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My name is Matthew. I try my best to serve the Lord as best I can. I also try to serve my fellow brother and sisters as best I can. Salvation is my goal for you.

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ok, im doing a science fair at my school blah blah blah...is this a good project: How does music affect one's ability to sleep well?

please be honest, p.s:im in seventh grade(13)
just thought it might help judge...thanx

Yeah. It is a good idea. There really is a lot of info out there since this study has been done many times. Good luck with it!

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okay so my boyfriend we have been dating for about 3 months now and we talk on the phone constantly! i mean i really love him but i have a life and i dont have time to just talk to him for hours every night! and like when he calls he barley has n e thing to say! wut should i do? i dont wanna break up with him but i mean it will b really hard to tell him not to call me n e more!

aahhh please help me sooon!! b4 he calls again!! lol jk but yea i need advice soon

Dont make up an excuse. Tell him straight up you need to have a little room. Sure at first he'll be hurt but then he'll realize its for the best. Dont breeak up with him over that though. Its a stupid reason to. Just tell him. "look man. I really like you a lot but sometimes I need to just be off the phone and such. Too much of a good thing can turn bad. Itll be better for both of us."

Just tell him straight up. Honesty is the best policy.

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i like two people. lets call them billy and bob. i really started to like billy. and one day i got someone to tell him. well my best friend told BOB that i like him. i didnt really but then i started to again. i didnt really hear much from billy but bob was starting to like me now. i talked to bob and he said "well i like you but i really want to get to know you more first and well see what happens from then." all of the sudden one day like 10 people come and tell me billy likes me. so now i want to go out with billy, but i dont want bob to think i dont like him and have him not like me anymore so if me and billy ever broke up bob would think im running back to him. i dont feel like waiting for bob and have billy not like me either. what should i do ?

You need to chose ONE person. Dont play the Ill date him but this guy has to keep liking me. DOnt do that. Its only going to cause trouble and heartbreak. Find the one you like most and go for them. Dont try to get both. Its not fair to them.

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do guys like it if girls ask them to dance or go out w/ them...ive always wondered. or does the guy have to do it all?

This day and age it doesnt really matter anymore. However its more courdial if the guy asks the girl out. Its traditional and shows he has what it takes to step up. However guys now a days are scared of that type of stuff so really its your own judgement. However to really answer your question for me it doesnt really matter. FOr lots of guys it doesnt matter. Its all opinion of the person.

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how do u delete your history of ur computer? like the websites uve gone to ? pleasetell me

Go to 'tools' then internet options and then delete History. You also can delete 'cookies' files and all that. Thatll keep you from getting into trouble. ;)

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Well I know this might be difficult. But I can't ask anybody or anything so I was just wondering if anybody could help me.. My project says..

Make an illustarted map of the thirteen original colonies (i did this already)

Using a legend, indicate the following:

a) when each was started
b) by whom
c) origin of the early settlers
d) special features
e) any other pertinent information you have found while researching this topic.

Does a legend mean, a story? or does it mean like a key ?? please help!!

A legend is a key.

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Ok, my boifriend doesnt call me, wont talk to me at all anywhere and like i think he is goin to break up with me. How can i find out if hes goin to break up with him without gettin him mad at me??? HELP!!!

Ask his friends. Personally I would be direct with hima nd tell him whats up. If he doesnt call or talk to you...maybe its not worth it at all. He apparently doesnt want to use his time talking to you so hes gotta go. You should find someone who has some priorites in his life....

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There is this guy, who is really hott and I want to get to know him better. I dont know anything about him except that his name is Jason. K well I want to go up to him and say something. But I dont know what to say!! He doesnt know me so I cant just be like "Hey I'm Sherry..whats up" You know? So how do I introduce myself? I also cant just tell him hes hott..I dont want to freak him out!! help:)

xo_sherry_ox

Well just start with the small talk. You know...the usual.."Hey, hows it going?" I agree that starting off with "I think your hot" would be a bad way to start it. Perhaps if hes sitting somewhere...you could start with "Do you know what time it is?" When he answers say thanks...and go from there...be like "The weathers nice today" or "you have a cool watch...can I see it?" something of that nature. The only way you'll get to talk to him is if you go and initiate the conversation. Its the simple ways that gets the best results.

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how can u tell when ur in love with a guy???

The dictionary states the following:

A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.
A feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance.

However I firmly believe that love is something more than whats described there. I think its where you cant stop thinking about someone and when you do, you have a huge smile on your face. The time you spend with them you wish would never end. Its As if you could freeze time....you would. Never wanting it to end. When you sit in their arms and you feel safe, tranquil, happy, protected. When things get you down, you just think about them and suddenly things feel a little better. The feeling that if you dont see them then you feel as if your day just isnt going to be a good one. Where if you see them talking with another person of the same gender you develope just a hunt of jealousy (or more...) There is much more I could add.

This is just what I think. Some peoples perspective on it may differ but I feel I have provided you with a better answer than the rest. So if these feelings apply to you and your guy...then perchance your in love.

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Anyone know the address to a page where I can store photos on? Besides photobucket and picturetrail.

Imageshack.us

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My cousin is expecting a little girl in March and she's decided to name the baby either Cecilia or Cecilie. (Pronounced Siseelia or Sisilee). She has asked me to search for middle names that will flow easy with her first name and last name. The last name is Walsh if that helps any. I hope you can help! Thanks in advance.

I would have to say Anne. It flows so nicely...Cecilia Anne Walsh.....Works awesomely it does.

