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I have a boyfriend of 9 months. We spend alot of time together and what not. Good or bad, I don't know. But I think it may cause why I sometimes get irritated with him easily. I don't mean to be rude or snap at him, it just happens. I don't know why I do, do that though. It bothers me. Also, when I'm at lunch or whatever, people say something and I quickly react to it. I don't take peoples shit basically, but I stand behind what I believe.Like.. I only held a couple grudges on people and my friend doesn't think I should and it's funny how she forgave an old friend who punched her in the face, but I didn't forgive her for doing that and just be a bad friend in general. Yeah, that could be a stupid reason , but she does everything for a attention and what not, whatever she slapped me in 8th grade and I took it because she was suppose to be my bestfriend... but back to the point. What may be causing this and how should I fix it? (link)
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Your friends are trying to control you and tell you what to do and getting abused [slapped] by your supposed best friend is not okay. This is why you might be striking back with words and not physical actions. I think that you are also getting fed up with the stress and your boyfriend is probably not the cause of any of your irritation, it is pretty much your friends. And it is perfectly fine [and very good] to stand up for what you believe in, and if your friends don't agree or support you in your beliefs, let them do what they want. You need to relax and maybe make other friends, friends that won't slap you or try to influence you to do something you don't want to do.
Try to escape the stress and drama, if your friend wants to befriend the person who punched her, she is being the bigger person, but you do what you want and your irritation will go away if you forget about the stress of school, relationships, friendships, homework, turmoil...it will go away. Unwind, listen to some music or take a few deep breaths. Everything is okay and all you can do is calm down, your hormones are probably just mixing you all up :]
Feel better and good luck.
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Okay there is this guy CJ and he is like big senior jock, and im just a freshman...but anyways like i got him as a freshman conseler for one of my classes and i will catch him like looking at me, but when i look at him looking at me, he turns away real quick. and then today he like threw two paper balls at me and started laughing, and i was throwing them back, then me and him and my friend matt got into a paper fight...it was fun and all but then matt was talking to cj and i saw matt nodd towards me. then cj kinda smiled. So what does this mean? Could this mean that he could be crushing on me or something? What does this sound like to you? thanks... (link)
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it sound like the exthact same thing that happend to my sister even the papper fight but not paper it was muffin rapers haha anyway do you know what the boy did...he asked my sister out and guess what is happening know...they are boyfriend and girlfriend i think that he likes you alot good luck i hope i helped
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My boyfriend is absolutely wonderful, cute sweet, charming. He jsut really likes my stomach, like to jiggle it and rub it and stuff.
I do have a bit of a belly, but really I'm average.
Anywho, I know I'm not super skinny, but my boyfriend always says things like "Aw your belly is so cute"
And he always is trying to get me to eat, and wear tighter shirts. I just think it's weird, how can he can like an untoned stomach?
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ok this might sound weird also but i have unnormaly chubby toes and my boyfriend loves them its so weird but boyfriends just love everything about there girlfriends somethings more then others they are weird like that but there just boys haha good luck i hope that i helped a little
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I have the cell phone game Surviving Hollywood on my phone. I can't figure out though how to get a perfect score on episodes 3-4 The Truth Revealed and on 3-8 A New Year. Does anyone know how to get a perfect score? Thanks (link)
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you dont need to get a perfect score to get through those levels you can get past them with a less than perfect score good luck i hope that i helped
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ok well i was wondering if you are a certain A in a bra size can't u also wear a B only in a smaller size? cause i really want to ans think i could fit a B but im not sure. im a 34A but my breasts aren't that small just today my friends were like your a B arent you? and i was like uh no im only an A and they were like really!? i think i could fit one tho but would i be like a 32B and whats the big difference anyway? bra cup size right? cause my bra almost doesnt cover my boobs because they are getting bigger so is it time for a new size?? thanx so much! :] (link)
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ok first of all only change your bra if YOU not your friends think it is time i do think that you need a bigger size if your bra isnt covering your breast so you can just go to the mall and try on some b's good luck i hope i helped
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15/f/this is long.
