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hey i'm a guy. this girl i know is starting to scare me. we used to talk about everything and always have a blast, but a few months ago we started to talk less. i noticed she wasn't as active as she was before, and asked her about it. just as it seemed to be, she told me she was depressed and didn't like the kind of life she was living. she went on about all the bad things in her life with family, school, friends, herself, etc. i tried to point out good things to her, but she always came back at me with something to disprove it. after not talking for a week or so, she said she just wanted to end her life and to get away from everything. i didn't take this too serious at first, but lately she hasn't been eating, barely talks, and hasn't been looking too healthy. if she is thinking about suicide, what should i do? i asked her about it and she didn't want to talk. should i tell her parents? please help
Yes, tell her parents! That's exactly what I would do! Or, maybe just try & talk to her one last time. Tell her that she's scaring you and what she's doing isn't safe. Reassure her that you will always be here for her, if she ever needs to talk. Even if it isn't a parent you tell, tell a counselor at your school.
But, yes. Definitely tell her parents, right away. =]
I need to get my upper lip waxed... but the thing is, what happens if you get it waxed a couple of times and then you stop waxing it? Will it grow back even worst? I DO NOT want to just leave it. If waxing isn't that good of an idea, what other options do I have to make it unnoticeable?
Waxing, shaving, or just removing it yourself will make the hair grow back thicker, just like everywhere else on your body. The only permanent way to actually get rid of the hair on your upper lip is by electrolysis. It's done by inserting a tiny needle into the hair follicle and using an electric current to kill the hair root. It can be expensive, time consuming, and painful. Removing upper lip hair can take a total of 4-10 hours over several visits.
There are also ways to get rid of hair semi-permanently. Such as, laser hair removal. + A dermatologist maybe able to prescribe a medicated cream for unwanted hair. =]
I've always been an animal lover but i feel like i need to do something to help. I was searching on ways to help animals when i came across a video on the web (http://www.petatv.com/tvpopup/Prefs.asp?video=free_me_video) and I want to do something to help. Not just something like donating, i want to stop it all, but it's impossible. All the sites i look at, its just asking for donations, but i feel like it doesnt help that much, i want to put a stop to all of it because its so horrible. And i have so much passion towards animals. I just need someone to help me and tell me what i can do to make a big difference because i feel like i can, and i really really do want to, but how?
I appreciate anything. Thank you guys so much.
I understand how you feel. I've seen so many videos towards abusing animals & all that stuff. Is absolutely awful. But you see these HUGE organizations [Like PETA] That are trying to stop all animal abuse & making everyone vegetarian. Is it working? Unfortunetly, not.
The best way that you can help towards STOPPING animal cruelty is just be a vegetarian, or maybe check out somethings on Petadotcom? That's the best advice I can give you. Or maybe work at a local animal rescueing place
there's this music video i saw. it was this dude in antartica or something and he's singing and taking off everything but his pants, then he says "it's time i meet my doom, i will never be with you" then he jumps off the cliff.
does anyone know the song and the artist?
i know throughout the song he's saying "you're beautiful, you're beautiful"
help!
It's called "You're beautiful" by; James Blunt.
You can find the lyrics here:
http://www.seeklyrics.com/lyrics/James-Blunt/You-re-Beautiful.html
I'm supposed to get my period around the 28th. I'm going to see my family for Christmas and we're going to an indoor water park near that day. What if my period starts when I'm AT the waterpark? I can't put a tampon in without actually bleeding, right? So what do I do about this?!
Carry a tampon around with you, just in case you start. Then if you do potentially start @ the water park you can put it in. But when you're IN the water - you don't bleed. So, just try and stay in the possible as long as you can. Hehe =)
How long ago did you seek a dietrician/nutritionist/doctor (whichever it was you saw)?
=] Hey. Oh gosh. About 6 months ago? I'm pretty sure. Maybe a little longer. Of course I'll answer that, there were so many times I just wanted to give up on losing weight. Like because I'd have a scale in my bathroom everyday, and I'd weigh myself which is a big no-no. If I didn't see any weight difference day after day, I'd hate myself, and I'd like eat! It was awful. I threw the scale away though, and I don't have one now, so I can only weigh myself like once a month or something, which is for the best.
I just thought about all the stupid assholes that said crap about me, and that called me "fat" everyday of my life that I could be "skinny." Like that was my main motivation, just to show people I could do it, and I didn't want to be made fun of anymore. Of course people still find names to call me but whatever. You can never make anybody happy, right? And it doesn't bother me anymore. I'm not trying to please anyone! =] I'm fine with myself now, and that's all that matters.
im 14 and my girlfriend is 13. we have been going out for 4 months. she told me that she wants to make out with me. part of me wants too but the other part says no because we kissed for the first time last night at a dance. do you think i should make out with her now or not? if not how long should i wait?