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hi
i m 26 female
dr i have a seriouse problem which is concerned with my marriage
r u can say with my life.
a year ago when i watch a sex movie.i aroused and i start masturbation.
i insert my midlle finger into my vagina.it was 4rth day of my periods.
when i saw my finger there was blood on it.now i want to know,
1......was my hymen damage at that moment or the blood of my periods?
2.....can a hymen tear by inserting just one finger?
3......is the hymen outside the vagina or inside?some people says that
it is
deep inside the vagina.how much it is deep?can 3 inch of a finger
damge it?
dr actullay i cant go to gynecologist coz i cant share it with my
mother.
plz replay me coz on ur responce i will deside to marry.
in our society if the girl with torn hymen get married.she get divorced
next day. so plz help me.
a needy girl....... sara...... from pakistan

The hymen is indeed inside the vagina. Yes a finger can break it. Actually about anything can. From fingers to bike riding to falling off a chair. It could very well be "blood of your periods." You can go to a gynocologist and not have to share it with your mother. Its 100% confidental so she will never know unless you tell her.

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ok, um i completely deleted my history and now i want it back, lol, um how the heck do i do that?! ne one, help please!

No can do. Its gone and lost forever.....oh my darling...history.....(couldnt resist...)

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-does he like me or does he like herr???
---is it me or is it her...or am i really her?
(sry i know this is long n confusing)


ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...and he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..and i said "no" then he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl" and i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..and i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he wont listen to that...and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...and he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx

P.S. also...i asked him last night on-line what this girls name is and he said "marissa" and i asked him way be4 that.."what would you say if i said i liked you" and he said "i dunno" and said well what would your 1st response be if i said i did and he said "u do?" and i said oooo..then he said something or w/e and i said you scare me sometimes and he didnt say anything for 2 mins and i said..."do you care that you do sometimes" and he said "yea"..and i said "how much?" and he said "______________________________________________________________________________"
and i said "ooohh"..and when we got into an little argument over what is harder being a girl or being a guy...and he said we have it easier..and when i said "no we dont bc we have to turn down guys who ask us out, i had to do it 5 times" and he said "w/ whoooo?"..like if he was affaird i was taken or something..ahh it drives me insane..-thx again

From the sounds of it. It sounds like her has feelings for you, yet at the same time he might for this other chick. I would just ask him straight up what he thinks. Ask him if he likes this other chick or you. Thats what I would do. Beating around the bush and trying to find clever ways of finding out can be confusing and often times lead to problems. You only live once, so why live with regrets. Just ask straight up.

I hope I helped you.

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I love volleyball... but i fucking hate my coaches... they are such dush bags... should i quit or should i stick with it? if i quit i would def. play soccer... HELP!!

Id give soccer a try. I think soccer is better and more fun to play/watch. Thats just me though.

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ok look there is a rumor going around in my school saying that i stuck my tongue down this girls throat which i didn't. but there are more rumors being thought up about me and this girl. her friends bielive every word of it. and so i tried talking to them, but they wouldnt listen. so i made this petition saying this "This petition is to say that you believe that the rumor whether you have or haven’t heard it that. You strongly believe that Tiago Marti did not spread a rumor saying that he stuck his tongue down Ashley’s throat or any other rumor that involves him with anybody.

Please sign you name if you believe this.

Thank you courtesy of Tod Ellat"

do you think that this is a good idea for me to show them that i didn't spread these rumors. cause if they won't listen then maybe if other people sign this then they will.

what do you think..


thnx
tio

From the sounds of it...your in high school or something. SO my guess is since everyone is immature they are going to naturally vote for "yes" So its a good try and you can go ahead and do it....but I myself wouldnt expect much from it. However if you want people to forget about it...then maybe you should too. Rumors come and go. The best way to get over it, is to let it pass. Sorry mate.

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Does anyone know of a website to post pics on. Like either a photo album one or an actual website one. I don't want Picture Trail, EasyDesigner, Xanga, or Xprofile. If you know of any others that are user friendly, let me know! Thanks! -Free2bMe :)

Photobucket it was I use and also imageshack.us

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If your a virgin (( girl )) then how can you get pregnant?

Lol. Yes you CAN get pregant even if your still a virgin. These people who say you cant are stupid. If sperm gets into the vagina and gets to an egg your going to get pregnant. Whenever there is sperm and vaginas together there is ALWAYS a chance. These people who say you cant need to STFU or die. They dont know anything. Lol. Well I hope I helped with my accurate information unlike everyone else here.

Also to the one who said once sprem touches air it dies....WTF? NO! If it goes in the mouth it will because the acids kill it. But it still lives in air. Wtf are you talking about....lol

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Well my friends and I all decided to be "goth" for halloween this year, and well I'm not really sure what to buy for clothes (other than things that are black) and I'm not to sure what to do with the makeup either, got any ideas or website to give me some idea?

Thanks

Much Love,

Britt

[[BTW, I Rate 5 For EVERYONE!!!]]

Wear black and lots of chains on clothes. I suggest Hot Topic and for make up...Pale face with black eye shadow and lipstick. Maybe some fake piercings on lips and nose and such....

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hey well i'm really nervous about the first time i have sex. im nervous about becoming pregnant, like if the condom breaks. so i was wondering if its wrong/weird for the guy to wear 2 condoms (one on top of the other)... is that really pathetic? i know im supposed to use lube but i'm still scared so could i make him wear 2 just in case?

Its called "Double Bagging" Its not unusual... People do it all the time. I suggest it....

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