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most girls call guys pigs and cheaters....but i was just curious as to how many people know this is that girls actually cheat more than men do its just that they dont get caught as easily as guys do....so y would girls call cheaters and such when its actually proven that they cheat more than guys...but they are better at hiding it so im just curious as to why guys get labeled as being more of the cheating type??? thanks 4 the help (link)
Because girls are stupid and pigheaded and want to make guys out to be the bad one so they have an excuse to be cheating too. "HEY! He did it first!"


Yes, I am a girl. I insulted my own kind. Deal with it.


Girls are more secritive and evil [generally] than guys are. Some guys are worse, but I said generally. ;)


Girls just don't want to face the music, accept the blame - so they shove it off onto guy's shoulders.


I've never cheated, been cheated on. I hope it never happens.


Don't you EVER cheat. EVER. EVER. That's bad.


Girls are just bad.


Secretive, pigheaded, lazy, blamers... wow. ;)


Just kidding, not all girls are like that. Honestly, if what I said above doesn't answer your question, then I don't know. I'd like to know too.
-FunnyCide


Ok, I like guy, guy likes me. I found out he liked me today from a friend of us both. He told her this exactly (at least from what I know) "I like (my name), but I am going to wait a while so I can make sure she is right." Omg, I like him so much, haha, anyways I was wondering when this would be...? (link)
It could be tomorrow, three days from now, six months from now, a year from now... there's no telling. It will probably be within the next month though, because guys usually don't like to wait very long. Just be patient. He's doing the right thing for both of you.
-FunnyCide


Same guy here from the "Romantic or Creepy?!" Topic earlier,

LadyGoodman mentioned that she would find it creepy if she made it very clear that she wasn't interested before.
My question is WHEN does a women actually make it very clear that she's not interested,
I mean when they are interested, they play hard to get or they are nice, they're not interested they are nice or they do what, to me, looks like playing hard to get...
Personally I would only take it as very clear when she literally tell's me not to bother her again, or to F%$#-off, and I'd be happy to hear the plain and simple truth, but women have NEVER done that to me, they just keep me on a line till I just stop calling them.

I have kissed this specific girl on at least five seperate occations, I've seen her jeolous at least once, and she has been playing hard to get practically the whole time.
I am as sure that she likes me as I can get, but then again, she's not awnsering her phone at the moment... in fact she turned off her cell, I'll still give her time tho.

Please girls, help a dumbass out, how or when are you saying "not interested"? (link)
Hahaha. Us girls, we're the stupid ones. We don't know how to make anything clear - ever!!!!!!!!! I agree with you - I'd be happy with the "plain and simple truth," but so many people aren't willing to give this.


I am willing to say that, since you've kissed her on five seperate occasions, and she's been jealous, that she's totally interested.


If she were uninterested, she would not have kissed you, she would not return your phone calls, she'd make up lame excuses to get off the phone in a hurry, make excuses not to see you or go out on a date with you, she'd act really iffy and distracted when around you or talking to you. If she doesn't display these signs COMMONLY, OFTEN, and CONSISTANTLY, she's interested. Yes, she'll be bound to have her "days" when she's distracted, but if she's not like that ALL THE TIME, she's probably interested.


Perhaps she's having one of those "days" now - which is why she's not answering her phone. Perhaps she's just busy or studying or something. I've done that before, not answered my phone when my boyfriend calls if I'm really, really busy or studying or something.


If you really want to know, ask her. I'm sure she'll tell you if she's really interested in you for the long run. Let her know that you don't really want to waste her time if she's not going to stay with you in the long run. She'll appreciate you thinking of her. Or at least I would.
-FunnyCide


Went out earlier tonight and stole as many flowers out of gardens as I posibly could, ended up with quite a lot of differant flowers.
Went to this girls house, who I have been out with at least 6 times, climbed over her apartment fence (questioning my sanity at being there in the middle of the night) scatered the flowers on her lawn and left.
I'm kinda scared that she will think I'm a weirdo stalker or something, but I really hope it makes her happy and special...
I have a idea that she likes me...kinda saw her being jeolous at another woman i was talking to one night (the woman was sweet, but happely married to someone else, and I REALLY like this girl)
anyway the real question for the modern age...would you consider this Romantic or Creepy? (link)
14/F


I'm sure she's worth the trouble! And I think that's incredibly romantic... as long as she knows it was you, she should too. Not creepy at all. Really sweet. :)
-FunnyCide


ok thsi is going to sound really stupid...but i can not for the life of me figure out what that blue chalk stuff does. i mean i know you put it at the end of the stick, but what does it DO? why do you put it there? if i dont use it will it affect my game? i will rate you high if you are able to tell me! (link)
Okay, I know this! [Pool is really big in my family.]


