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ehh..so confused?
okay, so here's the situation..in 7th grade i used to be how do you say it..the ugly duckling..then in eighth grade my body matured and i was still unhappy with myself..then people started complimenting me and i have had no trouble finding people to do stuff with..not meaning sex but...yah know..i just don't know what to do ..because as much as i want a boyfriend im soo used to my usual thing..i don't know what to do..what if i cheat on that boyfriend..or what..is it like wrong not to have boyfriends..becuase i don't think im ready for a relationship..maybe in time but i mean right now im not gunna settle down ..but is it wrong or what?
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I dont have a bf and no it is not wrong. if you don't fee ready then you dont have 2 b. it's like getting used to cold pool water. (if u kno what its like) you take it a step at a time and once you feel that part of your body is used to the water you go in further. am i right? well just go when you feel like it. if yopu really like ur bf then ou wont have a problem cheating on him.
>>Random Leigh<<
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WHAT YOUR GOING THRU IS COMPLETELY NORMAL! lol thers nothin rong with not wantin a bf! be single n live it up!
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If ur not readi then ur not readi n dont let that bother u because u should wait which is a very good thing waiting will be good so that way u knw when ur readi n just dont russ urself into having a bf because its not wrong or anything im sure ur parents are happi lol n plus boyfriends most of the time just cause more stress in ur life n trust me u dont wanna get involved in that! Inless ur Readi that is!
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its not cool to cheat so maybe u should just stick wit wut ure doin plus boyfrends suck ass mostly lol just do wut u want
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i dont think thats wrong at all. if you dont feel like your ready for something really serious, then just have fun! you're young-- plenty of time for boyfriends. so you are totally fine just dating around. :)
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it's not wrong at all. most girls mature around 7th or 8th grade. and they are still gettin used to the attention and don't wanna stop. if you know what i mean. well if ur not ready for a boyfriend that's normal.
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omigosh.. l0l.. thats mai friends exact story.. she wasnt prrty in 7th and then in 8th lyk.. a ho0ole lotta guys lyked her.. and she went out with one of em.. and realized that she wasnt ready for a boyfriend and broked up with him.. and she just flirted with everyone.. l0l.. but yea.. if ur not ready .. then dont.. l0l.. i thynk its better bein single anywaes.. but yea.. she was one of mai bestst buddies.. so she told me everythyng.. thats how i kno.. l0l.. kk.. hope i helped.. :-D
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In my opinion is that you should wait till your ready. Trust me. I am just like you. When you dont have a boyfriend yes you do feel like crap, but when you do have a boyfriend you are scared and you are afraid of doing something wrong. So just wait until you are ready.
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Its not wrong to not have bf and its not wrong to have a bf. if you like your bf alot you wont have a problem not cheating on him. -trix
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Is it wrong?? Are you crazy?? No! It's not wrong at all!! There's nothing wrong with it! Many people prefer not to get themselves tied up into a relationship. If you have any doubts whether you could remain faithful to a boyfriend or not.. STAY SINGLE!! It's NOT fair to him! You MUST consider his feelings also! Just give it some time. Whenever YOU feel YOU'RE ready to hold a steady relationship.. go for it! But don't ever give in because everyone else is doing it! You're your own person.. you're unique... so don't change to follow the herd! Goodluck! Hopefully this was some help!
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well in my opinion i think it will be good for you to get a boyfriend and stop your routine of doing stuff with guys...believe me all your gonna do is hurt yourself by doing it. guys are going to start using you and saying they like you just to get stuff from you...you should find a good guy that likes you for YOU (and not someone that wants stuff from you) and try and stop those bad habits...good luck!!!
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Well you do waht you wanna do... don't follow the crowd cuz thats gonna lead you no where! But I think you should come to realize that you've become a beatufil teen and things like having a boyfriend go through everyones mind but yea do what makes you happy. =)
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No, there's nothing wrong. You just arn't ready for a relationship. You're, what, 14? Don't rush things. If you settle down with one guy too early, you arn't going to be happy. It's fine to date around, but don't just make out with a guy and then never talk to him again, or you will just get a bad reputation, and you will hurt the guy's feelings.
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it is totally ok not to have a boyfriend and its ok if ur not ready as long as noone forces u to do something ur not ready 4 so take as long as u like it is definitly ok to not be ready
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You dont have to have a boyfriend if you dont want one or if you arent ready. There isnt a rule that says you have to have one! If your thing is to hang out with tons of guys and not settle for just one, then do that! Whenever your ready to settle down, then find a guy you truly like and care about! Dont have a boyfriend now because you dont sound too ready and you dont want to have to worry about cheating! Good luck sweetie!!
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