This is going to sound gross at first and I apologize. I'm going to try to word it as maturely as possible. Okay, I was talking to this boy that I sort of like, well, that I'm "attracted" to & he had a "boner" or whatever term you want to use. This happened right in the middle of lunch when we were chatting. People found out and started say that means I "arroused" him and that he must have some sort of attraction to me. I'm kind of confused on whether this is what it means because this happened. Thanks.
Btw, I'm 14/f
*jEsS*
dear jess,
well yes he must have some attraction towards you. don't worry too much about it. every boy goes through it. i dunno maybe you two could hook up or something. lol.
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i want to act as a career but everyone doupts me my confidence is low what should i do
you shouldn't care what others think if you want to do something that will make you satisfied then go for it! don't let others get in your way. tell them to step aside while you go and catch your dream.
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My best friend since 5th grade (we're Jr. now) recently started dating this girl. Well, we live next door to each other and she was over at his house this morning. I was in my backyard and they were in his. I over heard her tell him that she doesn't want him hanging out with me anymore. I didn't hear what he said back. Should I ask him about it or wait until he brings it up?
wait till he brings it up. cuz you don't want him to accuse you of evesdropping. or he might not even listen to her
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basically to cut a long story short....
i really i mean really like this boy who has gone to the army before i got a chance to tell him how i feel because i only realised after he left.
its been 9 months since i have seen him and ive been trying to get over him but i cant.
he'll never come back.
then i met a boy on msn through my best mate a month ago. since then we've become really close. he has got deep feelings for another girl and he dosent know how i feel.
i'm just so confused right now.
any help would be so helpfull
xx
well tell the boy how you feel. just straight out. but if he rejects you then you need to move on
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im a fourteen year old gurl. i have alot of freinds but ive never had a boyfreind and i think its becuase of my weight i dont understand why guys dont like me just becuase of that one thing im a good person and really does hurt. what should i do to help me?
well for one most guys are just attracted to sex
and all the things that it comes with. they are demented by the media and the think with their penis not their brain. not all but most.
what you can do is think about how good of a person you are. and get the "hey im here if you like me that's great but if you don't then go to hell" you can't change for people but you can change for yourself. and get involved with volunteer work, jobs, extra-curriculars.......etc..
and im sorry that guys are insinsitive toward others feelings
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today in lacrosse practice we were running up and down metal bleachers when my leg caught a corner. the cut is a little deep but my friend put peroxide on it and a bandaid. when i got home, i changed the bandage. now i just took a shower and put bacitraycin plus on it but it looks red around the cut. does this mean its infected? if so what do i do (besides see a doctor)??
well put alcohol on it twice a day. and keep putting a bandaide over it but get the big kind. and yes it's infected. and it will take about a week or more to heal
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omg so i thought i was pregnant and i put the form in my wallet and i left it out in my living room and my mom found it..shes coming home in 15 mins now and said she wants to talk to me abuot something and i looked though my wallet and the pink form was gone....omg what do i tlel her???? im soo scared
tell her the truth. it cuts down the drama. and she'll believe the truth. just be honest and you won't hurt her as bad
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i look for porn sites on google with my computer...everytime i get on google and i type "p" and the word porn will then flash on to the screen...i dont want to get caught!!! how do i clear the history??? plz help!
there should be a history button on your internet site. or you can right click on the internet icon and go to delete files then settings and go to delete cookies. then go to settings and view files. do that every time you use the internet and it should work
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okay at skool the other day i leaked and it was all over my chair. i coverd my pants with my jackett. i was wearing a extreamly large pad. it went through. am i bleeding to much
this is my 3rd period
no your body is just getting used to the period. plus you have a heavy flow. well it can help to control the leakage if you use tampons. but unless you are ready and your mom says it's okay and everything then don't but otherwise do it.
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My brother has a girlfriend that comes over to his place on weekends. They always end up argueing. She stomps her feet and calls him everything but a white man. She tells him to do things demandingly. My sister is living there too, she and i dont know what to do about it. His girlfriend keeps telling him its his fault.. And that its not her fault most of the time. My sister calls me and says they r fighting and dont know what to do..So i came over. All I could hear is the girlfriend, stomping her feet and hollaring at my brother.. for something simple.. Which she makes a big deal out of. I walked into his room and told him he dont deserve to be treated like that.. then walked away.. He then got hollared at for me doing that..she said the he has to go out there and tell me and my sis that it was his fault and not hers..when he said it wasnt ..she starts stomping her feet..mind you they were in the bedroom and we were in the living room and you can feel it..It seems that all she is doing is bringing him down. He told her to leave ..she hollars and whines til he gives in. What can we do..how can i help..or let my brother understand it aint gonna stop..she aint gonna change. How do you tell someone (the girlfriend) that they have a problem when they are in denial themselves..Please help.
well all you can do is offer your support. tell him how you and your sis see the situation. sit down when she's not around and talk to him. and tell him that it won't change. and he's letting her tear him down. that that isn't a relationship it's a simon says game.
