I like fairies (thus why I am wearing fairy wings in the picture). Good grammar rocks, too. It doesn't have to be perfect but I get frustrated when people completely disregard it. I like every color except pink. I hate the wind. Sometimes, I carry around a little teddy bear I found at an antique store. His name is Robert. I dress very eccentrically. It's not unusual for me to wear a prairie dress one day and a Mod dress (think Austin powers) the next. I don't dye my hair, or wear much make-up. I think it's sad that no one puts any emphasis on natural beauty anymore. I think it's a good thing to be open and educated about sex and other issues that are considered taboo. I have a hard time seeing where homophobics are coming from.
Basically, I'm just some weird teenager in Arizona. If I haven't scared you off already, feel free to drop me a line. -Danielle
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How do you know if you are lesbian or bisexual? I am fourteen years old and I have had two girlfriend and a ton of boyfriends. I feel attracted to guys kinda but at the same time Im attracted to girls more I think. I would rather look at girl porn then guy. So I dont really know. If you need more information just ask. (link)
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Does it honestly really matter? Labels are really not that important. When someone asks me "what" I am, I just say that if someone's hot, they're hot. Period. It's really not their business anyway. Just go with the flow. If you meet someone you like, date them, and don't rule anyone out just because it doesn't fit with some label.
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okay. i love to be fashionable. and im 13 and pretty petite. i can fit into aeropostale and places liek that wearing a 00. i live in louisiana and theres not many stores with fashionable clothes like the celebrities wear. someone who lives in a small town, help! tell me where i can find cute clothes.
ps. i love jeans. and tshirts. also, logo tshirts with bands and brands are cute. thanks! (link)
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Why don't you just visit the web site to all of those stores you like that aren't in your town? That's kind of what they're there for...
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with all that i hear going around especially in the media, its difficult for me to decide whether sexual orientation is a mental, psychological, or conscience choice. do people decide to do it out of their own free will? is it both? any help is appreciated - will rate (link)
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Scientists have been trying to figure this out for years. There really is no right answer and at this point, it's mostly up to one's beliefs. I don't really think it's a choice; you just like what you like and you can't really stop that. Personally, I think it could be a combination of genetic and environmental factors that cause it. It doesn't really matter in the long run though, no matter what the cause is, every sexual orientation should be accepted all the same.
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so I have this guy friend, his names ADam
me and him like to hang out and talk but his girlfriend dosn't want us to hang out alone anymre.
But hes a reeally good friend and I want to keep hanging out with him, though I know us not doing that is 4 the best
i really like him, what shuld I do? (link)
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Why don't you include his girlfriend when you guys hang out? That way she will gradually become more trusting of you and not care if you two just hang out alone...
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i'm having a baby girl and i don't know what to name her..i am 6 months..can somebody give me a site or some names to name her..please help (link)
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My favorite girl names are...
Tori
Rose
Astrid
Charlie (yes, for a girl)
Nora
Madeline (pronounced mad-eh-lynn)
Olivia
Lee
Penelope
Teresa
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my male teddy bear hamster as been acting very tired and less active latly also he has not been eating as much is there anything wrong with him???
Also my hamster chews on the metel bars of the cage is that bad what should i do (link)
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I used to have a hamster and I'm pretty sure that's not supposed to happen. Why don't you take him to the vet? If he is still young I'm sure there's something you could probably try to prevent him from getting sicker. livejournal.com/users/hamsters usually can provide some good advice about this kind of stuff. I hope he's all right!
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Okay. Well Im 15, 16 in march. And there is this guy...hes 14 but just turned it in october. He's close friends with my brother. He is still in 8th grade and im a sophmore. & its not some random crush thing... Its love. Ive been around and in a few relationships but I know its different. We barely ever get to see each other because I dont drive yet and we live 25 minutes away from each other. I think its OKay now for us to date other people but still everytime we get online we talk to each other and its like Online dating kind of. But we know everything about each other and I need him. He was gone for a week and he was always busy so their wasnt long to talk on the phone. But alot of people think im weird i guess for loving somebody that young.. is it normal for the girl to be older? And what should we do until we can be together...like it seems crazy. But we do plan stuff for when we get older. But its something i give all effort to to work us out. Nothings really wrong except i never get to see him. and i feel i guess like '2nd best' because hes got other girls on him. I was his first real kiss and I just want to be with him forever... but im afraid the longer we wait to be together another girl will take my place.. but anytime i say that he says 'Dont say that its never going to happen.' What should i do?
