's something else. Do you think that the fact I didn't have a boyfriend in middle school will make guys turn me down in high school? I don't want to be single forever.
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Hey hun listen to me, nothing is wrong with you at all.
You are only 13. Believe me, you will get plenty of boyfriends.
At this age guys are shy as well and really don't know how to approach girls.
If you don't have a boyfriend in middle school which I'm sure you will, that will NOT make guys turn you down in highschool.
You are not going to be single forever. Don't worry.



can someone give me some heartbreak quotes? (not websites) for my aim profile? thanks (link)
& Nobody could have guessed what went
on inside her head..

Friends ask you why your'e crying but,
best friends already have the shovel to bury the
asshole that made you cry

I'm gonna smile like nothings wrong
talk like everything is perfect
act like its all a dream
and pretend like its not h.u.r.t.i.n.g me

ERASE ALL THOSE PENCiL MARKS
TEAR UP ALL THOSE FAKE ROSES
THROW AWAY ALL THOSE STUFFED BEARS
CUT UP ALL THOSE NOTES
TAKE DOWN ALL OF YOUR PICTURES TOGETHER
TAKE HiM OUT OF YOUR DREAMS
... HE WAS NEVER WORTH iT iN THE
FiRST PLACE

She finally realized
that he's not coming back for her

Wanting him is hard to get. Loving him is hard to regret.
Losing him is hard to accept. But with all the hurt
I've felt, letting go is the most painful yet.


All I wanted to do today is to collapse in someoneâ??s arms and cry. But sadly...there wasn't anyone there to catch me


You didn't lose her; You let her go


& All she really wants is
to feel a bit less rejected.


& I'm listening to all these sad love songs
because every single one of them
reminds me of how much you hurt me

& She pretends she doesn't care
but really she cares more than anyone else

And she will fool everyone
with her fake smile and pretend laugh

Every time I hear your name
my head turns and my heart breaks

Heart broken && soft spoken
so go on baby, walk right past me
i`m used to it

Hey, your right.
It doesn't matter,
I'm just pouring my heart out relax..
It's not like you love me anyways

She finally lets go of her fake smile
& tears slowly run down her face
as she whispers to the mirror
"i don't want to be me"

She stood in the pouring rain
SCREAMING HIS NAME
as he slowly walked away..









Who know's spanish.

Can somebody tell me what "Lusta Prima Vista" means.

I dont really know if it's spanish, but if it is...can you tell me?

(link)
"Lusta Prima Vista" - "Looking For"



"Its good to hear your voice you know it's been so long"

Those are the lyrics I know. Its a Cingular commercial with a guy and a girl. The girl kisses him and says she'll call him later.

Any one know the song?

(link)
Blondie - Hanging On The Telephone



ALright well im a girl and im 15 and im about 5'4" and i weigh 90 pounds. i dont have an eating problem or disorder. do i seem underweight? thanks (link)
Yes you are underweight. There is no doubt about it.
You should go see a doctor or a nutritionist.



what was the code forthe google search box? how do you do it? and will it work on myspace?

thankkks (link)
[ search ] good search terms [ / search ]

*Just take out the spaces.

Most likely it will work on Myspace.




I usually sleep really well, but last night I didn't fall asleep until 2 o clock in the morning. I don't know why. I think it might've been because I was talking to this one guy and I really didn't want ot sign off and go to bed but I had too. So i was thinking about him and stuff and I couldn't sleep.
Does anyone have anything that might help me sleep?
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It happens to alot of people where they sleep well each night but sometimes they just get those nights where they have TOO MUCH things going through their mind.
I have been having a hard time sleeping for the past few nights due to so much thinking.
What I do that helps me is talk on the phone with one of my very close friends.
She goes through all the things that are bothering me. It really helps me to get everything out.
Another thing that you can do is listen to one of my favorite songs "Everything Burns" By Ben Moody ft. Anastacia.
If you do decide to listen to that song then while listening to it close your eyes and get a mental image of the song. like where it takes place and just relax.
You can also try to listen to any song of your choice.

