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i found out he liked me
ok well theres this guy and way back around the middle of the school year i found out he liked me. Let's call him Bob. Well Bob was very very annoying! He sat in front of me and all he did was turn around and get in the middle of my conversations with my friends. I even got my boyfriend at the time to warn him about his behavior...well it worked and he moved his seat. He wound up finding out my s/n and he turned out to be a pretty nice and sweet guy and after a while we became really close and we even went out for like an hour! lol ( I realized he wasn't my time) He's that type of guy that is totally nerdy and dorky but cutte at the same time that all the desperate girls go out with and since I was on the rebound I fell for him for a little while ...I told him that going out with him was a huge mistake and since i asked him out online i told him that it was my cousin on my screen-name! I feel sooo bad! Well now it's gotten to the pont where he is totally in love with me and threatens to kill himself b/c I still love my ex... I really like being his friend but he just keeps saying all these things to make me feel bad. What do I do with him?
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Get him help.. -trix
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theres not much you can realie DO with him...just tell him thah you want some space and thah its either you guys are frends er nuthin..i mean i dont think hes serious about suicide...ya noe?
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Look...tell him calmly that at this point you are not exactly interested in him in the same way as he is with you. However if you still would like to stay close with this guy...you should say to him that you two should continue being really close friends and see where that leads you. Make sure he feels important to you because he is definitely begging for approval here. Say that you guys are getting so much more out of being really good friends then being girlfriend and boyfriend. If he does not accept this and tells you that he doesn't want friendship at all and just wants to be your boyfriend then tell him that if he really cared about you that he would accept the way you feel and care about your opinions enough to understand the situation your in. The most important thing here is to make him feel important to you though...that's one of the biggest things a guy is looking for. It's not even just being more then a friend at this point...he just really wants to play an important role in your life right now, and your job is to tell him that he would play much more of an important role as a really good friend instead of a boyfriend.
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well first u should of never lied to him always say the truth cuz ur gonna always feel bad afterwords second tell him that u just want to be friends and nothing more and third tell him hurting himself over someone isnt worth it cuz their are alot of gurls out their that would want to hook up with him
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