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Question Posted Sunday January 30 2005, 8:03 pm

I know this is going to sound like a stupid high school crush, but thats what it is i guess, this guy said that he liked me and he asked me out. At the time i didnt like him, i did about a year ago but since we had no classes together and i barely saw him. Now over the past few weeks ive started seeing him in the halls and beginning to like him more. I am very shy unless im with my closest friends and have never told anyone to their face that i like them.I want to know if i shud just wait it out and let it, like all my crushes, slowly fade away or should i tell him how it is?

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fall_to_pieces answered Monday January 31 2005, 11:38 am:
tell him how it is.

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angieroonie answered Sunday January 30 2005, 9:10 pm:
you should definately tell him how it is. if you dont go for it now then you never will. it's best to ask him to his face because then you get an immediate answer but if you cant, just give him a note. good luck! tell me how it goes.

~ANGE

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mysticpixie05 answered Sunday January 30 2005, 8:51 pm:
you should "tell him how it is". think about it... you could let it "slowly fade away" and possibly have regrets later on in time. Just to think that if you dont, ask him out and tell him whats on your mind, you may never know how the two if you may end up. you will never know how the two of you were together with each other. if you think that it is nonsense to throw your self out on that limb and take that chance, then just make sure thats how you want it to be. make sure you will have no regrets about not doing it and just letting go. it's all on you now.

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Toca_says answered Sunday January 30 2005, 8:34 pm:
awww... that's sooo cute... you definately should tell him that you like him... if he likes you.. and u like him... what's keeping you two from being together?? just go for it... if you don't want to tell him to his face pass him a note or talk to him on AIM...good luck.. and tell me how it goes...=)



~>Rae<~

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xlngwoodsbellax answered Sunday January 30 2005, 8:27 pm:
Tell him. If he had the nerve to ask you out once before, he must have liked you. If he says no, don't be crushed. Don't ever cry about anything like that because remember theres only one guy in the world for you. And if the one you're currently having a crush on doesnt like you the same way you like them, obviously hes not the one for you. There are plenty of fish in the sea and I bet you within the next few months, your probably going to have a different crush no matter how much you think you like this guy now. If he says yes, congrats! Enjoy your time together and maybe some day you'll be grateful you asked. Take a chance! Who knows...he could be the one for you.
Good luck hun!
Jacki

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xosweetiepiexo answered Sunday January 30 2005, 8:25 pm:
just think of it this way...
If you don't ask him out will you have regrets?, will you be missing out on something good?, and would it have worked out in the end? DOn't be shy about it... ask him out.

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