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If it really is love like you say it is, it will work itself out and he won't be with anyone else. It doesn't matter if you're older. All that matters are the feelings that exist. Just keep working on it and then it will be that much stronger when you finally get to see him more often.
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Well, I was born in Europe and then I moved here in America. My family and I had to start all over again. My parents had to find new jobs, buy a new home, cars and everything. Now, we're living life like normal people and we have more then most people.
Neather of my parents went to collage because thier families couldn't afford it back thenI love my mom to death but I feel like she's working soo hard just to make us happy. My dad had a great job and he's very happy with it but I feel so sorry for my mom. She cleans for a living.. I know it's sad but I feel so bad. Sometimes I just wish I was more supportive and that I didn't argue with her so much because she works SO hard for us & at times I can be ungrateful for the things I have but I always want more.
Since she didn't go to collage, is there any way she can get a new and better job. She always talks to me about how she just wants me & my brother to do good in school and someday that we will be very succesful. I don't want her to wake up everyday for the next 20 years going to work and clean! I want my mom to be happy just like we are and not have to do what she hates for the rest of her life.
I try to be a great kid and not argue and help out but I'm just a regular 14 year old teenager and it's normal to fight with parents but after that I feel soo bad and sorry for her.
Any advice on this? I get tears in my eyes just thinking about her. I want her to be happy and do something that she loves. I want her to get a better job but that seems to be hard for her. (link)
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Why don't you tell her all of this? Better yet, you could even just let her read this. It might inspire her to look for something better and, at the very least, she would know how much you care and it would probably make her year. You could try to get her to post her resume on one of those job web sites and see if anything comes up, but ultimately she has to be the one who wants to be proactive and get a new job.
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Is it weird that my boyfriend comments all of my friend's pictures on myspace, yet doesnt comment any of mine? Backround info : He really liked this girl last year. However, he is a great bf and we have good chemistry together. (link)
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Just ask why he never comments on your own pictures (but don't bring your friend up) and see what he says. Maybe he's afraid of saying something stupid.
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1) i'm confused about my sexuality. i think i'm bi.. because i really like one of my best friends who's also bi.. but my boyfriend gets mad about it, when he was the one geting me mad about it in the first place..
2) i'm losing interest in my boyfriend because of it..
help me please.. (link)
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Break up with your boyfriend. If you don't like him, you shouldn't keep going out with him.
Tell your friend that you have interest in her. Even if she rejects you at least you'll be rid of your pissy boyfriend.
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I know alot of kids don't like their step parents but my step dad takes it to another level.
My younger sister (15) and I (17/f) have never liked him and he doesn't like us either. My mom knows that we don't like him but she thinks that he trys his hardest with us.
Well, I know what you're thinking, give him a break and you'll see that he really is trying.
I don't think so.
Last night my mom and him threw a party and my sister and I had to be there. When everyone was leaving around 3am, my mom had gone outside to say bye to everyone while my step dad, sister, and I stayed inside.
My sister and I were talking to each other about these guys we had met that night (my mom's friend’s sons). He was listening to our conversation and said, out of no where, "I don't know what boys would be interested in you two." He always says this stuff so I just told him to shut up and mind is own conversations (I know, disrespectful but it's hard to respect him).
We got into a little argument and he then told us how immature, bratty, spoiled, we are and how we think we're princesses. Jokingly, my sister told him that we were princesses, in our dad's eyes anyways. I guess that got him mad because then he went off talking about my dad and how he's the problem because he gives us what we want. He then said that if we didn't believe everything he was saying about us that we should ask our mom and grandparents on what they think about us.