The blue chalk that comes in a small cube, wrapped in paper is to put on the end of your pool stick. The reason you put it there is to help guide your stick and so when it makes contact with the pool ball, it does not slip. Basically, the blue chalk gives the tip of your stick grip - so it doesn't slip.


The white chalk that is large, usually cone or cylander shaped block, is for your hands. This is to "lubricate" your hands and make the stick glide more smoothly through your hands. This is especially helpful on hot July nights when your hands are extremely sweaty; it keeps the pool stick from sticking to your hands.


It won't really affect your game if you do or do not use either chalk. Some people are religious about using chalk, others could care less. It's mostly opinion.
-FunnyCide


im a girl and im 16 years old... randomly, i get shoooting pains in my back from moving certain ways..and yesterday at school i bent over to get something and my back like spazzed or something.. it hurt so bad! it was hard to walk after. it hurts to do everything..lean forward..bend over..move..lay down..sit. i cudnt sleep cuz i cudnt find a position where my back didnt hurt.. i need help..does anyone kno wat this is or how i can fix it? (link)
I think you should see a doctor. I'm not a doctor, so I can't explain your "mystery pains." I definitely think you should tell your parents, then see a doctor immediately!


Perhaps you've pulled a muscle, injured cartilage, damaged a nerve... the list is endless. Back pain is something serious, espeically if it's near your spine, because it could be something wrong with the vertabrae, and if that's messed up - you could become paralyzed.


See a doctor now!
-FunnyCide


Okay Does anyone know what I can use to wash my face in that will not make my face dry and will make it soft. I use Irish Spring soap it it like makes my face peel and makes it really dry it seems like it tightens my skin up or something. So does anyone know of anything like soap or face wash that want dry my skin out and make it feel soft?
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I use AcneFree and that not only knocked my acne out but made my skin soft. Of course, you could always use a milder soap (like Dove) and use a moisturizer too... Dove makes a good moisturizer. Oh, by the way, I wouldn't use a normal soap for my face. Dove does make a facial bar of soap, but normal hand soap (even if it's in a bar form) has an ingredient that draws ALL the oil out of a substance - including your skin. It even removes the natural oils, which is why your skin is peeling and is dry. Use something from Wal*Mart or Sams or something. You can get a good facial scrub for under $6 (if you don't have bad acne, that is) and a moisturizer for about the same. It's much better for your face.
-FunnyCide


hey

i was wondering how old do u have to be to get into a rated R movie..and if your to young all you need is your parents permission right??

thanks in advance! (link)
I'm not sure about where you live, but in Alabama, you have to be seventeen (or look like you're seventeen) to get into an R rated movie without an adult with you.


If you are under seventeen, a parent must be with you. You can't bring a little slip with you that says "My child, who is under seventeen years old, is allowed to watch this movie. -- signed, Jane Doe." or whatnot. Sorry.
-FunnyCide


im a boy in 8th grade and i am getting f's in l.a. lit and math and report cards are coming out tommarow friday and i wanted to know if any one could give me advice on how to show my parents my report card with them tearing my head off

thanks
mike (link)
Mike,


Before you show them your report card, explain to them that you were under a lot of stress this grading period, and you were not able to completely focus on your schoolwork. Tell them that you didn't fully understand some of the assignments, and need help. Tell them that you made F's in those classes.


Just a warning, they'll probably tear your head off and ground you for a month.


Try to focus on your school work next grading period and if you need help, ask for it. A tutor isn't too hard to come by, your teacher is there to help you, your parents - surely - could help you, and there are online tutors. You need to pay attention, you'll fail 8th grade...
-FunnyCide


Can someone give me a cute little saying about missing someone you're in love with, and knowing you don't have a chance. Either one will do! I want to put one in my AIM profile. (link)
Hmm... some of these might not be what you asked for....


The one who makes you cry isn't worth your tears. The one who is worth your tears would never make you cry.