i've had a stepdad since i was six so i guess we were pretty close and got along and everything but now i can't stand him. he doesn't do anything. he was a stay at home dad to care of my brother and sister who are now in schooll so now he doesn't even have a job. he has a back and knee problem and is really overweight so it's not the fact that he doens't have a job all the way that bugs me but he won't go to the docter to get help. we bought a treadmill and he doesn't even go on that and he's home all day by himself! he wouldn't have the problems if he'd just work out a little, you know?
ugh and not too mention last friday just set it off. he like hates me. i wanted to go to a friends house and my mom said ok and he said no. there was really no reason i couldn't so my mom and him got in a fight. my mom left to go to the library and i called her and started crying [not purposefully] so she got all mad and called my stepdad yelling at him. i apologized to my mom for doing that and making her feel bad but now my stepdad is all mad at me. i'm just so over it. i mean this year i pretty much got to do whatever on weekends and i apologized for being a brat friday. like in eighth and seventh grade he wouldn't let me do anything i was grounded all the time. i don't know what to do. he was saying today how i'm not trying to be nice or anything and i am! i mean i'm kinda just not talking to him because i'm done. he's the one always saying i'm 38 and your 15 blah blah i know better. then he should get over it.
another thing sometimes he's really stupid about little things. we built a family room off the back of the house and he gets mad when i watch tv out there. i'm not bothering anyone! thats what it for! also he won't let me use the treadmill that they paid over 1000 dollars for and no one uses.
so my question is should i just ignore him until i'm 18 and can move out? i'm so done and i really don't care anymore. what do you think i should do? (link)
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Ignore him and do whatever you want. He can't stop you from watching TV in that room if that's what that room was built for, yuh know? And the treadmill? Tell him that if he isn't gonna get his fat ass healthy, you at least want to [even if you already are, just stay that way, don't let him turn you into a mini him.]
He's not the one who wears the pants in the family, and considering he is your step father he should be nicer to you and if your mom says you can do the stuff you want to do, listen to her and forget your bozo step dad, he doesn't know what he's talking about.
Bet you can't wait 'til your 18 huh? good luck girl.
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ok well i was wondering if you are a certain A in a bra size can't u also wear a B only in a smaller size? cause i really want to ans think i could fit a B but im not sure. im a 34A but my breasts aren't that small just today my friends were like your a B arent you? and i was like uh no im only an A and they were like really!? i think i could fit one tho but would i be like a 32B and whats the big difference anyway? bra cup size right? cause my bra almost doesnt cover my boobs because they are getting bigger so is it time for a new size?? thanx so much! :] (link)
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Yeah, it sounds like your ready to upgrade, so go to Victoria's Secret and try some new bra sizes on, it wouldn't hurt to just see if the 32B would fit you.
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state test tomorrow. im scared. ive been distracted lately by a breakupp. and my my grades have been going down in general. im afraid for the big test tomorrow and i do worse then usual under pressure. its ela and im not too great at long response and essays. if you get below a 4 you have to go to support next year (ahhhhh!) and school would start at 7:00. the test is out of 5. any possible ways of doing better and relaxing myself!?
any help appretiatedd.
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Okay, so I have a HUGE midterm next week and this test pretty much is my final grade for the semester. And I'm freaking scared, just like you. And sometimes when we don't want to do our work, we get distrcted, in your case you have been focusing on a recent break up, which is not gonna help you study and get a good grade, so unwind.
-Watxh some TV for a 1/2 hour
-Listen to music for another 1/2 hour
-Study for an hour
-eat something
-study for a half hour
-talk wiht one of your friends
-study again for a 1/2 hour
-take a nap
-study again for as long as you want
-go to sleep early
[make a schedule like that one so your mind is on the schedule and not your break-up.]
Good luck and study hard :]
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My best friend and I have an inside joke about chickens. And I was listening to "Top Shottaz" Part 3 Mix. By DJ Ozone (various artists), Summer 2006 Mix. At 14:50 (and after for a bit) there is a song with something that sounds like a chicken. I`m quite sure the song is by Vybz Kartel. I have downloaded every song I can find by him but the lyrics are really hard to understand. I am having a lot of trouble pin pointing what song this is. If anyone recognizes it, it would mean a lot if you could tell me - thanks!
