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Friends...... Or More?..........


Question Posted Tuesday July 20 2004, 1:08 am

Okay so i have this friend that we will call David. He's my best friend, but I think i like him and he might like me, im not sure. I can't get him outta my mind. I'm going crazy. Should I tell him that I like him or just keep it to myself? I mean I tell him everything and he came to my b-day parties and everything. I really don't know what to do. I hope someone can help me soon.
Signed,
Confuzzed


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chaparrita answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 3:37 am:
Tell him how u feel. If he likes u back then it can be a start of a good relationship. But, First thing u should do is sit him down or get him in "an alone time" and tell him how u truely feel. If he's a good friend he'll take those "feelings" in concideration.

Hope i helped (good luck)
*~chaparrita~*

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Roxybabii922 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 2:58 am:
You should tell him, or maybe ask him how he feels about you, because keeping it to yourself might be a bad thing if he feels the same, so just let him know and ask him about you

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 2:56 am:
Tell him!!-trix

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onlyqtwitdabooty answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 2:52 am:
hey confuzzed if i was u i wouldnt tell him because for 1 it might ruin ur friendship with him and hes ur bestfriend so just wait til david says something bout liken u..u never know he might feel the same just wait or ask him if he likes u in that kinda way and if he does theres ur chance..good luck hope i helped
Tracy
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kevin1986 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 2:28 am:
Why would you wanna keep that to yourself? Let him know how you feel and don't be depressed if he doesn't like you back. But if you like the guy,shit. Don't keep that to yourself.

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AiM_and_My answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 2:04 am:
Dear Confuzzled,
i defiantly think you should go for it! i mean you only live once! what if he likes you to? dont keep it inside of you!

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neenizzle answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 1:51 am:
Always tell everyone how you feel.. if you like him that much, he deserves to know!!! Hope it all works out =)

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blackmamba answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 1:44 am:
you should definently tell him your feelings. if you dont, you'll regret it for the rest of your life because you will never know what could have been. just be honest and optimistic :) and seriously i am telling you from experience.. i told my best friend i liked him, and now we've been dating ( and totally in love) for over a year and a half. trust me its totally worth it.

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randomdude answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 1:38 am:
ight first of all u need to tell him how u feel and second u need find out how he feels about u if u guys like each have him ask u out
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texangirl01 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 1:37 am:
yes you should tell him!! he might like you too and he just might be too scared to say anything...and if neither of you people say anything...then you will never know if yall could have been an item or not!!!

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RainWindFireIce answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 1:32 am:
It's funny, I was actually in your situation not long ago. If you and him are really close, I suggest confronting him about it. Ask him how he feels about you, if he'd ever want more to your relationship. If he seems nervous or distant, back off and leave the subject alone. At least a little while. He might not like you more than a friend or he could just be embarassed because he DOES like you like that. If you're too scared to confront him directly, you could always try dropping subtle hints (always seeming approachable, try and be "accessable" whenever he might need you(but don't let it seem like you have nothing better to do with your time). Smile at him a lot(don't over do it!)
Let me know how everything works out :)

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BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 1:31 am:
I think you should tell him how you feel, I mean it shouldn't be too hard since he is your best friend. When you two are talking just tell him you have something to tell him and its serious. And then tell him "I don't know about you, but I've been beginning to realize I like you more than a friend and I just want to know how you feel" And tell him "If you do like me, our friendship will never change, you guys will always remain friends no matter what." Just tell him something like that and how you feel about him and you want to know how he feels about you too. Good luck!!

xoxo Kourtney

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hot_tamalee_1218 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 1:27 am:
i think u should first of all find out if he likes you... that would be the best. then if he does then tell him how you feel too. but if he doesnt like you then u could still prolly tell him how u feel or u dont have to. its up to u.

good luck!

<3 katie

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HollyAnn2282 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 1:27 am:
hmmm... I think you should tell him! because you dont want a good thing to pass you by! Just go for it. Whats the worst that can happen? Good luck
-holly-
hope i helped

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Kali7890 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 1:27 am:
Hey, if you know that you like him and want to be more than just friends tell him. Or if you're kind of shy like me then you can tell your friend to tell him for you. If you never say anything then you'll never know how he feels about you. I hope everything works out for you and I hope I helped. ~*~KaLi~*~

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Lizzy answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 1:27 am:
Tell him!!! what good is it going to do not telling him. You will get nowhere. And even if he says no, then at least you will know. But the chances are probably he'll say yes if you say you like him first.
Good Luck
Lizzy

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