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Q: k i kno my catrgory isnt right, i just picked one...ok heres my problem:
i have an outie belly botton...i kno gross right but if i got it pierced would it look bad? or should i just get surgrey n make it an inny?
Don't waste money on the surgery on something as little as that just go get it pierced-trix

Q: ok here's the deal, my bestfriend and i have known each other for about a year and a half, we dated for a long time before he told me that he wasn't in love with me, the thing is, we are "friends with benefits" and i'm ok with that, it's just it's hard because i am totally 100% crazy in love with him and i want to be with him and date him again and i'm not sure if he wants the same thing. he said that he was going to think about us getting back together but i'm not really sure that he wants to. what should i do?? please help
Talk to him about that and see what he has to say and tell him how you feel towards him-trix

Q: Theres this guy..lets call him fred. Fred and I went out a lot and his friends don't like me at all and neither did his ex g/f's so we broke up. We stayed friends and then towards the end of the school year we seemed to drift apart. Just recently we started talking on the phone again (like for 2 hours at a time!) and I'm starting to develop really strong feelings for him again. When I tell him...he doesn't take me seriously anymore and tells me he loves me even though I know he doesn't really mean it the way I do. What do I do??
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Well what did you do to make all them hate you? Well try to work that out and same with fred and your friend have them work that out its silly to hate someone forever.. its understandable to be mad for awhile depending on what it was but its time to move on and get over it just talk to fred about it though when you 2 are talking about that sort of topic-trix

Q: last night me n my best friend of 7 yrs got into this huge fight .. she said everything that bothered her but i had no problem with that. i was glad she did bcuz it hurtsz to keep it inside. but she didn't even want to give me a chance to fix it. i told her everything and we had great times hanging out. i don't want to lose her forever. i can't. shes the only one who's been there since i moved here. it hurts like fck to see all this crap in her away msgs about how she doesn't care anymore. i just want her back. i can't take her being mad. it kills me. i don't know what to do anymore :/ help me please
Well this sounds like a similar thing that has happaned between me and kaleigh but i was your best friend and kaleigh was you.. kaleigh just constantly IMed me and emailed me and told me how much she needed me in her life to help her get through it all and how much we have been through and she sent me quotes and poems and everything. She called and always said sorry and b4 she hung up she still love ya (we are like sisters) and i said ok or alright bye.. then it finally got to the point where i would talk to her cuz i just cant leave her on a thread.. so what i am trying to say is that your friend will cave in if you really pay attention to her.. its not that i feel bad but she (kaleigh) did make a point that we were togher thru the bad and the good (mostly the bad i tell ya) and kaleigh said the same things you always did-trix

Q: My toes are hairy.. what should i do about that? (im a chick)
Shave em

trix

Q: alright well im still scared haha but i have a tiny little belly button and i think it will really hurt...lol i dont know how to get myself to go in there and get it done cuz i want it sooo bad but ahh THE PAIN!!
Dont worry about it if your worried just ask the person who is piercing it what he thinks. its going to hurt a bit but try not to think of it to much. but a tip for next time next time you leave a question try puttin what you want done in the question also instead of just the subject it would be most helpful-trix

Q: ok so heres my problem. i really like this guy.. we will call him david. ive told his friends that i like him and they say.. well thats a possibility for you. i know that david knows that i like him.. im just not sure if he likes me or not. what should i do?? HELP!
Ask him friends and see what they say-trix

Q: I like this boy Matt, long story shortened: he likes me, I like him. I make him horny...
Me and him have fooled around (touching, looking, etc) but we still haven't kissed. I want a relationship with him and I want to kiss him but I just don't know how to tell him without being completely blunt. I want to be creative but I'm kind of scared of how he'll react. I know he probably wants the same thing(he even said he wanted to be my boyfriend) but he still hasn't asked me out or anything. I don't know if he's just scared or what. I could really use some advice. Thanks :)
Well when you goings are "fooling around" kiss him.. im assuming its the perfect time to do it. I am sure he won't react to bad just go for it. Trying doesnt kill. If you dont then you'll regret it. He isnt scarred just nervous (yes they are diff. things)-trix