One final note, sorry for the "lyrics" type question. However, google is not helping, I think I need to find someone who has heard the song before. (link)
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You could check out
Chicken Noodle Soup...
Chicken Noodle Soup...
Chicken Noodle Soup with the Soda on the Side...
Damn that song sucks...
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Now i was wondering while in the military, whether it be the Army, or Marines, Navy, etc.. while your in boot camp will they allow a female to put compact on? I'm not talking about a full load of make up with mascara and everything, but atleast some cover up to hide the blemishes.
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During work...of course they allow make up and stuff.
During training...the least you care about is make up.But you still can do it...but I dont suppose you ll find time for it.
Training Sucks.
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okay i had sex on the 12th and ive been on the pill but last month i went out of town and left my pack well i missed 3 days in a row so i had to start over like how it says below, and then i got my period on the 3rd and had sex the 12th. well during sex the condom broke and he came and we didnt notice until he pulled out way after he came. do you think there is a chance i could be pregnant? Couldnt get ec, im under 18.
My birth control INFO:
If you miss 3 or more white active pills in a row during the first 3 weeks:
If you are a day-1 starter, throw out the rest of the pill pack and start a new pack the same day; or, if you are a Sunday starter, keep taking 1 pill every day until Sunday. On Sunday, throw out the rest of the pack and start a new pill pack that day. You may become pregnant if you have sex on the days when you missed pills or during the 7 days after the missed pills, so you must use a backup form of birth control for those 7 days. You may not have your period that month, but that is expected. However, if you miss your period 2 months in a row, call your healthcare provider to rule out pregnancy. (link)
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Well...
Random people cant tell you weather you are pregnant or not.
Advicenators can only estimate.
I will agree with the advicenator above me.
It is not as easy as it seems...to get pregnant.
You have to be lucky...yet...unlucky...
I know that made no sense.
But dont worry, most wimen are soscared of getting pregnant they think you can get pregnant just by masturbating....
Anyways...since you forgot to take the pill, and since he did come inside. Bad news.
It was soon after your period.You did use the pill.Good news.
Chances are you aint, but you never know.
Just...dont be worrying about it.You ll get that a lot.Especially when you are late on your period...like...a month late.
That sucks...but...it will probably happen and freak you out.
Anyways...I dont wanna...sound like an evil advicenator..but how dump could your boy be to come inside you? Damn that was a stupid thing to do.
You have to know now that next time, you should be more carefull.Maybe...insist on using a condom if you dont use the pill.
PS:Something I should have said before.
When the condom brakes, the man knows about it.Always.
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I really like this girl and I want to ask her out, but she goes to a different school. She's in the same grade as me, and we chat sometimes in person, sometimes online. I don't see her that often, but even one date would be really nice. Any ideas on how to ask her out?
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Do you know of anything in particular that she likes? If so, ask her out on a special date and incoporate some of her favorite things into it. Don't be shy about asking her! what is the worst that could happen? She goes to a different school right? Go ahead!
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I was talking to my girls after exams today, we were sharing clutsy guys stories, and I shared the story of this Italian fingering me roughly. It was painful! I didn't tell him to stop at the time because 1) I was enjoying the kissing part and 2) I dont speak Italian. Anyway, it did hurt, and I later noticed a few specks of blood on the inside of my dress, which I thought were just from...err.. stretching? I didn't think of it until today, as this happened over the summer-- did he pop my cherry?!?
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Yes, it is possible that he did pop your cherry or "hymen" as it is called, but many girls' hymens can break easily, even through horseback riding or sports. It doesn't mean that you aren't a virgin anymore, just that your hymen eiter stretched or broke.
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what is pre-cum?
like what makes it different from regular cum?
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Pre-cum is the pre-ejaculatory fluid that comes out of the tip of the penis when the male gets "hard". This pre-cum comes out to better lubricate the penis before intercourse. Regular cum is what comes out after the male has an orgasm and ejaculates.
