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Ok heres whats going on...I am 9 weeks and 1 day pregnant and my boyfriend who lives with me just got a new job today...well the job that he has is like washing horses and doing stuff around a farm...well he just got home and said that the guy who he has started working for wants him to go out of town to vagrinia and me and my boyfriend which are engaged live in georgia...well they would go out of town for the whole week and my boyfriend would only be home for the weekends, and I dont know what to do I mean I want him to have a job and everything but I dont want him to be that far away from me...because what if something happens...I would only be able to see him 3 days every week untill the baby is born and he might keep the job...well I wanted to know what yall think I should do...I know I'll miss him so much and I dont know what to tell him about if he should go or not..so if anyone can help me with this I will rate high..thanks..bye
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I think if this is going to be a permenent thing...the working in Viginia, then maybe he should look around down there for a place for you two to live. You need to be together. It may be hard leaving family and friends, but your future is with him. :)
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tell him that you want him to have the job but not until after the baby is born..tell him that ur scared that something will happen and he wont be there. he will under stand =]
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xO Cierra
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Okay i understand where your coming from... you probably need the money so you guys can raise this child so you want him to have this job.. But then you want him around while you are pregnant plus you guys are an engaged couple who need and want to spend time together,, you should tell him this is going to effect your relationship and what goes on.. tell him you want him to have a job but not if he's going to be away from you the whole time your pregnant with his child.. Tell him your scared something will happen while he's gone out of town and then he wont be there..so just tell him how you feel dont hold it in and not tell him cause this could mess your relationship up with your boyfriend.. much luv dez x0x0 good luck with the unborn child...
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