i thought i loved this guy but now were 2getha i no that i dnt. and i dunno how to tell him. ive let it go on for a month n i cnt deal with it any longer and i no its not fair on him. how do i tell him?
just tell him that your feelings for him have changed and that they aren't what you thought they were. he may be hurt, but not as hurt as he will be if you keep leading him on.
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Oh my goodness okay well i havent had my period in about 40 days and i thought that maybe i just skipped a month. I have my first boyfriend right now and we're really close and we were on a vacation thing together..we didnt do anything sexual AT ALL and my mom just asked me if i was pregnant!! and now im terrified because i dont know why im so late and i thought i just skipped a month but i guess not..im definetely not pregnant but my mother scared me and now im really worried! please..could someone please give me a reaosn why my period could be so late?
depending on howlong you have been getting it, it could be that it is just irregular until your body adapts to the changes you are going through. it usually is irregular in a girls first year or so. normally after about a year it will start to come along qutie regularly. if you are passed the beginners phase, you may want to see a gyno to determine if you just have an irregular menstual cycle. if you do then it may mean that you dont get it every month. since you have no chances of being pregnate, your best bet would be to get checked out. there is no harm done just to check. but it could be delayed by a many number of things. ask your doctor about it and he/she will be able to explain the problem a little more and explain reason for this a little more.
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im a girl, and latley (the past two months or so) i feel so sad and ive been really bitchy. at first i thought i may be PMSing. but not for two months! everything just feels sad and i cant seem to think happy thoughts or look on the bright side of anything. and surprisingly it doesnt bother me. like its no big deal, i dont contemplate suicide or anything like that and i dont cry or act all wierd, ive just been really quiet and to myself. i just feel so empty and broken. like nothing matters anymore and everythings worthless. but like i said, its not bothering me, i just wanna know why all of a sudden i feel like this, and what i should do. please help me out, just tell me what you think. thanks
well depending on your age it could possibly be puberty. but i dont think thats what it is. it sounds like one of the many different stages of depression. i know you dont think it is. you may not believe me because it isnt bothering you to feel like you are and you havent contemplated suicide or cry and act all weird. that is becuase you will experience those at a different stage of depression that is a deeper phase of depression. your situatuion, however, sounds like the beginnind part of depression. you may be able to control it when the time comes, you may be able to get out of depression before you get too far in. then again you may not. but that would be my best guess at it. i have been through a long run of depression in my family. mine was not a severe case, just a slight case of it and i was able to control it and bring myself outta it before it got really bad. so hopefully, you will be able to over come this issue. hope this helps and good luck.
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i asked my friend if he was goin to the school dance and he he said because he had no one to go with i really like him should i ask him to go with me ? or maybe wait to see if he asks me to the dance ? and what should i wear ?
you should ask him. and it all depends on what kinda dance it is. a formal, casual, etc.
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I am a senior this year. I will be going to college next year. Here is my problem. I don't know whether to choose a Nursing major or an Art major. My parents really want me to go for nursing, but art is what I love. Plus, most artists don't make a whole lot of money. What should I do?
well only you can make that choice. you have to choose which one you like better. in your question you say that you love art. so you will want a job, that you will have for the rest of your life, doing something you actually enjoy. i hope this helps.
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Ok. There is this boy that i liked for over a year. i met him when i moved here from flordia. And we became friends right away! and we were kindof going out or whatever. We were getting really close untill i had to move again and we talk on the phone everynight and talk about how much we miss eachother. and he tells me all the time that i will make a perfect wife. Ok know here is where the bad news comes from Im moving back to florida and he is really upset he thinks that i will find someone hotter than him and never come back to see him and just forget about him or something. Ok my question is do you think that we will still talk and maybe work out a relationship together??? Or will we slowly fade away from each other??? ~~~~~~I RATE HIGH~~~~~~~~
well truthfully, i think you will able to maintain a freindship, nothing more, nothing less. however i think that as time goes by, you will both grow apart fromeach other. slowly fade away more and more each day until there is nothing left. you may not like that answer but atleast it is an honest one. it is better than the bullshit answers some people will give you just to get a good rating. and just to let you hear what you want. well mines not and i dont care how low or how high you rate me. and i dont care about rating in between low and high. i dont care about ratings at all, just as long as the advice i give is truthful.
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I cut myself. When i feel super bad i cut myself. And i know it's a horrible thing to do. I need to stop. Does anybody have any suggestions about how to stop? Going to an adult is not an option. Please help.
put a rubber band on your wrists and when you think about cutting snap the rubberband.
