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My name is McKenzie and I'm a freshman at Reedley College, I love to help people out with problems and to write. I want to be a writer someday. I love to make friends. Ask any question and I'll attempt to answer it.

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Ok.. im sorry if this gets long and confusing, but i really need help & ive got a lot on my mind.. so this will get long!!

So theres this boy, and i like him so much! the thing is.. we went out before.. and he was so great! then we broke up about 2 months later because his feelings werent as strong for me as he thought. but i still like him. we talked about going out but he didnt think it was a very good idea, but he did like me. ( we go to different schools, by the way. ) we see each other every monday, wednesday, and friday. and i think thats good enough? ever since we broke up we've been best friends.. and that makes me like him even more. about 4 months after we broke up, he asked me out again. he said for sure his feelings were strong. so i said yes, because i was madly in love with him!! he had a dance at his school, he asked me to go but i couldnt because of cheerleading practice. so i came home and checked my messages on my cell fone and one of my good friends that goes to his school called me. i called her back right away. she told me so much stuff! like the boy danced with another girl.. that didnt really bother me. but then she said they made out and he went to her house afterwards. i was crying so much!! i called his cell fone and the GIRL answered. [ to make it all worse, it was the girl i hate because she did the same exact thing with my old boyfriend. ] so me and the boy talked and he denied everything. i could not believe him. this was about 2 weeks ago. but i still love him so much!! see, thats the thing. after all he did and after all the pain i went through.. i keep on loving him. i keep on begging for him! it sucks =( i cry so much about it but theres nothing i can do.

so my question is :
what should i do!? follow my heart and still crush on him.. or give up on him?!

I LOVE HIM SOOOOO MUCH

I say give up on him because obviously he can't decide. Find another boy who'll stick with you no matter what. Hope I helped!

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I'm getting braces October 3rd and I need help. Do they hurt? What color bands should I get? (I'm kind of preppy, brown hair and eyes.) What should I eat afterward? And all the other things about braces.
I'LL RATE FIVES!

Well your in luck because I had braces. What you should NEVER eat is hard candies which can break your brackets and carmel,apples and stuff like that. They can get stuck in your braces. I think you should get blue. You can change them everytime you go in for an appointment. Braces can hurt because you're not used to them. Afterwards, they'll probably put you on retainers which you'll probably have to wear for a while. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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hey can someone tell me how to make my column pretty and stuff? im new at this and i dont have a clue. if you wanna help can u plz im me at x truLyy bLondee

At the left side, there's a button called Column settings. Click it and it'll bring up your column. There's a button with ready-made backgrounds that you can choose from. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Is Lindsay Lohan wearing a lace dress in this picture?

http://www.celebweb.org/pictures/displayimage.php?album=1626&pos=1

I can't tell if it's lace or not.

Yes she is. Hope I helped!

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okay well theres this guy on my bus and well i think he likes me he told me im pretty and now he always wants to talk to me and he stares at me alot but see he only speaks spanish hes from el salvador and he doesnt know alot of english and well im mexican myself but i only understand it i cant speak it cause when i do it sounds terrible and plus i dont really know how to say some words still

I say learn Spanish. If its the only way to communicate with him. The effort of learning his native language will be pleasing to him. Hope I helped!

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If you read this, Id like you to respond. And Id like you to post your age. Consider it a survey. Respond as briefly or as long-winded-ly as youd like, but please respond.

What is love to you? How do you define love? How do you tell when you are in love with someone?

Answer me these questions three and then we'll see what love means to thee!

I would define love as finding that one special person and never letting go of them. When you're in love with someone, you can't stop thinking about them and miss them terribly when they are away from you. Hope I helped!

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Im not allowed to have a boy friend and im going to be 13 they treat me like im two. well i have a bf named chris and i been sneaking him for a LONG time now since i was a little kid we keep fighting and getting back together and fighting and well ne wayz i am sick of sneaking but i love him soo much and i dont want ne thing to happen between us but i am sick of my parents...what should i do.
LoVe,
puppyluv

Talk to your parents and see why they won't let you have a boyfriend. If its a dumb reason, explain to them why you should be allowed to date and that you love him. If they still won't understand, I say date him anyway. It is wrong to be sneaking behind your parents I agree. But if they don't approve, you should respect their decision. They're doing it because they love you. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Im gothic,I dont have friends of course,duh!
How do i get some so I can get a clique!

Introduce yourself and get known. If your shy, remember that there are others out there who are shy as well. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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well i like this boy, and hes single. but him and his girlfriend just broke up a little bit ago from going out for a year. he is my best friend and we talk a lot. he comes over to my house a lot too. i told him that i liked him and he said "well i don't know if anything will happen". does this mean i have NO chance with him? i went out with him before but it was only a few days. please help me

chrissie/f/tx

Stay friends with him and maybe something will happen. Hope I helped!

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See my Grannie died and thats my mom's mom. My mom has been taking it pretty hard latley and she sometimes crys and gets mad and I just feel so bad for her cause its her mom and she loved her alot. Everytime I see her cry I want to confort her but I don't really know what to do or say. She has lost 7lbs in the last 2 weeks and she hasn't been eating right and she is all depressed and empty. She is really scering me and I don't know what to do.

Please Help Me. Thanks in Advance and No stupid answers.