I wrote your name in the sand, but the waves washed it away. I wrote your name on my hand but I washed it the next day. I wrote your name on a piece of paper but I acciedenatally threw it away... I wrote your name in my heart and forever it will stay.


I wish dreams were like wishes, and wishes came true, because in my dreams I'm always with you.


One day you'll come to me and ask me what's more important: You or my life. I'll say my life and you'll walk away never knowing that you're my life.


Crushes only crush you,
Falling only hurts you,
Hearts will only break you,
If there is no love to save you.


If I could hold a star for everytime you made me smile, I would have the entire night sky in the palm of my hand.


Loving you is like breathing... how can I stop?


Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you was beyond my control.


The hardest thing in life is watching the one you love love someone else.


To the world you might mean one person...
...but to one person you might mean the world.


My heart is all black and blue from all the abuse it has been through. No more abuse, no more shame, all because my love for you isn't a game...I'm tired of all your lies, and all the crap you say. As I leave my love for you behind, my heart is screaming YAY...yay for no more abuse, no more pain, and no more sorrow....now my heart can heal...but it wont be healed by tomorrow. How could I have been so blind to see...how much loving you was hurting me? I dont care anymore beacuse I am free...free from all the pain, that your love has caused me.


It's hard enough when the one you love doesn't love you back, but it is even harder to watch him love someone else.


Sometimes I wish I had never met you because then I could go to sleep at night not knowing there was someone like you out there.


If you love something, let it go. If it loves you in return, it will come back.


Don't wait for the one you can live with, wait for the one you can't live without.


Why do you always say you love me when all you do is hurt me?


How could you love me, when all you ever gave me was open wounds?


Excuse me, do you have a band-aid, because I scraped my knee when I fell for you.


Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was choice, and falling in love was beyond my control.


Should I smile because we are friends or should I cry because I know that's all we will ever be?


Once upon a time it happened to me, the sweetest thing that could ever be. It was a fantasy, a dream come true. It was the day that I met you.


I secretly love you, if only you knew. When I think about you my heart stops, and you're always in my thoughts. My love for you is unconditional. The times I think about you arn't additional. I try to talk to you, I really do! If only you knew, how much I love you.


Love is heart that can become a broken puzzle if torn apart. Love is a dagger forced into a poor lonely soul that can break you or make you whole. Love is a game, shame, lame and a name. Love is a new life and a knife. Love can be like death, it can give or take your breath. Love is a saddness, a sorrow. Love is a new day tomorrow.Love is destressing, depressing and obsessing. Love is glory and a never ending story. Love is a flower that can be weak or be a power. Love is appealing, a feeling and can be hurtful or healing. Love is a fire, a burning desire and can be a dirty lier. Love is a killer and a thriller. Love is a pill that messes with will. Love is a flowing river that makes you cold, makes you quiver. Love is a new door that can be empty or can be more. Love is a passage way, a new beginning, a bran new day. Love is the colors black and blue frome the bruises from the old that still look new. Love is a book, a new way to look. Love is pain that can be lost or can gain. Love is apart of you and me and thats the way it will always be.


When the person you like walks by you in the hallway and smiles. Your day is better knowing that at least 10 seconds of his day he thought about you...


Kiss me and you'll see the stars..
..Love me and I'll give them to you.


Can I have a picture of you so I can show Santa what I want for Christmas?


They say you fall in love only once, but everytime I look at you, I fall in love all over again.


Guys : Can't live with 'em, can't live without 'em, can't shoot 'em.


Ok.. I think that's all. Some of them are a little... off the topic, but that's okay.
-FunnyCide






Ok...I always wash my face once a day. Sometimes 2 times. I can't keep the zits from coming! I need help. How do you prevent zits and blackheads!!?!?!?! (link)
Zits are a part of normal maturing and puberty. Yes, it sucks. My mom (and my former youth pastor) have adult acne. That sucks even more.


Proactiv is supposed to be good... I don't know. But I've been using this stuff called AcneFree (Sams Club, $30) and it's supposed to be the same thing as Proactiv, only a lot cheaper. It seems to be working very well, and helps alot. I haven't had any breakouts since I started using AcneFree and my skin is much softer (thanks to the moisturizer that is part of the treatment).