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what does IM mean??? i've been told to IM someone... i'm confused!!! lol. is it some american thingy??? coz i'm australian.
lmfao.
instant messaging.
it means you instant message someone on a chat/messaging program such as aol, yahoo, aim, icq, msn... etc.
hahahaha
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ok theres this guy at my school whos a junior and im a sophmore and hes soo sweet..hes not really that HOTT but hes not ugly..and he has the BIGGEST crush on me ever...we hang out everyday and stuff and we went to a bonfire together and we held hands and kissed...the thing is...i have a boyfriend of 6 months who i really do love....and ive never cheated on him til now...i totally regret it..and wil never do it again but i feel so bad and now ryan (the guy i kissed) is all upset because i told him i cant cheat on my boyfriend no more and stuff and hes all hurt...but some of my friends knew about what happened and they want me to tell my boyfriend soo bad but i dont want to..i just want to let it go and never do it again :( and ryan calls me 24/7 even when im w/my boyfriend!! idk what to do please help me... :(
just tell him. it was only a kiss. tell him that he kissed you and that it didnt even mean anything to you. if that is not true, however, just simply tell him the truth. tell him what really happened. tell him how you regret it and dont ever want to do it again.
but it was only a kiss. not that big of a deal. trust me.
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do you think it is weird that a 17 year old is going out with a 13 year old, even if they love eachother more than anything in the world?
just a little. for one not only is it almost illegal but at thirteen, most ppl dont know what love is. i think it is lust more then anything.
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Okay I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I have been talking about having sex. Well I have a few questions....
1) I'm not a virgin but I told him I was. The 1st and only guy I had sex with was very small and I was wondering if my (virgin) boyfriend would be able to tell I wasn't.
2) Also...after sex do things change between the two people?
1) no, he wont be able to tell. you dont become a "gaping tunnel" just because you had sex. And because he is a virgin, he for sure wont be able to tell because he doesnt know what to expect.
But lying to someone you are about to have sex with about being virgin or not isnt a very good quality in your relationship. you should be honest with him about it.
2) yed, thing do change between people after having sex. sometimes for the good and sometimes for worse. if it changes for the good it may help bring you closer together and if it changes for the worse it may aid in drawing you guys apart.
But i wouldnt let the changing part bother you. you wont know if it will change for the good or the bad until after it has been done. so if you are ready, go for it.
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oh my god..i have a french test coming up TOMORROW and i dont know anythingg ..im faling that class and i havent studied..anyways its for a huge grade and i hve to get an A to bing up my grade! How can i get thru all the material? =/ please gimme some suggestions!! fast!
well you could just read over the stuff and keep reading it over and over and over again until you know some of the stuff or if you think you could pull it off, then make a cheat sheet.
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what re-fur? maybe its reifer ... i dont know but my best friend just told me he does that. I had no idea so i was like just like o.. can we talk about this later so i want to know what it is please
hahahaha you've got to be kidding me!
first off it's "REEFER". second off... how old are you? it seems that you must be incredably young to be asking this question.
anyway... to the point..
Reefer is a slang term for marijauna. if you dont know that term maybe you might know one of the following:
weed
pot
dope
If not, then i dont know what to tell ya. you obviously live a sheltered life and dont get out much.
reefer is considered a drug. it comes from a plant. so i guess you could say that it is natural i guess. haha. but you smoke reefer and it gets you high. there are several different techniques for smoking it.
Maybe you should try it. you might enjoy it. maybe too much. you might become a pot head or a burn out. but you'll never know until you try. and you will never know the feeling that people get until you try.
some people who smoke it get really quiet and relaxed while others get all hyper. and act really stupid. once again you never know what you will act like until you try it.
have fun.
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I've heard people talking about the movie Thirteen, and I was going to order it on TV (I have digital cable) but I dont really know what its about. So, will someone describe the movie to me..without giving the whole story away??
it about these two girls who start to hang out with each other. the one girl was the good goody type who always did what she was told. the other was the bad girl rebel type who did what she wanted. she was into lying, cheating, drugs, sex, and all those kinda things. and because the two became good friends the good goody had turned to the bad girl rebel type.
it was a really good movie. so you should def. order it. if you do watch it.. let me know what ya thought.