After all of that, he told us about all this stuff that my dad did while he was still married to my mom like how he once slept with a hooker and how he was always at work and never home. Alot of unnecessary things that we didn't need to know and probably shouldn't have known, specially my sister.
I knew that my parents had troubles and things like that, why else would they have gotten a divorce? But who is he to tell us exactly what happened and what my dad did. I mean does he seriously think that we would turn against our dad or end up hating him or something? Or is he just jealous of him?
Like I said, I know my dad did some things (now I know exactly what) but so did my mom. But we still love him and he's great to us and is a good parent too.
After he went to sleep I went into my sister's room to get something from her and she had cried herself to sleep. When I saw that, I went to talk to my mom about what had happened because I usually just blow it off. When I told her, she didn't believe me about the names he called us and how he told us that she and my grandparents thought the same! And all she did about the part about my dad was say, "Well, at least you know the truth about your father now." She just talked about how we never once tried to be nice to him and he was trying his best. She didn't even care about the stuff he said about us or my dad.
We were nice to him before when him and my mom first started dating but he was still mean to us back then so we started being mean back. he always used to talk about my dad too.
I don't know what to do because it seems like no matter what she's always on his side. Plus he has no right talking about my mom and dad's relationship.
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Definitely find a way to record him saying this, and talk to your dad about it. Your mother is in love and doesn't want to believe that he'd do that to her little girls. You're almost 18 so you'll be out soon, but I'd suggest trying to get it so that your sister can live with your dad. I think at her age she can legally choose which parent she wants to live with herself. That's just not a healthy environment to live out her teenage years in.
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i asked the question about gettin fucked in the ass and i was wonderin doesnt a condom help protect you from gettin STD's (link)
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Yes, a condom helps protect you from STD's.
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is it true that if you get fucked in the ass there is less of a chance of gettin pregnant./ (wit a condom) (link)
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...The "ass" is not a reproductive cavity. It's where poop comes out of, therefore, you cannot get pregnant from sexual activity there. A condom is still used by many though because STD's can still be transmitted.
If you don't know this already, you probably shouldn't be having sex.
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I have a friend that I feel expects lots out of me yet I get nothing in return. I had invited her over for new years eve to my appartment. She doesnt have hardly any friends and I sort of feel sorry for her.
Well I had invited her to spend the night over before I found out that not only do I have to work on New Years Eve until 6 pm, but I also have to work on New Years Day and my shift starts at 1pm.
Originally I was going to have her sleep over but after I found out I had to work the next day I changed my mind.
The other thing that sort of annoyed me was that after I told her I had to work on New Years Eve until 6, I was hoping she would say she could find her own way over, but she didnt. She doesnt have a car so I have to pick her up right after work. I'm going to be exchausted and had hoped she could get a ride with her mom or a cab.
I told her that she couldnt sleep over and she sounded mad. I then explained to her that I had to work the next day. She doesnt even have a job and would probably sleep in until noon if she wasnt forced out.
I feel bad for telling her she couldnt sleep over but she needs to be more understanding. She also said she couldnt pay for anything. I was thinking of ordering pizza and she said "I can't afford it". She never offers me money for rides or even brings anything like snacks over. I'm putting on the whole show.
I really think I'm going out of my way for her. I'm hosting this get together, after working my tail off have to pick her up AND drive her home, plus pay for everything? I'm sort of feeling used.
Do I have a right to be annoyed? SHould I say something? (link)
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Yes. Say what you said here to her. Make sure that she knows that it's not that you care so much that she doesn't have money, just that she doesn't really seem appreciative of everything that you're doing for her. Even though you don't like or dislike her based off of her money situation, let her know that it isn't fair to make her money problems your problems also. She needs to learn that she can't go through life being a mooch.