It's really up to you. No one can tell you when you should. Just when you are ready. If you aren't ready to make out with her, then don't. I'd say wait like 2 weeks or something. But that's just my opinion.
Do you think a 13 year old, 5ft 3in, female who weighs 140lbs is fat? Pleas be honest and do NOT sugar coat it!
UGH. Fat's the ugliest word EVER.
No, from your BMI, you're just a little close to be "overweight" but you're normal right now.
If I burn more than 3,500 cal. in one day does that mean I've lost one whole pound in the one day?
Well, no. Depending on how many calories you eat a day & then burn will be how much you lose weight. Say if you eat 1,500 calories a day, then you burn off all of that 1,500 calories you'll lose weight. You don't lose one pound everyday, it's just not really possible.
I bike ride on a stationary bike. It tells me how many calories I've burned since I started that riding session. I'll bike ride for 60 minutes nonstop. It says I've burned 2 to 3 calories. I noe there's like 3500 calories to a pound, but 2 calories in 60 minutes of bicylcing? I would think I'd AT LEAST burn... I dunno.. 7-10 and probably WAY more? Is this right? Or is it messed up or something?
It should actually burn anywhere from 200-400 calories an hour. It's wrong, and it's messed up! You should get that bike fixed ASAP!
how do you pronounce gynecologist
[gyno-call-a-gist]
Did you used to be fat?? How did you loose that weight?
Fat's an ugly word.
If you want an answer, ask me in a better manner.
Hi Naimee! I read that you know about weight loss, so I have a question. Ok, I know running is great. What about walking? Does walking do as much as running? And if not, would there be a major big difference? Becuase I'm an awful runner........ And one more thing. You lost weight? Well would be feel comfortable telling me about your routines to KEEP off the pounds?
THANKS
All things being equal, you will burn more calories by running an hour than walking an hour. It is true that walking a mile will burn more calories than running a mile -- although it takes longer to do
so. When you run a mile, you're burning mostly sugar, or carbohydrates, which is how your body gives you fast energy in bursts. When you walk a mile, it gives your metabolism time to switch from
burning carbohydrates to burning fat. So, no. Walking is NOT as good as running, but in the same manner, it does help. Depending on how much you weigh is in there too, here's a website to help you out with how many calories would be burnt doing certain activities. http://www.nutristrategy.com/activitylist4.htm
I've kept the same weight for about a month now, and I'm happy with it. The way I do it is, just running 4-6 miles a week. I go to the gym daily, and I still diet. :) Didn't know if you wanted me to actually go into specifics, but if so. Just leave it in the feedback! =]
hi um well i need help. im a girl age 15 and i weigh 100 and 5 pounds, i know that is not alot but im only 4,11. and i look very big not in my tummy area but my theighs. I wanna know how to lose weight and keep it off. i also need to grow! any ideas' people alwAys say _ _ _ _ _ _ _ you need to grow or they will look at me and say wow your short. i get really upset about this. i like being short but i want to grow a little bit! thank u
Aww, hun. I was 4'11 & weighed 160, can you imagine that? But still, I'll help you because you're asking me for it, and you're self conscious and I don't want you to be like that.
First, of all when stupid fuckers say, mean things to you - ignore them. Don't let it get to you. The only reason they do it is because they know it bothers you.
First, there is NO exercise which can reduce fat from a specific area of your body like your hips, thighs or butt. The only way to lose fat off your thighs, hips & butt is by changing your eating habits. Basically, if you want to lose weight off of a certain part of your body, you need to like, RUN. You'll be exercising your legs, but when you lose weight in your legs, when you run - you lose weight everywhere. Or gain muscle.
http://www.betaller.com/growing-taller.htm
Check out this website for growing taller, it's probably just bullshitting, I don't think there's anyway you can gain more height, because it's like your genes you know? But just try it out. Maybe it works?
So I help this first grader who doesn't speak English very well (he's Korean)to learn how to read/speak English better. His mom picks out 4-5 short books and gives me a notebook and a pen, and I basically just go to a seperate room with the kid and read to him and write down any words he doesn't understand. Sometimes I try to make him read out loud, as well. Problem? He seems to really hate these "classes" if you can call it that. He always asks me why he has to do this, and tells me he just wants to play instead. He's very uncooperative, and refuses to listen to me and just goes and does his own thing. I don't know what to do! If I tell his mom, she'll think I'm not helping him and ask me not to come anymore, and the money is quite good so I don't want to lose the job! Does anyone know any ways to make the classes more fun and stuff and make him enjoy them more... or at least dread them a little less?