Q: i was depressed before this.. but this cut it! i jus started talken 2 this kid lets call him bob. iight well it seemd like bob was really sweet n nice. n then we kinda got in an arguement, cuz he said if we went out he wudnt call me like all tha time, boys rnt always supposdta call grls, i kno thats stupid 2 argue bout but i duno. but then i said sry.. cuz i think i really do like him. n he said sry 4 wat? n logged off tha cpu. so i duno if hes mad at me or not. or wat i should do. n to top it off hes kinda cuzins w/on of my good friends. n theres a game hes guna be at thursday.. shud i go. n wat shud i do bout tha whole situation?! plz answer ill rate. thanks alot,
confused nd depressed
Well you should go to the game and talk to him about it and tell your friend that you like him so s/he doesnt come into shocking to find out you 2 are going going out. i would tell her before you do go out that way s/he isnt mad-trix

Q: well we dont have a reason for wearing them except for there cute...i think that whoever started the trend was like "those bows r too cute to just be siting there" ya know? lol idk but they do have a website! www.rainbows-by-paulette.com and if ur on the first page...scroll down to where it has pictures of the categories and click overlays and then it has a few pics of bows...they have SOOO many more though they justed put a few as examples. u might be able to order one idk! but i hope i helped out somemore! hahaha well ttyl

-katie-
Well haha I brought my mom to the site and I guess you can order some so I am doing that. I am not much of a bow person but these are SoOo adorable. Lol thanks you did help!-trix

Q: My dance teacher recently had a baby boy(hes now 5 months) She also has a 2 year old boy. I volunteered to babysit for her once the baby is older. I've babysitted before but I had some help. Actually, I just helped babysit. I entertained them and the actual babysitter fed them, changed them, etc. I've never changed a diaper but I'm pretty sure I know how to fix them something to eat. I just want some tips on what all I should do and remember. Any ideas on activities? Snacks? Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks
Just talk to the mom and she should help you out just take the 2 yr. old up to his room and he'll be entertained maybe pop in a movie or something im not garenteeing he'll watch it but he'll watch bits n pieces of it and my lil cuz who is 2 loves crackers!-trix

Q: my mate has fallen out wiv me and i dont no y.we was at dancing and i went to say hi and she just flipped.i really wanna be mates wiv her.can ne 1 give me advice as to become mates wiv her agen?
Well i would talk to her about what you did and go from there-trix

Q: me and my best friend have been best friends for a long time and then all of a sudden an old friend of hers comes along and they r spending all this time together. she was supposed to go to florida with me for vacation but she went to her to grand isle instead. i even got her somethin while i was there. i feel like this gurl is takin my best friend away from me. im not gunna lie i am VERY jelous. what do i do?
Well she probably missed this old friend very much. Just go talk to her and tell her how you feel and give the girl a chance and talk to her and maybe you could all be friends-trix

Q: What does the term "in heat" mean when referring to animals? I just know it's somthing sexual..
The animals are.. horny.. yeah.. sick!-trix

Q: my mom just got married,so i have a stepdad...i don't like him cause he doesnt do nothin & tells me what to do...all he does is sit in his ''spider man'' underwear & watches buffy-the-vampire...how do i try to get along with him????
HELP ME....
sit down and talk to him-trix

Q: Ok well my boyfriend did me wrong and made some mistakes we broke up yesterday and like I know he made some MAJOR mistakes but like I forgive him so fast! I've never felt this way for someone before... is this love or is it just me being stupid? Help me please i'm so confused on what to do!
Love.. it could be you just being stupid but i doubt it but the whole dating another girl... he needs to be let loose let him remained dumped-trix

Q: i really need sum money i wanna babysit coz i love kids ne no how i can go about it
Put fliers up-trix

Q: Hey, Im looking to start a band on Long Island. I play guitar and I want my band to play things people have never heard before.I listen to bands like coheed and cambria,avenged sevenfold,rise against,taking back sunday,alexisonfire,lawrence arms,afi,and a static lullaby.stuff like that. If you know anyone that plays guitar,bass,or drums please answer this if you live close.

-CoHeEdANDsEvEnFoLd6-
I may no a few people in that area-trix

Q: I'm new to this site n im so confused! When I try to go and click on 'your advice column' my whole interent explorer closes! I dont know what to do or how to fix the problem. if anyone knows please tell me! All I was trying to do was to be able to put "Need Advice? Ask Me!" into my AOL Instant Messenger away message. Someone please help me and tell me how to get this to work! =(
You may have a virus.. get it cleaned or have someone look at it-trix

Q: Okay so i have this friend that we will call David. He's my best friend, but I think i like him and he might like me, im not sure. I can't get him outta my mind. I'm going crazy. Should I tell him that I like him or just keep it to myself? I mean I tell him everything and he came to my b-day parties and everything. I really don't know what to do. I hope someone can help me soon.
Signed,
Confuzzed
Tell him!!-trix

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bAhAmAmA0250
My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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