I am 16 and a female. I have gone out with both a girl and a guy but i dont know which way to go. How do you know if its the right path? And how do you meet other girls with the same intersets?
Well ima 16 year old female as well that has gone with both guys and girls.. um i havent really ever met a girl that had many of the same interests so im not sure of a way to find a girl.. i meani wouldnt use the damn internet to find a girl cause thats just kinda stupid.. but you could go with both a guy and a girl ive done that before but its not something easy... you have to make sure you satisfy them both and dont spend more time with one or the other.. but i quit doing that cause i felt wrong doing that in the first place even tho they knew bout each other.. Just make standards with both and guys and girls that your looking for in them.. and what you dont want them to be like and stick to your standards and also make sure you dont just go with anybody.. much luv dez x0x0
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Ok my bf and I had sex and I missed my peroid for like two weeks. And this is really nasty and srry but need help. I had this nasty yellow/white stuff coming out of me and it looked like it had an egg in it. But right after that I got my peroid. Did I have a miss carriage. I sound really stupid but I really don't have anyone to ask. Well now we broke up and I just wanted to know. Thanks
No hun you didnt have a miscarriage you just had a discharge.. usually girls get that before having a period it usually means your fertile and can get pregnant.. and also youd bleed not have a white or yellow discharge
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ye...i dont feel like blowin like 50 green on my hair...so if i end up doin it myslef... how would i do it on me own? nd wtf should i use...? thnxx
Use nice and easy.. its a good product and dont fade real easy either.. well i started at the bottom with lil sections of hair bin all the rest up so it dont mix and mess up.. i dont know if you want thick highlights or thin so pull about the same amount out where ever you decide to highlight and i wouldnt do no more then six lil highlights on each side on the top.. but if your doing thick ones i'd do like four thick ones.. um jus put what you want highlighted in lil rubberbands so it dont mix with your other hair and then look funny.. then mix the product it'll tell you how in the directions.. and when its mixed just rub the hair dye down start from then tip of the roots and work our way down.. and id but a couple highlights in your bangs since they arent real short.. hope it looks nice and good luck.. much luv dez x0x0
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My best friend has a really bad headlice problem. At school you can see them all in her hair! and the problem is i dont like hugging her because i feel shes going to pass them onto me. What can i do please help?? Shes had them for ages since ive known her mabe even before that.
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My lil sister use to have a real bad head lice problem when she was in kindergarten and in 1st grade until we moved to an all black neighborhood.. but um make sure its head lice first before approaching her... these are things she can do to get rid of head lice i wouldnt use RID or NIX.. i would use Vaseline.. Hair Mayonaise which is a african american hair condionor thats really thick.. and make sure you get a metal lice comb to comb them out and run it through her hair everyday til she doesnt have anything come out.. and wash all her clothes, sheets, stuff animals.. vacuum all funiture and floors.. Yea my family kinda became a pro at it.. but jus stay away from her while she has em.. dont hug her her.. share combs or brushes or have any hair contact.. much luv dez x0x0
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well ya see i want to get black streaks in my hair... idk how i should do it tho... my parents dont want me to say they wouldnt take me to get it done... so im gona do it without asking them...
my hair comes a TINY bit bellow my shoulders in the front...its layerd like crazy...and it gets longer in the back...and its naturally wavy and really thick... oh yea and i also have bangs down a tiny bit pasmy eyes... and its a bunch of different colors ( naturally)... mostly dirtly blonde, light brown... how should i get it done? should i go to a salon anyways? if i dont... what product should i use? also... if i do it myslef... how? also if i go to a salon... how much is it?
PS if it helps... i like the way Xtina Agularas hair looked when it had black streaks
Okay i've done highlights myself so many times with black.. and its no big deal but ive also got it done at a salon which its a whole lot cheaper to do it yourself.. well first off since you have real thick hair.. and youve never dyed your hair yourself before i would get it done at a salon first because thats how i learned and thought how to do it myself.. so i would suggest gettin it professionally done firstthen tryin it yourself when it grows out.. much luv dez x0x0 if you want me to try and explain how to do it yourself drop it in my inbox.. x0x0
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alright me and this boy lets call him "a" have been going out for a year and 7 months.he lives in georgia and i live in conneticut. we lived in the same state then moved. well i started getting worried because he is now in a band and is always being wanted by chicks. well i called him one morning and he thought i was checking up on him so he wanted a break. we had a break and he did alot to uncalled stuff with like 2 chicks. he didnt have sex tho. he says hes waiting for me. anyway we talked it all out and he bought me a ticket to go see him so we can be together because after all this thats just what we needed. the thing is while on the break i did stuff with a guy here that really likes me. he asked me out and i had to say no because i still love "a" so now everything is good with me and "a" but people here are saying i should just break up with him because hes not here and the stuff he did while on a break. (what he did was worse then what i did) i have no idea what to do. i like this other guy but i am in love with "a" and i dont want to just end a almost 2 year relationship on something that might not even last a week. what should i do?