I've gone through so many different kinds of washes and treatments, trying to get rid of my acne, or at least make it less noticeable. I even got some stuff perscribed from the doctor. It didn't help much at all. I've used Clearasil, Clean -n- Clear, Apricot Scrub, Avon, Clinique... you name it, I've probably tried it. The one thing that worked PERFECTLY? Antibiotics. I'm serious. I had my ear lanced a few months back (it was infected) and I was given antibiotics to clear up the infection. The antibiotics also cleared up the acne, because they killed the bacteria that cause pimples. However, it is rare that a doctor will give you antibiotics simply because you have acne. Some girls are put on birth control because it will help clear up acne, but there are side-effects with that too.


You could try AcneFree, because it has really helped me. I felt so awkward with pimples all over my face, but now I don't because I know people aren't staring at my "third eye" or the huge zit on my nose. ;)


Wash your face morning and night to help keep bacteria away from your face. Try not to touch your face. Wash your hands often.


When you do have a pimple, put hot compresses on it. (Rags soaked in hot water) This will draw the bacteria out and you can drain the pimple, then put Polysporin (a strengthened version of Neosporin) on it so it will heal. If a pimple isn't ready to be drained, put ice on it to make it smaller. Use Pollysporin or Neosporin on acne scabs or scars to help them heal better.
-FunnyCide


My boyfriend was sick previously for a couple of days. One of the nights that he was really sick I happened to be with him. I didn't leave him all night, I was constantly making sure he was okay and if he needed anything. He told me he appreciated this a lot. The downside of me being with him that night is that he got me sick too. So, all day today I've been pretty sick. You could see it in my eyes how horrible I felt. He commented on that a few times throughout the day. I constantly told him I felt pretty bad. He said sorry. Tonight I called, told him I was feeling very sick. He was watching T.V and was kind of ignoring me, so I just told him I'd call him back with an 'I guess' at the end- hinting how I wanted him to stay. He didn't.
It kind of bothers me how I was waiting on him hand and foot and not letting it bother me that I was practically a butler for him for a night, but he couldn't do a simple thing such as stay on the phone and comfort me.
Is this selfish of me to want comfort and attention from him? (link)
Nah, it's not selfish at all. I know how you feel. If my boyfriend was sick, and I waited on him, hand and foot, for a whole night, then I got sick, I'd definitely want him to TALK to me!


TV does scary things to people though. [That's why I rarely watch it.]


You could always ask him to turn off the TV and record his show -- and talk to you. I would do that if my boyfriend were watching TV while on the phone with me.


My boyfriend and I are pretty close. Okay, he's my best friend. He can read me like a book. Whenever I don't feel good, or if something's bothering me, he can always tell. He might not know what is bothering me, but he knows something is wrong. I love that about my relationship with him - he's always supportive and right there beside me.


You should ask your boyfriend, next time you see/talk to him, to turn off the TV and spend time with you. It's only fair.
-FunnyCide


okay well lately the area around my vagina has been really itchy. like since firday (today is wensday). its like really sore and pinker than usual. i told my mom but she didnt think anything of it. she thought it was a reaction to the soap so i tried the kind i used before and it still is like this. before my discharge was just white but now its like yellow and smells gross. should i go see a doctor and if so what do they do? and what should i do/not do before going?

*i rate 5's* (link)
Discharge is normal, all girls have it. However, if the discharge has changed colors and has an odd (bad) smell, that is not normal and may be signs of an infection.


It could be a yeast infection, which is quite common in teenaged girls. You'll have to go to the doctor to get it diagnosed and treated properly, but it is worth it because it will only get worse.


If you go to a doctor, go to a gynecologist. If you've never been, consider going to your mom's gynecologist. However, if your mom sees a man, and you're not comfortable with that, ask to see a woman gynecologist. The doctor will probably ask what the discharge was like a few months ago, and then they'll probably ask what it's like now. A full description. They might do an examination and take a sample of the discharge. Don't be frightened, they're only doing their job. (One has to wonder though, why in the world would a MAN want to be a gynecologist...? Hmm... EW.)


