Q: Heres my opinion on sending your questions to be "checked" first before people can answer them.

Its annoying because it takes FOREVER for your question to appear on the page. What if you need a question answered right away??

Theres got to be an easier way to have our questions looked over before sent to the site. Or maybe the people looking at them need to work a little bit FASTER. Is there anyway that can happen?

Q: Hi, this is MFS again.

If you come into the chat and people like myself, Jen, Fern, or Storage are in there, and we don't reply right away, it is likely because we aren't really there. We log in but are away. It happens. Often, I'll set my name to say something like "MFS|notHere" or "MFS|work". If you see that, then likely I'm just logged in and lurking.

The reason I say this is to demonstrate what happens when really stupid and immature people come into the chat:

19:22] *** troubledteen joined #advicenators
[19:22] hi,can sum1 gimme advice?????
[19:23] PLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ?
[19:23] hello????
[19:23] *** SweetieAsh08 joined #advicenators
[19:23] hey people
[19:23] can u plzzzzzzzzzzz help?
[19:24] does anyone know how to make your advicenators available on AIM?
[19:24] HELLO???????????????????
[19:24] God you guys suck ass
[19:24] *** SweetieAsh08 quit Sorcerynet : Quit: http://cookie.sorcery.net/~ircd_/javachat/
[19:25] she/hes right!!!!!!!!!!! ppl cum in here to get advice and ur just like ...................................
[19:26] i bet both of yall are doing sumthin that i dont even wanna kno about
[19:26] fuck you!!!!!!!!!!!
[19:26] fuck you fuck you fuck you
[19:26] Yuck Fou! Fuck You!!!!
[19:26] *** troubledteen quit Sorcerynet : Quit: http://cookie.sorcery.net/~ircd_/javachat/

Keep in mind, I can and will ban you from the chat for stupidity like that. We're not here to serve your every whim. We're here to help IF WE CAN. And hey, get this... some of us have LIVES.

Amazing.

Anyway, hardly anyone comes into the chat room - a few have, and we've had great conversations with them and even started to discuss a few issues. This chatroom is for the people of this site, particularly the frequent columnists, to talk to each other, get to know each other, and make this site a better place for everyone.

People who use it as way to act like asshats are not helping anyone, especially not themselves.

Q: ok well theres this guy and way back around the middle of the school year i found out he liked me. Let's call him Bob. Well Bob was very very annoying! He sat in front of me and all he did was turn around and get in the middle of my conversations with my friends. I even got my boyfriend at the time to warn him about his behavior...well it worked and he moved his seat. He wound up finding out my s/n and he turned out to be a pretty nice and sweet guy and after a while we became really close and we even went out for like an hour! lol ( I realized he wasn't my time) He's that type of guy that is totally nerdy and dorky but cutte at the same time that all the desperate girls go out with and since I was on the rebound I fell for him for a little while ...I told him that going out with him was a huge mistake and since i asked him out online i told him that it was my cousin on my screen-name! I feel sooo bad! Well now it's gotten to the pont where he is totally in love with me and threatens to kill himself b/c I still love my ex... I really like being his friend but he just keeps saying all these things to make me feel bad. What do I do with him?

Q: ok i was talking to my best friend online today and like a week ago she went to her friends cabin and she did some bad stuff there n got in trouble and she rilly changed dramatically and it wasnt good like lately shes been rilly mean to people including me and she was always telling me people hate her now.. and they kind of do becuz shes been sorta mean to them and i was so sick of it and i told her that shes totally changed and it wasnt so good and i told her not to take it the wrong way.. and she did and she like is super mad at me now and i feel sooooooo bad and i rilly dont want her to be mad at me i like rilly hate myself now and i totally regret ever saying all that stuff to her and i wish i could take it all back and now she like wont talk to me and stuff all cuz i told her the truth and i told her i missed the old her and stuff and i rilly dont want her to be mad at me i mean ya i know im such a mean person and i hate myself for wut i said to her and i dont want her to be mad at me how to i get to talk to her again and tell her im super sorry i mean i told her im sorry but shes still mad n stuff wut should i do? HELP ME PLEEZ ILL RATE U FOR THIS!!!

Q: I'm 15 years old + a virgin. My best friend has had sex with her bf. My boyfriend isn't a virgin, either. I feel so left out since I've never done anything really 'sexual' with a guy. I'm so curious about it, but I don't wanna do it unless I'm totally in love and I'm ready. I really wanna know what it feels like. What should I do? I dont wanna be known as a little virgin girl for not doing it, but I've never been some1 to give in to peer pressure!

Q: Someone told me i was..well to put it nicely..really fat and..i havent eaten for 6 hours and my stomach is killing me and ive been pressuring myself to get tons of exercise and it hurts...but i donno what to do! and i really need help!

