I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 months. I've kissed him before but I've never made out with him. I want to soooooo bad but everytime I get the chance I get scared and wuss out. I've never made out with anyone before and I'm really not sure on how to do it. Any advice?
Okay next time dont wuss out hun.. jus show him basically that its something you want to do... like kiss his neck slowly next time you kiss and rub the back of his neck.. and then kiss him back on his mouth and then do what you got to do... jus go along with what he does there really isnt no wrong way to kiss.. much luv dez x0x0
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Hey1 I've been with my boyfriend for a bout 4 months now and his birthday is coming up. I don't have much cash, but I want to get him a gift he'll love. Does anyone have ideas of gifts or nice plances to get a boyfriend a gift?
It would of helped alot if you said some things he's interested in and like.. but he's probably like any other boy and likes sports.. so maybe something with sports.. or if he likes some kinda clothing get him something like that.. if you was together longer i would have more ideas.. like make a memory book with pictures and little things that make you think about him.. but i guess you can do that too.. but i think thats more kind of a thing for valentines day.. much luv dez x0x0
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I like this guy named patrick, but im not shure if he likes me. we talk a lot though, like at school and stuff. what should i do?
Well just keep doin your thing girl.. just keep talkin as friends.. then maybe tell him alone that you like him more then friends and see what he says.. or maybe a good friend of yours both get em to ask if he likes you or get em to tell Patrick you like him more then friends.. much luv dez x0x0
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Well, my B-day is exactly one month from now(may 21st) and i was wondering if anyone had any ideas of kinds of (inexpensive) guy-girl parties. I was thinkin of a kind of message thing with the clues where you have to find them and then they lead you somewhere, but i dunno. I live right next door to a school where there is a soccer/baseball/hardtop. Any suggestions? I rate HIGH! Thanks!
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I like the clue party idea.. sounds fun and interesting.. much luv dez x0x0
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how do you become out goin? i mean im really out going and funny when i get to kno someone really well. but its realy hard for me to just meet someone and hit it off right away. what are some things you say to like a cute boy you see at the mall or someone you see that looks like alot of fun and want to talk to?
Well just be yourself dont act shy or anything but you also dont wanna come off with some corny jokes or be annyoing when you meet somebody so jus try and have a normal conversation at first then maybe say somethings for a few laughs.. much luv dez x0x0
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okay so i am 14/f and i have never had a boyfriend before. Many times i have come close like this year but then something always gets in the way and ruins it. What i want to know is what is wrong with me i mean i have alot of friends and i am active and athletic and people tell me i am beautiful but i never have had a boyfriend and i dont know if i am doing something wrong. If there is anyone that could help me with trying to fix something that maybe i am doing wrong that would be great!
thanks!~
Well it takes time hun.. really you shouldnt be like this bout not having a boyfriend cause you could meet a bad guy and then get heart broken then wish you was single and never feel in love.. it happens to alot of girls trust me.. you dont want to be goin in and out of relationships..im sure you want a good guy.. and please dont for any guy that comes your way cause thats deff. not the way to go.. jus give it time like i said.. much luv dez x0x0 *please rate me*
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i am a 14/f and there is this boy that lives down the street from me that is a couple of years older than me and i really like him and want to get to know him better. Everytime that i am outside practicing volleyball he drives by and will wave but he never has said anything to me at all. What should i do to catch his eye? i really want to get to know him and he seems like a great guy to hang out with even if all we become is good friends. Please help me! Thanks!
Well Duh Flash him....Jus playin lol.. why dont you walk down the street one day when you see him outside and go talk to him.. like as friends of course then maybe more will come for you later.. much luv dez x0x0 *rate me*
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Its my birthday in may, and i dont no what to do. Any ideas? my mum said garden party think that would be a good idea??
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Well gardens are pretty.. so sounds great have fun much luv dez x0x0
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my friend likes this guy and they both act like there going out. But they both wont admit that they like eachother. how can i find out if they like eachother or not?
Well if tey wanted you to know they would let you know.. and its there business and i think that you would of got the hint and stay out they business.. bye
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I really like this guy at my school, but i know for a fact that he doesnt like me, i want to really ask him out badly but i dont want to be turned down, what should i do?
Get a friend to ask if he likes you.. or write him a letter.. much luv dez x0x0
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when i go to get a physical for cheerleading, nexy year willl they check to see if im a virgin..and if they do are they alowed to tell my parents???
thanx lotz!!!!
xoxox
leila
Far as i know they dont check you to see if your a virgin.. they mainly check to see if your healthy not to see if you have sex.. um if they do they arent allowed to tell your parents anyways.. dont worry about it hun.. *please rate me* much luv dez
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Sometimes I think that dancing rules my life. I take a very rigid, strict class where everything must be "just so" and I can't do anything when I want to. One day when my friend tied a friendship bracelet around my wrist, my dance teacher saw it and personally cut it off my wrist so I wouldn't wear it again. Also, when I want to try a sport like soccer or basketball, my dance teacher is the one who refuses to let me, saying that I will twist something or break something and I wouldn't be able to dance. My parents just stand around saying "Listen to what she says, dear. Listen." Now I really want to get some gentle highlights in my hair and my parents said yes at first, but they changed their minds when my dance teacher said no. What do I do?