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we were having foreplay..n wen i blowjobin he suddenly couldn resist it n he splashed around..n while he was cleaning up his sperm he got it some to his hands n soon he wiped off wit his handkerchief..then after a while he finger penetrated my vagina..will tis cause pregnancy..im 20 n his 19..
no because when sperm hits the air it dies. so don't worry about it. but if you still feel worried then get a test done. guess you can never be too sure
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i really am so ready for sex and my bf and i already have it all planned out...the thing is, im not very self-confident when it comes to my body. my legs are slim, which all my friends envy, but i feel so wierd! my hands get clamy ALL the time...is there anything i can do about that? and finally, i am really self-consious about the hair on my body...like on my lower back, a tiny bit around my belly, and 'downstairs'. i dont want to shave these regions, but im just worried about what he'll think...and i dont want to be all high-maintenance about my body, but i dont know what im supposed to do! please help
well first of all if he helped you plan it out then he can't be too worried. and as for your "downstairs" just trim it with siccors but be careful not to cut yourself. and as for the clammy hands try using lotion rite before or say " see how you make me" or something like that. but don't worry if you both like or love eachother it doesn't even matter.
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this is very embarassing! please tell me if i have genital warts or not. i really hope this isn't that! i have a lot of tiny bumps on my penis... i don't know if its genital warts or not. if you know what it could be then please tell me. ill rate 5's!
well go and have a doctors exam done. but if you don't want to do a quick search on the net to see what it is.
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i got my period for the first time about 1 year, and 8 months ago. I haven't had it very many times since. i get it like every 2 or 3 months? i heard that body weight has something to do with it and some sites tell me that im "emaciated" and stuff like that, but i eat, have a fast matabolism, and im active. do you think this is why my period is irregular? ps im like 5'6 and 105, i think. thankss
maybe but your body is still getting used to it. but if you have had a major blow or pressure to your stomache then that may be the problem. if you are still worried just go and have it checked out
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i thought i was pregnant because i was giving my bf a handjob and he was fingereing me and i didnt know if he had some on his finger..because he jacked off b4..but anyways, i took a home test and it said ii wasnt and i went to planned parenthood and they said i wasnt. but i dont know i keep thinking i am..how accurate are planned parenthood's tests? because i didnt get a period for the month of m arch, but then again neither did my mom and she just got hers today and im usually right after her--but im freaking out..
well most girls don't know that sperm dies when it hits the air so don't worry. the tests are pretty accurate. but if you still don't know for sure go and get another test.
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well there is this girl that ive liked for a while and she told me at the beginning that she liked me and we flirt alot but now she is starting to like some 1 else and she told me that she likes me a little so what should i do?
well you have to respect her feelings but ask her and talk to her about your relationship. and ask her why is she that way about you
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When does the "cycle" usually become regular?!?! Mine keeps coming at random times and now, it's not coming at all! The last time I got it was February 24???
usually it takes a couple of years. but don't worry about it. i missed mine for 8 months once
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I'm not really one to ask this kind of question..But there's this guy. He goes to another school, I just recently started talking to him over the phone and stuff. We have a lot of chemistry. We always have something to talk about. So I just called him, I haven't talked to him since last night, and he didnt answer his phone. Do you think I should call him again or just wait for him to call?
just wait for him. don't seem eager. it turns guys off usually
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Hey, I'll be wearing a backless, strapless dress for a wedding and I was wondering if anyone knew any bras or "boob holders" to wear underneath the dress? The back goes pretty low so a strapless bra won't work well, and I'm not liking those adhesive boob tape they sell in stores. Where can I find a product that offers support but doesn't show? I've looked into a Victoria's Secret one, but the straps are a bit thick. Here's the link:
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/images/prodlgvw/V238138.jpg
well i was going to suggest the natural bra but it's adhessive. it blends with your skin but adds a cup size. but once it's stuck it won't fall off.
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ive been with my man for a little over 2 weeks and we were originally planning to keep it a secret so no one would bug us. well, now every knows and wants to know all the details (have u kissed yet...how far have you gone..) and i really dont know what to do besides tell them to shut up and stay out of it. thanks in advance.
well just tell them if they want to know then get their own bf. lol. but just tell them that it's your business and you will tell them in your own time. or something like that. sorry if it doesn't help
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