Stay with this guy *A*.. i mean yea its a long distance relationship but it could work out and then when you are old enough to go see him more often you can.. jus do what makes you happy and dont throw what you got with *A* away with somebody that likes you a whole lot.. and most likely the whole time your with this other guy your jus going to miss and want *A* no matter wat.. much luv dez x0x0
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does having sex in a pool lessen your chances or getting pregnant?
No i dont thnk so hun.. much luv dez x0x0
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I have been going out with this girl for about a month an da half and now people are telling her that i'm saying things that i never said in my life. Now she thinking about breaking up with me and I love this girl so much I can't live without her. What sould i do to keep her in me life
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tell her if she really likes you and cares for you then she will believe you and not other people..tell her you love her and dont wanna lose her over other things people have said.. tell her that you wished she could trust and believe your words against these other people.. tell her this isnt very fair to you because you havent done anything to her and would never do something to hurt her because you love her way way way to much.. much luv dez x0x0
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My two friends are in an argument over a dress. I know it's stupid, but it just needs to end.
My friend went to the mall on Friday night and got a dress. Then on Sunday, my other friend went and got the same exact dress, only she didn't know the first one had already gotten it. We feel that whoever got the dress first should have it. That's the way our grup of friends has always agreed on these things. The friend who got the dress second went back to the mall and returned it- but got the same dress in a different color. Now they're arguing over it, and who should rightfully have it. I believe the two of them should either suck it up and deal with it, or both just get a new dress and not even worry about this anymore. Any input?
Tell them both to shut up and stop being so damn childish over a dress.. usually my friends and me like to dress alike for parties and things.. just tell them to ignore eachother and wear what they want.. much luv dez x0x0
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~I have class pictures tomorrow and I have no clue what to wear! My favorite colors are pink and lime green. But blue really brings out my eyes. I love flip flops too!~
Well wear a pink skirt with flip flops and a white lil tee to go with the skirt and wear your hair down.. much luv dez x0x0
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In about 2 weeks I am going to a weeding with my boyfriend. I am wearing a black cute dress and pink heels and a pink choke necklace and a pink purse. I want to wear my hair cute though. I was just goin got wear it half up and half down and curl it and put little so called "Wisskers"in the front and wear some makeup and cute hoop earings.
Does this sound okay today girls?
And guys is this nice? or too weird?
My boyfriend is going to be in the weeding so he will be wearing a suit and bowtie so this isnt dressed up too fancy.
My boyfriends 15/m
I am a 13/f
--Thx--
Hun it sounds real cute.. i think you'll look fine.. much luv dez x0x0
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Hello i like this guy and i dunno if he likes me?
he always talks to me and smiles and stuff. Today one of my friends asked him if he liked me and he said he didnt know but did i like him? and then she said well would you ever date her and he said he didnt know?
Sign tennesse chicko
Sounds like since one your friends went and asked him them questions he didnt want her going back and sayin he didnt like you so he said he dont know... but he could like you and didnt want to tell her and was being shy about it... its one of those two im dont know how he reacted when she asked these questions so i dont know sorry.. much luv dez x0x0
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I am 27 years old 3 kids and maried for almost 10 years.Ok this is the situation my ex from bak middle school is good frien with my sister and myself.WE started talking or a little bit like friens thats all.Even though i think he still cares for me more than just a friend.Now this the problem my huban found out that h calls me and we talked,and he thinks tht i hav somenthing going on with him.I try to explain him that nothing like that that we are just friends an he not understanding.He even thinking divorce because he thinks that i have somenthing mor than
just friend.I need help.Ihave tryed to explained him that it i nothing like that,that i will never o suh thing.He does not believe me.What could i do to making understand that love him an that he means the world to me.PLEASE HELP!