They'll probably perscribe some antibiotics or a cream, depending.
-FunnyCide


ok this question is for anyone dat has a GOOD answer ok i met dis great guy n we both like each othr and today he called me freaky n i said thanks and he was like dats a bad thing couse u got small breats i mean medium...i started to cry so badly but he didnt care...some one tell me how i could grow bigger boobs and DONT DONT DONT say im still young bla bla i hav 2 wait .. i heard dat before i dunt want 2 hear it again./.....plz helppp ILL RATE 5's plzz n thnxx (link)
Ok, look. There is one way (besides natural growth) to make your breasts larger - IMPLANTS. You're not old enough. Unless you're like... 18 or older, you're not old enough. You're probably what, 12? 13? 14? Somewhere around that? Your breasts are still "babies," they are going to grow.


Why do you want to go out with a guy who cares more about how big your boobs are than how fun, sweet, nice etc. you are?


I'm sorry. I know that it hurts that he called you that. I have small boobs too. And you know what? I LIKE it. Yes. I do. I have friends who are 13, 14 or 15 and wear D size or larger. I just... no. I don't want that! God made me who I am, and I'll still grow - I'm young too. Besides, I know my boyfriend doesn't like me because my boobs are big. ;)


That guy is incredibly shallow. He's a jerk. Don't waste your time on him. He just wants to get in your pants.



The only thing you can really do is eat healthy, drink lots of milk, take good care of yourself, get alot of sleep, and wear a padded bra.
-FunnyCide


ok look it has been about 5 weeks now that i had sex.. well i didnt want to.. wat happended is that my brother had one of his friends coming up and im 13 and the guy was 17.. and wen i went in my room he was on the bed just sitting there and starring at me. he told me to come over and i did well he started to kiss me.. and wen he did all i said is that i just wanted to kiss.. but he started to touch me down there and i was scared i pullrd bak and said dont i just wanna kiss. and he said ok well we started kissing and he did it again he was kinda forcing himself on me well then it lead to ''''sex'''' i dont no if i should tell someody about it i mean i did it but i didny want to... help (link)
That was rape. You are thirteen. He is seventeen. You should have pulled away more, and yelled or something, but that can't be changed. Tell your parents, or a trusted friend, preferably an adult. The school counselor is a GREAT! person to tell. He or she will be able to help you alot more than I can. There are, of course, rape hotlines, but since it's been so long, they can't really help you. You need to tell an adult.


If the guy was not stopping when you told him to, and was continually pushing you farther and farther than you want to go, even though you were telling him to stop, and he forced you to have sex, like pushing himself onto you - then it is rape. Tell someone.
-FunnyCide


Wat do I do if my boyfriend wants to have sex and I do too but i am too shy


signed i need help (link)
Don't let him pressure you into it. If you're not ready to share your whole body with someone else, then don't. Obviously you're not -- you wouldn't be too shy if you were totally ready. Yes, I understand that you'll be a little shy, but you should probably wait a little while. Tell him that you don't feel comfortable doing it right now, that you're a little self-conscious, and would rather wait a little while. Unless you're totally sure that you're ready. Then just... consider the consequences and use protection.
-FunnyCide


can you have sex while your pregnent?(serious question, no smart answers please.) all fives. (link)
Yep, because it will help exercise and strengthen the muscle that pushes the baby out (the kegal muscle? I think). Definitely not too rough, especially late in the pregnancy, and I don't think you'd want to have oral sex because an air bubble might harm the baby.
-FunnyCide


What does Dolce vita mean? What does dolce mean? (link)
If you speak-a the Italian-a, you would know-a that it means Sweet Life. ;) Haha. Don't worry, I didn't know either until I looked it up using a translator. Dolce means Sweet.
-FunnyCide


We have a school dance this week and i want to sneak my boyfriend in that goes to another school. But i dont know if he wants to go or if i will get into trouble. So should i try to sneak him in and risk going home or not even try?
Thanks (link)
I think it's odd that kids from other schools are not allowed at your dances...


Don't risk it. It's not worth breaking the rules and paying the consequences just for a few hours. Trust me. You could be suspended. That would be quite embarassing if you were suspended, as well as escorted out of the dance.


Just wait, there'll be other dances that he can come to, that you don't have to "sneak" him into.
-FunnyCide


What does it mean to "fall for someone" i get the general idea but could anyone explain it better for me please? thanks i'd appreciate it! (link)
To fall for someone is the same as falling 'in love' with them, to begin liking them, to begin to have deeper feelings for them, to want to be more than 'just friends' with them.


Examples :


Many girls fall for Michael, though they do not know him.

Sweetheart, I've fallen for you.

I think I've begun to fall for someone special.
-FunnyCide




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