(Not sure if its relevant but 15/F)
Aww, well that must be REALLY hard. Last year I had to help a 2nd grader with math, like counting money, and adding stuff like 10+25. It was so hard like he HATED it, and it was during his recess so he was mad that he HAD to do it. Basically, what I did to make him try and enjoy it a little more was I gave him candy. It was around Christmas time and I told him on Monday, if he was good & didn't complain then I would give him a gift on Friday. Which is what I did. I don't know what your kid is interested in, but mine was into Batman and all that, so I just bought him a tiny Batman figure, and he absolutely loved it. Also, what I did was I put out candy on the desk, and he would use candy to count the digits together, and for every question he got right, he got to keep the candy. In your situation it's not Math but it's learning a different language. Maybe you could just bring him candy everyday and tell him if he's good and doesn't complain he'll get a present, which is candy. You know?
Also, explain to his mother that he doesn't seem to be enjoying the classes. I'm sure there's something she can do and say to you, and tell you what he's mostly interested in, you know?
okay theres this person at school that I really hate! He is so mean to mean! He calls me a lesbian and I'm not one! What should I do!? He's really mean and I tried ignoring him but it doesn't work...I don't want to tell a teacher though because it would be very uncomfortable telling them what he calls me! Please help me! I'll rate 5's unless you're mean!
Don't show that it bothers you. That's the main reason he's making fun of you, because he knows that it's hurting you. I was made fun of for so long about my weight, and I got called a lesbian a lot - when I wasn't. But when people called me a lesbian, I just laughed. Like what? They don't know me. They can make fun of my weight because I'm overweight, but in the same sense I'm not a lesbian. As long as I know I'm not a lesbian that's all that matters. Don't let it get to you, eventually this boy will grow out of his pre-puberty stage & realize what he's doing is not only immature, it's pathetic. You may feel uncomfortbale telling a teacher what he calls you, but they'll be happy you told them instead of keeping it inside. They will help you & punish this kid for making fun of you. Or, you could just tell your mom if you feel more comfortable telling her what he calls you, and she can call up the school and have them do something about this kid who calls you names.
Ok.....
Whats a gynocologist app. all about??
Im not a virgin.. but last time I went to the doctors, I was. Well... We all know how the doctors ask u if youve ever had sex before and whatnot..and I really don't feel like telling my doctor that Ive have had sex, but i have a feeling that they ask that question to make sure that you stay healthy. My boyfriend and I lost our virginites to eachother though, so I know that he didnt contract any diseases or anything from anyone else. We use a condom everytime, and I think I would know (from symtoms) if I had a serious disease or STD from having sex. I was wondering though, would it be terribly bad, if I lied to my doctor about having sex? Also, I DO NOT want her to tell my mom. CAN she do that? ??? .. Just wondering..
This same question goes for weed. 90% of people have tried weed. I, myself, have done it probably about two times. Doctors ask you if youve ever tried it..and I want to lie... Could they possibly know I have before? By like my pee sample or something? would it be such a crime to lie about this??
Yes, she can if your underage. She will know as well. DEFINITELY. So you shouldn't lie just tell your mom the straight up truth before you actually go. No, they won't know you smoked weed unless you did it 48 hours before your doctors appointment, and they'd find out from a pee sample.
okay well one of my good friends likes this lil hottie! and yeah ive never met him b4 but ive seen him around and shes told me alot about him. now i want to help her try and get him..what can i do? because she is wayyy to shy to go up and talk to him you know..even tho she talks to him in school i guess? im afraid that if i meet him or my friend wants me to talk to him or something that maybe he will start flirting with me..then what do i do?! im soo bad at like just blowing off hot guys..well not blowing off just not flirting back. because i would LOVE to flirt back but i DO NOT want to hurt my friend at all..what do i do!?
If someone flirts with you, that you don't like; then don't flirt. But if he flirts with you & you like him, then flirt back. :] Maybe go up to him & ask him if he likes her, or get her to write him a note or something. She may be shy but she just has to get it out that she fancys this guy. You should flirt if you want, you can't help your feelings whether or not you like this guy. So hopefully all turns out for the best.
So you didn't have to get naked or anything? heh! I'm not the most confident person and I'd perfer not to have to get naked or even partiatally naked! And how do you see a nutrionist without a doctor? Do you need the doctor recommendation, or can you find one on your own and just go?
No. The worst is just the doctor MAY feel around your stomach and yeah that's it. I don't know, honestly. Try calling Nurtitionists around you. I don't think you need to be referred by a doctor.
do you think having brown eyes and hair is ugly!? cuz usually the boys go for blue eyes..ughhhh i dont know? what could i do to make my eyes like shine and just very big and bold! i dont know how to do the smokey look or whatever so that doesnt help =\ any other suggestions!?
thanks
I personally don't think it's ugly at all, and I know a lot of guys that are most attracted to girls with brown hair & brown eyes. :) I don't really think blondes are hotter then brunettes anyways! I'm not sure how to do smokey eye, either. And I don't wear make up that often, so here's a website:
http://www.free-beauty-tips.com/biggereyes.html