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Sexuality
How do you know if you are lesbian or bisexual? I am fourteen years old and I have had two girlfriend and a ton of boyfriends. I feel attracted to guys kinda but at the same time Im attracted to girls more I think. I would rather look at girl porn then guy. So I dont really know. If you need more information just ask.
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sorry if that was really mean and if it hurt i meant to say that your are bisexual and that your shouldn't be afraid of what you are be proud but if you need to talk to anyone i hope you can talk to me i was having a really bad morning, i wasn't feeling well so if i hurt your feelings inany way let me know ok i'm sorry
hope this helped
kriddle06
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It doesn't really matter whether you are bi or anything, Just so long as you are happy. Don't feel the need to label yourself at your age, it's not that important. Just remember to keep an open mind about it all. If you have had girlfriends and boyfriends, take the time to think about who you felt more comfortable, and if you decide that you feel comfortable no matter what gender the person you are dating is then you are probably bi-sexual.. as for the porn thing, well that doesn't indicate anything because as a teenager you are naturally curious.. ^_^
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Aw. I dont think ur sexual orientation has anything to do w/.. since you obviously go both ways.. just do what makes you happy in tha moment I guess. I think deep down were all bisexual haha<3
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Personally, I don't think it matters. I dont think anybody can be attracted to just men or just women. Some people, we just find attractive and others we don't. I do know where you're coming from since I have struggled with this as well. I have been through phases where I thought I was all about the ladies. And then I would get a crush on a guy and I'd be "straight" again. Finally I'd had enough of spinning around and around, and decided that it just didn't matter. I didn't want to put a label like that on myself. I didn't want to say "I'm bisexual." and have people judge me. Because even people who are open-minded and accept different sexualities would still think "White, girl, brown eyes, bisexual." when they thought of me. I just didn't want that. Normally I don't care what other people think, but in some cases it really does matter. Don't listen to people who say your sexuality is not "real" or "legitimate". They're YOUR feelings! How can they not be legitimate?!
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Bisexual is not a legitimate sexual orientation.
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Does it honestly really matter? Labels are really not that important. When someone asks me "what" I am, I just say that if someone's hot, they're hot. Period. It's really not their business anyway. Just go with the flow. If you meet someone you like, date them, and don't rule anyone out just because it doesn't fit with some label.
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