I hope one of these things help you out.



Hmm .. I want to make a new CD but I really don't know any songs. If anyone can, will you please list some songs for me that are like band music liek Fall Out Boy and All American Rejects. Thanks (link)
3 Days Grace - I Hate Everything About You
A Thorn For Every Heart - February
Acceptance - Bleeding Heart
Acceptance - Take Cover
Bayside - Just Another Day
Halifax - Anthem For Tonight
Hawthrone Heights - Niki FM
Hawthrone Heights - Ohio is For Lovers
Hawthrone Heights-Transition
Head Automatica - Beating Heart Baby
Hellogoodbye - Dear Jamie... Sincerely Me
Hellogoodbye - Shimmy Shimmy Quarter Turn
Motion City Soundtrack - Everything Is Alright
Motion City Soundtrack - My Favorite Accident
My Chemical Romance - To the End
Story Of The Year- Untill The Day I Die
Sugarcult - Memory
Sugarcult - Saying Goodbye
Sugarcult - Pretty Girl (The Way)
The All American Rejects- Stab my back
The Postal Service - Be Still My Heart
The Postal Service - Sleeping In
Weezer - Perfect Situation
Yellowcard - Lights and Sounds
Yellowcard - One Year, Six Months
Yellowcard - Way Away
Zeromancer - Famous Last Words
Panic At The Disco - Lying Is The Most Fun A Girl Can Have Without Taking Her Clothes Off




ok whats like really in on fasion but not REALLY expensive?.. (link)
Long necklaces those cute ones.

Boots, uggs, ripped jeans, long colorful stockings.


You could try this site out:

http://store.alloy.com/index.jsp?commTrack=shopChannel


Love will remain a mystery
But give me your hand and you will see
Your heart is keeping time with me


i know this is from a song but what does the last line mean? (link)
I think this means that he has maybe moved on but his heart still remains with the girl.



I wanna add some more songs onto my lime wire playlist so anyone know any good songs out there. I'm more into hip hop/rap/reggaton/and anything that i can dance to. but hey if there are any other good songs plz list them out for me

Thanks! (link)
Wisin y Yandel - Rakata

Zion y Lennox ft. Daddy Yankee - Yo Voy Lean Back Remix

Wisin & Yandel ft. Aventura - Noche De Sexo

Nivea ft Young Bloodz Lil John - Okay

Toni Braxton - Please

Don Omar - Dale Don Dale



Okay see i have pretty brown eyes right, but then at the same time i want to wear make up...but not too much..and i want to wear make up but i don't want to look like a goth...I mean what should i wear?? (link)
By wearing a bit of eyeliner and a bit of mascara you will not look gothic.
The mascara is optional though.
You should wear light colors like tan, lavender, baby blue, blueish/greenish. Depends on your skin tone.




Today I got the newest iPod. The one that plays videos and such.

I can't install anything on this computer because it's a peace of crap, so my brother tried on his. He has an iPod mini and that's already installed on his computer. He tried doing it to mine on the same computer, & my ipod completley froze!! It's been frozen for hours and I have no idea what the flip is going on. It agravated me soo bad.

Do you think it's because he tried to do it on the same computer that the other iPod was on, or is it just broken?? (link)
I doubt that your Ipod is broken considering you just got it.
I really don't think it can be that he tried doing it from his computer.
If your Ipod is still frozen then set the hold button to hold and then turn it off again. Press the Menu and Center buttons at the same time for about 6 seconds until the Apple logo appears.
Then you can try doing everything over from your brother's computer.

If you still need help then you can drop one in my inbox.



OK i need to download some good punk rock, emo, music
Will everyone give me 1 of your favorite song.. Just 1 please... your favorite one???????
(link)
Zeromancer - Famous Last Words



i recently bought these clogs

http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=clearance&scid=cat90062&sscid=cat90114&navroot=clearance&productId=A_3411_4209

and i want to wear them with this skirt

http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=womens&scid=cat90046&sscid=&navroot=womens&productId=0315_1725&size=

socks, or no socks? (link)
I wouldn't wear socks.





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