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my partner and me enjoy peeing when we make love can this be dangerious to her inside's. she loves me to pee inside her, and watches our pee and cum shoot out of her. (link)
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this isn't really a question... i think your asking if it dangerous, but i can't tell seeing as you don't use proper punctuation. if thats the case, no it can't be dangerous
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my friend has colored contacts and she only wears them when shes not wearing her glasses. I was wondering, is there such thing as colored contacts that you can wear every once in a while, even if you have 20/20 vision. if there is such thing, is it bad for your eyes? what could it do to your eyes? and how much money would they be?
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you sureee can wear color contacts with or without prescription.
so that means, that if you have perfect vision, you just get them without a prescription and it'll work.
its not bad for your eyes :)
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I'm going out with this guy... Its been two days, and we haven't kissed outright... However, he likes to kiss my neck. He touches me in these little ways that turn me on, and I didn't even know I could feel like that. :) But still... is there anything weird about that? (link)
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noopeee. most ladies like it a lott
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I really like this girl and I want to ask her out, but she goes to a different school. She's in the same grade as me, and we chat sometimes in person, sometimes online. I don't see her that often, but even one date would be really nice. Any ideas on how to ask her out?
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just ask her out straight up!
trust mee, no beating around the bush
just say what are you doing this weekend? or something like that and then if she says i dunno yet say tryna chill or soomethingg :) or another way you could do it is by being like ohh i really wanna see juno or some other movie.
ask her online, it will take off pressure
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Hey everyone...one of my closest friends has been missing school lately and i asked him about it. He told me he was having panic attacks, etc. and he had to see a shrink. He also told me that his mom thinks he is going to kill himself because his brother caught him trying to do it, he said he went on a balcony at his house and was going to jump but his bro saw him and said whats going on. He told me the suicide thing happened a couple monts ago and I am just reallly worried. I am becoming depressed thinking about what would happen if he did kill himself. he is such a nice guy and is happy all the time- i just dont get it. Why do you think he told me he tryed to kill himself? What should I do? Im really upset-please any advice would help! (link)
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Lucky for you!!!! I am actually working on a teen suicide project right now! The best thing to do is to be there for him, he is looking for your help. Go out with him (not as a bf) maybe you could talk on the phone together more often than normaly.
Some suicide triggers are:
~Break up with bf or gf
~Arguing with parent
~Failing grade
~Losing a competition
~Getting blamed for something
Some signs of suicide (before)
~Changing appearance and personality
~Giving away prized possesions
~Withdrawing from others
~Engaging in daring or risk-taking behavior
~Making comments such as, "Youd be better off without me."
"Whats the point of living"
"Maybe I wount be around"
~Putting their life in order>paying library fines, cleaning their own room, being more helpful than normal
~Having an interest in death, such as reading and asking questions about the subject
~depression>hopelessness
How to Help
~ask questions:
"Are you still thinking about it? Do you have a plan?"
~Listen to them
~Try to get him to think of alternatives instead of suicide
Suicide hot line numbers you can call for immediate help or advice (it does not cost money to call them)
~Covenant House Nineline (24 hours) 1-800-999-9999
~National Boys Town Hotline (24 Hours) 1-800-448-3000
~National Child Abuse Hotline (24 Hours)
1-800-4-A-CHILD (800-784-2433)
~National Suicide Hotline 1-800-SUICIDE
(800-784-2433)
you can go on the phone with your friend if you want (or if he wants) GoOd LuCk!!!
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I have a fever of 101 and I wanna get rid of it.. it's been close to three days with it...
Ive been taking ibuprofin but i've like stopped now since my fever keeps coming back. :( (link)
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well, im no doctor, but it doesnt sound like thats very normal. Have your parent/guardian (or yourself) call your doctor, and just simply ask what to do. I suggest taking advil (15f and i take two) It will cool you down to normal body temp...i always take that and it works. My whole family pretty much takes it and it works. Alieve might work too (if advil doesnt) GoOd LuCk!!!!
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