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i didnt mean it!
ok i was talking to my best friend online today and like a week ago she went to her friends cabin and she did some bad stuff there n got in trouble and she rilly changed dramatically and it wasnt good like lately shes been rilly mean to people including me and she was always telling me people hate her now.. and they kind of do becuz shes been sorta mean to them and i was so sick of it and i told her that shes totally changed and it wasnt so good and i told her not to take it the wrong way.. and she did and she like is super mad at me now and i feel sooooooo bad and i rilly dont want her to be mad at me i like rilly hate myself now and i totally regret ever saying all that stuff to her and i wish i could take it all back and now she like wont talk to me and stuff all cuz i told her the truth and i told her i missed the old her and stuff and i rilly dont want her to be mad at me i mean ya i know im such a mean person and i hate myself for wut i said to her and i dont want her to be mad at me how to i get to talk to her again and tell her im super sorry i mean i told her im sorry but shes still mad n stuff wut should i do? HELP ME PLEEZ ILL RATE U FOR THIS!!!
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you told her because you needed to. one day she will be thankful that you told her. she will realise how big of a jerk she's bein and she'll feel horrible. she'll come around and you need to be there for her when she does. everyone falls to peer pressure. just wait it will take time and she'll come around. don't regret or feel bad for tellin her because you needed to.
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Dont regret for speaking up for youself and others.. you probably just made more good friends and she needs to be slapped back into reality to know what the heck is going on! Dont be hating yourself for what you said and your not a mean person you probably said it in a nice manner.. just keep apologrizing and if she doesnt accept it in a week she isnt worth it.. srry -trix
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i think it was a good idea that you talked to her. she needed to know how she was treating you. try and talk to her. tell her that you miss her, and you wish things could be like they were. if she's still mad at you, it might be time to find a new friend. you don't deserve a friend that treats you this way. best wishes, and don't hesitate to send me a message or IM me if you need help.
xox Kristen
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This kind of thing happens all the time. Okay, to start off you did the right thing by telling the girl the truth. Unfortunately, the truth for her (as it would be for most people) was a firm slap in the face. By saying sorry too much you are probably annoying her and she knows that your pretty much obligated to say it because you guys are friends and you made her feel kind of rotten. The thing is making her feel rotten was not your fault at all. You're her best friend and the hardest part about being best friends is the responsibility of each person. And your responsibility in this situation was to tell your friend the truth because you knew that it need to be told. It's hard to hear but you had to be the bearer of bad news and you needed to do what you did. My advice would be to tell her the same thing I just told you. Tell her that best friends get eachother's backs even if it turns out that one person has to tell her best friend something that would make her feel rotten. Don't tell her that your sorry, (because it's not your fault at all), but you should tell her your sorry of the fact that she had to hear the truth and that you're there to listen and that she knows that you're a great friend. Tell her she can trust you and that you guys will always be friends. Your friend just appears to be in a very difficult situation and it's very possible that she's not all that mad at you particularly, but maybe it's just that she's mad at a lot of different things and she feels that she can just dump it all on one person...and who better then her best friend. Just talk to her and tell her the things I told you to tell her. Remind her that you guys are best friends.
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okay first off she didnt win , YOU won by standin up to her like that , that was the right thing maybe she doesnt need to be hanging out with those friends any more .. try to call her or sumthin and tell her " im really sorry i didnt mean to hurt ur feelings or anything i just wanted to tell you the way i felt about how u have been acting im shure she`ll understand. Please dont hate urself u have no reason at ALL to hate yourself u did the right thing
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