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Okay.. so me and my boy friend have been dating for 8 months ! Well just last week we were looking at his digital camera and a picture poped up and he was like oh look heres when they had a stripper come to my dads birthday ! Im Like WHAT ? so i didn't say anything until we got home well when i did hes like its just a joke come on i mean she was ugly and she only danced in front of everyone else ! I was like ok and i let it go away well then today i was looking thru the pictures and i seen one of her dancing all over him !! i didn't tell him i saw it but now its all i can think about i really love him what should i do !
i think you should just let it go. i look at it this way... she was only a stripper at a borthday party. she was hired to put on a show and thats exactly what she did. she was getting paid to do what she did. i dont think you should really be worrying about anything. nothing happened between them. the only thing she did was dancing over him. she prolly did it to everyone there.
take for example that if you two were planning on getting married and he had a bachelor party and the girls through you a bachelorette party. i'm sure that both of them would go with the tradition of hiring a stripper. none for you and one for him. it isnt anything major.
It is just a stripper. nothing less, nothing more.
you shouldnt really think about it all that much because i dont think that anything bad happened.
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I know this is going to sound like a stupid high school crush, but thats what it is i guess, this guy said that he liked me and he asked me out. At the time i didnt like him, i did about a year ago but since we had no classes together and i barely saw him. Now over the past few weeks ive started seeing him in the halls and beginning to like him more. I am very shy unless im with my closest friends and have never told anyone to their face that i like them.I want to know if i shud just wait it out and let it, like all my crushes, slowly fade away or should i tell him how it is?
you should "tell him how it is". think about it... you could let it "slowly fade away" and possibly have regrets later on in time. Just to think that if you dont, ask him out and tell him whats on your mind, you may never know how the two if you may end up. you will never know how the two of you were together with each other. if you think that it is nonsense to throw your self out on that limb and take that chance, then just make sure thats how you want it to be. make sure you will have no regrets about not doing it and just letting go. it's all on you now.
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ok well my bf and i we hang out all the time!!! but after awhile we get bored! but when he comes over or if i go over there we usually just watch tv! and i want to do something different! cuz we both can't drive yet! ideas would be great of wat to do!!!
and his birthday is in a couple of days and i want to do something for him soo Help me please so i can get ideas thanks a bunch
go for a walk somewhere like a park or a lake(if there is one near you). have your parents take you and drop you off at the mall or the movies. go over to a different friends house and hang out with a whole bunch of people. but it sucks not being able to drive. so you go to make do with what you gots.
for his birthday take him out to dinner or something. just the two of you or a whole group of friends. i dn. i tried. but you'll figure something out.
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my friend doesn't even know where he wants to go to college. he's a junior in high school and let's just say he's not doing all that well and his GPA is the proof of that. he doesn't seem to care about this school stuff but he's constantly getting stressed out. what should i do to help him in this situation?! or what should happen?!
ok well first off... it doesnt matter if he doesnt know what he wants to do yet. alot of students dont know what they want to do at that point in their life. take me for example... i'm a senior and i graduate in the first week of june, and i still am undecided on what i want to do with my life and career. thats not uncommon in high school students. he is a junior, he has the rest of this year and even next year to decide. if he is undecided then he can take a semester to think about it or even take the year off to figure out what he wants to persue his career in. i wouldnt really be concerned that much about it. he will figure it out. there is nothing you can do that can choose what he wants to do. that is all on him and only him. just give him time to figure out what that is that he will want to do for the rest of his life. going to college and trying to find a job to have for the rest of your life is a major life changing thing. he will figure it out in time. just give him that time.
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Hi...um i like this one guy and i think he likes me, but everytime i get one of my friends to ask him if he likes me, he says that he doesn't. He always is staring @ me in the halway and he smiles @ me and stuff! he's really cute and really nice and i really like him! HELP! i rate high!
14/f
well if you like him so damn bad, you wouldnt have your friends go up and talk to him for you. get the balls to go up and talk to him for yourself. if you think he likes you, then you should have no worries.
but seriously... you should talk to him yourself to see if he really does like you in the way you like him or if he just likes you as a friend.
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Please help me with my relationship problem, my boyfriend is like absessed with tickling me, he thinks it's funny and cute. It's fun, but it gets annoying. When I tell him to stop, he just keeps doing it. I can't get away. What do I do?? No matter how much I ask, he won't stop.
well next time he does it and you tell him to stop and he wont... slap him and/or push him away. you dont need to hit him hard enough to knock him out or anything, just hard enough to get your attention. and when he asks whats wrong tell him that you said to stop and your tired of telling him to stop and him never listening to you.
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