Do what you want when you want anyways...forget your dance teacher dont let her run your life over every stupid thing.. your teacher is apparently really out of order for this she isnt your mother.. much luv dez x0x0 *rate me please*
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okay well like 2 weeks ago i was in school and my friend asked the kid i liked to sit with me at this assembly because i gave him a dollar.. and he acctually said that to him, so he said he thought i was different but im just a bitch who bribed people with money.. but then the next day my friend pushed me to go talk to him, so i told him what happened and he said he already knew because the kid who asked him had told him everything, and he said they only reason he said that was because he was scared and he wanted to work up some self esteem because he couldnt find the courage to ask me to sit with him.. and then he asked if we could walk to lunch together so we did, and we sat together during class. So then the day after that he accidently told me he was moving, and i didnt talk to him for a while, and then he told me the only reason he didnt tell me was because he didnt know how to, so we talked again. Then he wrote me a letter and it said how he doesnt think he can be with me for the remaining 2 weeks he's here because he cant give me the attention he should give his girlfriend and he thinks he can give me the right amount of attention for what we will be. Then he told me to go out with my best friend. And when i told my 2 best friends, ((ones a boy, ones a girl)) they both agreed. So i went to the dance with him, and i brought him on vacation with me my brother, my grandparents, my brothers friend, and a bunch of family friends. But i don't really feel right. I mean, i love him, but i feel like a player because i didnt even wait 2 days after i broke up with my boyfriend. Is this normal or should i not feel this way?
I think its okay hun.. much luv dez x0x0
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does anybody know if you can find out who wrote a comment to u in ur advice column?? i got somereally mean ones and i was just wonderin if you could find out who theyre from...
Nope.. only way you would know is if they left a name.. much luv dez x0x0
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ok, when your birthday comes, does the age on your column automatically change? thx
No you have to change it yourself hun..much luv dez
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I'm a bit overweight and so I've always been a little bit embarassed to exercise in front of people. It seems to just make things worse for me, because then I don't feel like I get enough exercise in the day, but I hate running because I'm slower and always afraid somebody will see me, and I don't even like doing stuff at home because my mom and dad might see me. Any good tips for conquering my fear or ways to exercise alone?
exercise in your room.. my lil brother does something weird but nobody would know he did it unless he told somebody.. he does sit ups in the bathroom before he takes a shower.. you can do that in privacy.. maybe work out when nobody is home.. you dont have to run to get exercise jus walk for a long time.. nobody has to know your doing it to work out.. and to help you out also eat healthy.. much luv dez x0x0 *rate me*
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Ok, well me and my boyfriend broke up last night. I'm actually kind of happy, cause now I can see what a jerk he was, but here's what happened: I'm kind of upset over something that's happening at my house and only my best friend and my mom knows, and he kept on going, what's wrong? please tell me. And I told him I wasn't ready to tell him, and he wouldn't stop bothering me about it, and started saying things like, you won't tell your bf a damn thing and that I was pissing him off. So we just broke up. I really felt like he was pressuring me and I didn't want to tell him. And another thing, when we were going out, he would always say he loved me, and I would think that he didn't, because first off, we were online bf/gf, but he only lives an 1 away and we were gonna meet at the movies real soon, but like, how can he love me when we've never even met? And second, we only went out for a month, and I remember him saying that the first day we went out and I totally think he was abusing it. My question is, was he being a jerk and broke up with me for no reason, or should I have told him "just cause we're going out"? And what do you think about him saying I love you. Because I think that if he did, he would have given me the time and waited until I was ready to tell him. And today, I got online and he had "TASHA" with a winky face next to it. Well, he sure has moved on. What do you think about it? Thanks, I'll rate if good.
x3 Erin
Okay he might not love love you cause he wouldnt of moved on so damn quick.. and he only knows you from internet conversations unless you talk on phone but anyways..i think he might of cared for you in some sort of way and wanted to be there for you.. and i can understand if its something you wasnt ready to tell him.. he should of respected that and waited til you was ready instead of being an ass and not leave you alone bout it and then do a childish thing and break up with you.. you guys was only together a month so it couldnt of been something serious for this guy.. but i think you should jus move on and get a different boyfriend hun.. and maybe keep him as a friend.. Much luv dez x0x0 *rate me*
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okay well i'm going on a graduation trip in a couple weeks, and i'm kinda having 2 little problems, lol. i'm a teenager, a girl. we bunk with 3 other girls if that helps. anyway..
1. I don't think I'll be able to fall asleep lmao because if I do, I can be a very heavy sleeper and I'm not sure if I trust anyone to wake me up. I don't want to be tired the next day, should I bring like Starbucks double shot expressos or something haha?
2. I have a weird fear of rollercoasters, and I don't know why. I think it might be because I'm afraid of something going wrong. Should I just go on one .. or what ? lol I just don't know, I don't want to be all screaming and embarrass myself either.
Lol well you should sleep.. and let somebody wake you up so what if your hard to wake up alot of people are...
And bout the rollercoaster thing i can understand where you are coming from with that cause im the same way.. well if you dont wanna embarass yourself maybe riding a roller coaster wouldnt be a good idea lol.. um but maybe so you dont feel left out or get bored maybe ride one and if you absolutly hate it and dont want to ride anymore then dont ride anymore.. if there is other rides you can get on that isnt roller coasters go for them that way you dont have anything to worry about... much luv dez x0x0 *rate me*
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hi i think ive scratched my nose inside it, well on the right side of my nose is really hurting inside it as if its cut, becuase its really sore! I cant see no cut and theres no blood, i havnt been picking my nose but it was itchy the other day and i kept moving my nose around to stop the itch but i didnt pick it. if you get what i mean, it feels if its packed with boogies but its not please help i dunno what to do or put on it thanks .
Its probably from you moving your nose around alot.. its probably also from allergies to hun..much luv dez x0x0
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I just broke up with my girlfriend but i still really really like her but i dont thinnk she likes me anymore i cant stop thinking about her what should i do??
Hun you should talk to this girl.. dont let her go..much luv dez x0x0
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