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Ok, well me and my boyfriend broke up last night. I'm actually kind of happy, cause now I can see what a jerk he was, but here's what happened: I'm kind of upset over something that's happening at my house and only my best friend and my mom knows, and he kept on going, what's wrong? please tell me. And I told him I wasn't ready to tell him, and he wouldn't stop bothering me about it, and started saying things like, you won't tell your bf a damn thing and that I was pissing him off. So we just broke up. I really felt like he was pressuring me and I didn't want to tell him. And another thing, when we were going out, he would always say he loved me, and I would think that he didn't, because first off, we were online bf/gf, but he only lives an 1 away and we were gonna meet at the movies real soon, but like, how can he love me when we've never even met? And second, we only went out for a month, and I remember him saying that the first day we went out and I totally think he was abusing it. My question is, was he being a jerk and broke up with me for no reason, or should I have told him "just cause we're going out"? And what do you think about him saying I love you. Because I think that if he did, he would have given me the time and waited until I was ready to tell him. And today, I got online and he had "TASHA" with a winky face next to it. Well, he sure has moved on. What do you think about it? Thanks, I'll rate if good.
x3 Erin
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hey if you don't want to tell your boyfriend something that is going on in yourlife because you're not ready to do so then he should respect that. i think he was being a jerk
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Okay, you deff. do not have to tell anyone anything you don't want to, especially someone that you have never even met in real life! Him saying the I love you thing, yea he was abusing it. You don't love someone the first time you talk to them, lol. He would've deffinetly not pressured you into telling him something personal and would've waited for you to tell him. I think he has moved on, or he is trying to make you jealous and "tasha" may not be real. Either way, he wasn't a good boyfriend. Don't worry about it!
-Brianna
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Okay let me start. If you didnt want to tell your boyfriend thats fine. He couldnt make you tell him and you didnt have to he just got mad over no reason at all. He was kind of pressuring into telling him. Sorry to say but this boy didnt love you. I dont know how you can say I love you to someone when you barley even know them and only after a month. He was defenetly being a jerk for breaking up with you. He had no reason at all. Just becuase you wouldnt tell him something. He is a loser! l0l You shouldnt of told him just because you were "going out". You would of told him if you wanted to. He was just saying I love you because thats the typical guy thing. Most guys dont mean it and they say it because they think they have to. He might of really liked you and your personality but he didnt love you. Maybe he put that girls name because he wants to make you kind of jelous. Dont worry about him tho. I for sure think that you can do way better then him. You dont need him because he is a jerk and you dont need to be treated like that. x0
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Okay he might not love love you cause he wouldnt of moved on so damn quick.. and he only knows you from internet conversations unless you talk on phone but anyways..i think he might of cared for you in some sort of way and wanted to be there for you.. and i can understand if its something you wasnt ready to tell him.. he should of respected that and waited til you was ready instead of being an ass and not leave you alone bout it and then do a childish thing and break up with you.. you guys was only together a month so it couldnt of been something serious for this guy.. but i think you should jus move on and get a different boyfriend hun.. and maybe keep him as a friend.. Much luv dez x0x0 *rate me*
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well i don't really how you are feeling but you should never have to tell him somthing if you arn't comfortable telling him! and also it probably was too soon for him to tell him that he loved you! and especally if you have never even met! and i think it was a good idea for you to break u w. him! and he also prolly never loved you if hes already moved on so just forget about him k? well hope i helped!! ~Kaitlyn
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if this guy is that retarded and can't respect your personal space and privacy, he's not worth it. from the way you talk about him, i'm guessing that he is a nosy, worthless pig. and from my point of view, if a guy says that he loves you when he doesnt even know you, or only knows you from online, he definitely doesnt mean it, and its ridiculous that guys even think like that. i would love to see the conversation, so i'll im you soon!
XOXO ~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~ XOXO
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He is a jerl amd i hate guys who say i love you with no emotion you were right to not tell him if you 2 didnt see much of eachotehr then you shouldnt have to tell him anything he should have respected that and know that when you are ready you would tell him. Move on cause its obvious he already has... Be happy that he doesnt like you anymore who wants jerks like that saying they love you i bet you would rather a decent guy who only says it when they mean it!
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