Q: my front yard n part of my baq yard is full of weeds like in every place there isnt grass. therez no waii we can get sum1 to pull weedz real soon n itz so much work id go crazy!! i did sum todaii but it wuz onli a little n u can reallii tell that much that the weedz i pulled were gone. well i dont wunna use all my tyme pulling weedz i have tonz of other stuff to do. id like to find a good way to get it done.

Q: okay, so here's the situation..in 7th grade i used to be how do you say it..the ugly duckling..then in eighth grade my body matured and i was still unhappy with myself..then people started complimenting me and i have had no trouble finding people to do stuff with..not meaning sex but...yah know..i just don't know what to do ..because as much as i want a boyfriend im soo used to my usual thing..i don't know what to do..what if i cheat on that boyfriend..or what..is it like wrong not to have boyfriends..becuase i don't think im ready for a relationship..maybe in time but i mean right now im not gunna settle down ..but is it wrong or what?

Q: okay in lyk 5th grade i wuz @ school n muh boyfriendz best friendz lyk stefano wantz to make out with u, u wunna make out with him n i wuz lyk okay fyne cool... my first kiss... i wuz so nervous but it happend n it wuz cool well i dk that wuz like 3 months b4 school emded n he calld me like mayb a week b4 5th grade ended n hez like itz ova bitc!! n hung ^. does that mean hez jus tryin 2 b a gy n b cool instead of being lyk o im gunna miss u n this whole long thing then break up? or do u think hiz best friend told him 2? his best friend wuz my first boyfriend.

Q: ok i love my boyfriend ok and so im kinda like a lil shy to go somewhere with him like ya know alone like at the movies or the mall so i always have to bring one of my friends and i can tell he kinda gets sick of being around them and that he only wants to b with me i need sum advice on how to b more comfortable around.
signed..
shy girl

Q: i seriously need to know how to get my little advice column in my profile if u kno how IM me on AIM on d 0 r k y me x3 !! thanks

Q: This kid im like in love with leads me on all the time and every time i get stupid and think he likes me. i like him alot and i think he likes me...but his friends told me that he said he didnt. Could he be lying? or does he just feel like leading me on? hes not the type of guy that wud do that...hes a sweetie

Q: ok i like these 2 guys. one i;ve known for about 6 months and is my best friend in teh entire world. he is in my grade and is only a few months older than i am. the otther guys i ahve known for about 2 or 3 months and we are always making eachother laugh. he is a year older than me. i go to the sae school as both of these guys and they both make me laugh and i have alot of fun wiht both of them. i am told that the first guys flirts wiht me and i am told that the second guy and i woudl make a really cute couple but i dont knwo who i shoudld go for. shoudl i pick just one or should i try for both and see what happenes?? please help i rate well

Q: Can someone please tell me how to get music on my site. Thanks!

Q: Well my friend we can call her **Jasmine** she likes this boy named well call him **t.j.** well i kinda like t.j. but he has a girlfriend and i have a boyfriend and so does ** Jasmine ** well he keeps wanting to talk to me on the phone not her he said i am more fun to talk to and him and his girlfriend are about to break up and i LOVE my boyfriend but he said he likes me the other day and ** Jasmine** started crying in my closet well the last time Jasmine tried to get me to talk to her friend she likes he ended up liking me and we went out for like a month

Q: My horse started limping yesterday and I dont know whats wrong with her. She is 23 years old but acts like a young horse. I cant afford to take her to the vet because Im only 13 and I already babysit to get her food. i even got her for free! I would really like to know what is wrong with her.

Q: itz hard 4 me 2 call my friend. i want 2 but im scared that ill call her n find out that shez ben shoppin all summa n all ive ben doin iz laying bak @ muh house watchin tv or sumthing. how do i get ova it. i really wunna call hurr. everytyme i pick ^ da phon i hang ^.

Q: does anybody know where i can get some good back rounds for my advice column?

Q: i met this guy 5 months ago our parents knew eachother i got to go erywhere with them his family loved me etc we werent bf/gf we juss "talked" i guess....well we stopped talkin bc he got in trouble...and ive been thinkin bout him ALOT lately bc he was the only guy who has really treated me good...so i got up the nerve to call him...he wasnt home...hihs dad told him i called..he called me back and i wsant home...so i saw the missed call nn called him back agen!! well he kinda blew me off!! he was like well i g2g sumwhere with my mom bye n we hung up...so i was really nervous to call agen so i called that nite n left a mssg sayin hey i juss wanted to see ho w u wer doin havint talk to u in along time call me back!! but he hasnt called me back...i called at 9 last nite n its 2 00pm rite now and he still hasnt called...wats up? wat do i do? do i call him? do i wait? HELP

Q: my best friend has a crush on this guy but the problem is he has a girlfriend! he is only telling my best friend that he loves her and shit because she will do "stuff" with him that his gf wont do! i dont want my best friend to be a slut and especially with a guy that already gave his heart away!

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