im going to try and help the best i can cause i would hate to hear a ten year relationship is about to break up.. Okay well first of all maybe stop talking to this guy so much.. if you think this guy that you think still might have feelings for you more then friends.. maybe get him to tell your husband that your not messing around with him.. jus tell your husband you been with him 10 years you have 3 children with him and that you love him so much for what he has done for you,, you been married since about my age so i could imagine how this is probably tearing you up inside knowing he dont trust you.. tell him you dont want to lose the ten years youve had with him tell him you want way way more then ten years you plan on spending the rest of your life with him and that this would also tear your kids up inside too.. tell him he should try for them and you.. much luv dez x0x0 best of luck..
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hi, im 15 f and i really want a bf. but everytime i go near a boy i get all shy, is this normal? please help
confused girl :S
yes its normal..
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My friend Tiffany always be having sex and I'm worried about her. she might have another kid and have to put it up for adoption. or she might get AIDS. I don't want that to happen. should I let her get hurt? or try to talk to her and help her?
try and help her be a friend
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well i have this boyfriend named mike and this best friend named brittany. lately brittany has been flirting with mike but mike of course has not been flirting back. she has started lightly hitting him and he would just look at her funny. she even says stuff like "say hi to mikey for me" i don't want to lose her as a best friend and i really really like my boyfriend. and when me and mike hug she starts trying to say i'm cold let me get in the middle. and when we all sit down she like throws mike up and tells him to sit next to her so she could be in the middle. in the middle of me and him! help
She's apparently jealous and dont like you guys showing effection around her.. tell her how its bothering you and that you dont wanna lose mike over lil things she does that bothers him and you, much luv dez x0x0 and also try to hook her up with a boy.. that might help too
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Hi. Tonight I am babysitting an 11 year old girl at my house. I was wondering some things I could do with her to keep her accupied. Any ideas would be helpful. Thanks.
Play games with her.. give her a make over.. make something to eat.. EAT!!!... um play music and talk,, watch movies.. much luv dez x0x0
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Ok heres whats going on...I am 9 weeks and 1 day pregnant and my boyfriend who lives with me just got a new job today...well the job that he has is like washing horses and doing stuff around a farm...well he just got home and said that the guy who he has started working for wants him to go out of town to vagrinia and me and my boyfriend which are engaged live in georgia...well they would go out of town for the whole week and my boyfriend would only be home for the weekends, and I dont know what to do I mean I want him to have a job and everything but I dont want him to be that far away from me...because what if something happens...I would only be able to see him 3 days every week untill the baby is born and he might keep the job...well I wanted to know what yall think I should do...I know I'll miss him so much and I dont know what to tell him about if he should go or not..so if anyone can help me with this I will rate high..thanks..bye
Okay i understand where your coming from... you probably need the money so you guys can raise this child so you want him to have this job.. But then you want him around while you are pregnant plus you guys are an engaged couple who need and want to spend time together,, you should tell him this is going to effect your relationship and what goes on.. tell him you want him to have a job but not if he's going to be away from you the whole time your pregnant with his child.. Tell him your scared something will happen while he's gone out of town and then he wont be there..so just tell him how you feel dont hold it in and not tell him cause this could mess your relationship up with your boyfriend.. much luv dez x0x0 good luck with the unborn child...
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This is a question about doing the laundry. I am not a real laundry-doer so i need some tips and help. HOW do i do the laundry. Heres what i know so far: seperate them into dark, lights, and white (the ones that i bleach). How much soap do I add?? Do i put the clothes in after all the water is filled up, and then put the soap in? Should i pour the soap in along with the running water thats going into the washer so it gets all bubbly? So, clothes, water, soap? Clothes, soap, water? The only dispenser i have on my washer is for the softener (which we dont use) and for the bleach (i use this one alot with the whites.) Someone tell me how to do the laundry please?! Thanks a bunch!
Okay calm down.. ima female that does laundry three times a week.. so yeah i let the water run a little bit..and then i put the soap in with the running water.. and let in get fill up some so it dont stay on the clothes when you wash them.. then i throw the clothes in..then shut the lid.. Its easy.. and you should add about a half of a cap full of soap.. much luv and good luck..x0x0 dez
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What amount of sperm is needed to be in a female in order for her to get pregnant?
any amount of sperm.. it doesnt matter..
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