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My Mom Is Talking This Hard....
See my Grannie died and thats my mom's mom. My mom has been taking it pretty hard latley and she sometimes crys and gets mad and I just feel so bad for her cause its her mom and she loved her alot. Everytime I see her cry I want to confort her but I don't really know what to do or say. She has lost 7lbs in the last 2 weeks and she hasn't been eating right and she is all depressed and empty. She is really scering me and I don't know what to do.
Please Help Me. Thanks in Advance and No stupid answers.
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I would maybe contact a close family friend about it. They might be able to confront her baout it and gte her some help. Although you could do this, the family friend might be able to ersuade her better.
I hope all goes well for you, hun.
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my grandmother just passed away as well and it was also my moms mom. she has been very torn up about it, they were very close. i at first didnt know what to either, i wanted to hug her and tell her everything is going to be ok, but that kind of stuff just dosent work for her, so a good friend gave me some really great advice, it worked wonders for me and i hope it helpes you to. i was told to talk to my mom like take her out for coffie or what ever it is your mom likes to do, and make sure it is just the two of you. and tell her you know she is going through a rough time, and you couldnt even begin to imagine what you would feel like if you were in the same situation. let her know you are completely there for her no matter what time, or what you are doing. then tell her that you thing the two of you should do something in your grandmothers honor, maybe something she loved to do as a child, or make a memorial for her what ever is fitting to her and your budget, and make it a regular thing to do with your mother to pay tribute to your grandmother in your own special little way. i hope this helps.
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Try your best to comfort her. Just remember she's up in Heaven and she lived a good life. It's OK to cry. Take as long as you need to cry it out. My dad's mom died back in April and I'm still crying over it! It takes longer for some people to realize they're gone longer than others. Just remember she will never leave your memories. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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just try to sit down and let her talk to you, let her tell you how she feels and if you really want to help just be there for her
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Ask her to go for a drive. When I go driving with my mom we just sit and talk. Let her talk about whatever she wants with you - even if its not her mom. Maybe you can offer to cook dinner for her - her favorite meal. Write her little notes in places she'll find them when you're not around telling her how much you love her. Make her funny little pictures. If she doesnt want to talk about it, don't push it. Just be there for her incase she does.
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