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ok so theres this guy his name is blake. he loves me, i love him.. and i seriously mean love. and we've gone out before, but i broke it off because i didnt want a b/f at the time. but i know he still loves me, and i think he knows i still love him. but the thing is he doesnt understand that i dont want a b/f right now. and im scared to lose him because hes the one for me and im the one for him, but im scared if i dont go out w/him soon then it will all be over and he will end up not wanting to wait for me....so wat should i do??? and i dont want to lose him.
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Umm... if you are truly "in love" with him, you should want to be with him, in my opinion. You shouldn't expect him to wait around for you and hang onto your every word. If you make him wait, you might lose him and then you'll regret it. Why not just save the complication and go out with him?
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ok so im in a long distnace realtionship and me and my boyfriend were talking about the idea of doing text sex . . .he has done that before nad i havent. im clueless . .can you guys help me out what do i do and say n stuff. Thanks in advance! oh and im 16 female. (link)
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Text sex? Wow. I'd never partake in such an activity even if you paid me...
I assume that it's basically just like cyber sex, except through text messages. You're simulating sex through words... or, in simpler terms, just texting dirty things to each other. I suppose you could just kind of go along with what he says.
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ok there is this guy that i like but he is like 2 years younger than me cause im 15 and he is 13 and i dont know if i should go out with him cause it would be kinda weird cause we go to separt schools and the age difference so should i give him a change anyway ?? (link)
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If you like him, just date him. If people give you shit, just tell them to screw off and forget about it. The separate schools issue could make things difficult but if you like each other enough it won't matter so much.
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what does it mean when a guy 'feels you up'? (link)
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He feels, gropes, and fondles your boobs, pretty much.
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im 15 years old, i no im not old enough to have sex yet, but if the opprotunity comes i have a question...im really worried, im not big enough to wear a tampon. and its been that way ever since i started my peroid. i flirt with guys a lot, and i want to do more then just flirtin somtimes, but im afaird, that if i start doing more than just flirtin suck as fingering or actually sex that it will hurt me a lot, bcuz im not big enough.. i was wondering if maybe someone could tell me if it would hurt bcuz im not big enough or if im just worring for no reason?! please help. thanks a lot. (link)
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Losing your virginity hurts. It's just a fact of life. Some girls are lucky and it doesn't hurt for them, but for the vast majority, it hurts like a bitch. There are things you can do to ease the pain though, when the time comes, even if it's far off for you.
-Foreplay! Make sure he goes down on you. I know it seems gross to some people but it will help you relax a lot.
-Being comfortable with the guy automatically helps because you're more relaxed around him, which means your muscles aren't as tense and you won't be as tight.
-Take a couple of advil beforehand. I hear it helps a little bit.
-Use lube, but not water based because that might make the condom (which you better use!!) rip. KY is fine, vaseline is not.
Don't worry so much about it. You'll be fine. :)
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I am 17 year old boy. My height is 5.8. I am worried about my penis size. My penis size is only 4 inch. When I see it is in normal condition it looks very small like penis of a child. I guess it is not genetic problem because my 15 year old brother has 5 inches and my father has also good length (I don’t know the exact size but it looks big & thick). This situation resulted inferiority complex in me. Once my bro saw me (un-erected) and said oh! You have tiny thing. I just laughed and said it is not hard. Things like that put me on back seat. Is there any authentic method to increase the length. What is the normal size of a man. Till what age the length may be increased.
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That person who said 10 inches is full of shit. The average size in America is about 5 or 6 inches. 10 inches is abnormally large and I would never let something that big near me. (haha)... Umm... I think you still have a chance of growing a little more but most likely, you're pretty much at your full size. I know this is easier said than done, and I probably have no business even attempting to tell you this since I'm a chick and don't know what this is like, but try to look at it optimistically. If someone judges you based off of your penis size, you'll know they weren't really there for you to begin with, you know? I'm sure there are ways to get it bigger but it's just a waste of time because you won't truly be comfortable with yourself that way. It is important to be able to have a good self image without using chemicals and artificial methods to fit others' standards.
Bottom line: Accepting yourself is ultimately more important and rewarding than adding an inch to your penis size by taking some stupid pills.
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