Try your best to comfort her. Just remember she's up in Heaven and she lived a good life. It's OK to cry. Take as long as you need to cry it out. My dad's mom died back in April and I'm still crying over it! It takes longer for some people to realize they're gone longer than others. Just remember she will never leave your memories. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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so i met this guy a while back right but he had a girlfriend. well i stopped talking to him cause he had a girlfriend and i knew i liked him so i didnt want to interferre. well that was 5 months ago..and i ran into him at a carnival 2 weeks ago. hes single now and hes the most sweetest guy. we went to the movies and he payed and stuff and we held hands..and we have a date next weekend. were texting eachother or talking to eachother 24/7. the problem is his ex is freaking physco. like seriously, she used to hit him and cheat on him and stuff. and his parents hated her. they called her physco from san diego. lol but anyways, ive never met her. but she got my number from this girl that knows me and shes always having people calling me saying you better stay away from brandon and all this shit to me. then she denys it or says it wasnt her. but im so fucking sick of people in my business. and so is he. its getting old..i mean come on. and im worried shell like try to beat me up and shit cause shes rally violent and crazy. we go to different schools though. what do i do? this guy is so worth it.hes completly sweet..and yeah well i pretty much know hes going to ask me out soon. helppp there willbe major drama if i go out with him.

It sounds like the girl is just plying for attention and will do just about anything to keep you two apart. Ignore her and you two will be just fine. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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so me and me GF broke up( im not sad she brought me down hard)but i still miss her.when i got over her i began to think hard about my first crush who moved away but im not sure if its because im finally single and want to be with her or that im lonley

It's completely normal to feel like this. Give yourself some time to copee with the other girl before you move on. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Here's the story... Well my boyfriend used to always call me and talk to me for like hours.. And he stayed hours on the computer just to talk to me... Now, he like never calls and when he does (which is very rare) its only 5 minutes long.. And plus on the comp... he like talks to me for like 15-20 minutes and he keeps making up those lame excuses that he has to go... I don't what to do... Is there something wrong?? I rate high

btw...im a 14 /f and hes 15/ m

Well if you're around him, ask him what's up. He may feel depressed or something. Cheer him up. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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my best friend and i have been friends for four years now. she started dating this one guy, and they have been dating for over 5 months. at first, i was fine with it because she never really had a boyfriend who treated her so well, but lately she has been choosing him over me, a lot. but not only that, i'll ask if she wants to hang out, and she'll invite him to places with us without even asking me. and then they'll do there little couplely thing and im standing there like a retard. i get sick of being the 3rd wheel sometimes. i always picked her over my boyfriends, and i dont expect her to never spend time with her boyfriend but i do think it is okay to leave some time for a friend?! personally, i think she needs to choose: boyfriend or best friend.

You're right to complain about her not spending time with you. But if you got a boyfriend, would you do the same thing? She needs to include you in some of the things they do but not everything. Ask her to include you in some of the things like going to the movies, doing homework, ect. Remember they need some alone time once in awhile too. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Ok..So i like this boy!my friends know i like him and almost everybody does that i know!Well my best friend has a locker next to him and she wants me to talk to him on Monday!I've only said Hi to him so far!I dont know what to say!Can somebody tell me what i can say to him!i dont wnat to say anything stupid cause its love!No stupid answers!

Just ask him what he's doing for lumch, what classes he has and how his day is going. If you want, invite him to eat lunch with you. Hope I helped!

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Okay. So my friend was going out with a girl. He really likes her. A whoooole lot. Both of their parents won't let them see eachother anymore becasue they think his x gf needs to get herself together before she can see anyone. My friend has really been into the wrong stuff, like drugs, pills, smoking, all that, and he finally has done community service and is done with it. He told me he was clean. But I just asked him and all of the sudden he told me everything and said he's not and he needs help and he dosn't know what to do and he needs some one to help him because he can't deal with it on his own, because usually he just takes pills or something. He asked me for advice, and he dosn't want to go back to pills and stuff but he's scared he will and he really is having a hard time and needs help. I don't know what to tell him. Pleeease help me, He needs advice and he asked me because I'm not in to that stuff and I want to get him off it. What do I tell him?

Well you wanna reassure him that everything will be OK. Then you have to see how he's doing every once in awhile, see how he's dealing with things. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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ok. me and my man have never made out with annyone before, and i was thinkin that that is something we might do preddy soon. what i need to know is, how? should i just like, get on top of him and shove my toung in his mouth or what? pleaze i need help i rate

Here are a few guidelines to follow:
1. Eat a breath mint because you don't want your man pulling away from you because of that.
2. If you have perfume, spray a little on before the kiss to make it more romantic
3. Have fun with it and if you like it, do it often.
Good luck! Hope I helped!

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I am 13 Male

When my best friend (a girl a have a crush on) asks me a question about if she should go out with a certain boy whose side should i be on...
should i be on her side and say " Oh ya definitaly go out w/ him.
Or should i be on my side and be like "uh No you should stop looking at a ever other F ing boy but me.
Im sorry if this ? Seems dumb but i need advice hense me coming to this website

I rate Fives

PLEASE i am desparate

Say what you feel. If you don't want her to go out with a guy, say that. And if you like her, ask her out. You'll never know what'll happen. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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okay so this has been really bothering me *hence, the subject*.. does anyone think it's weird that i'm going to be sixteen and i've never kissed a guy?

You kiss when you're ready and you meet that one guy. And no, i don't think its wierd. My sister has never kissed or had a boyfriend and she's 19! Hope I helped!

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YUP this is really random.... but what are those thingys called.... The ones that are like in conuntry western movies and their LIke BIG huge balls of dust and they usually are like rolling around in sand storms or wind.... I KNOW ITS random BUT I NEED TO KNOW! lol....

I think they're called tumbleweeds. You might try to look it up online on www.google.com. You're right its a random question butI help everyone on this site! Hope I helped!

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