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i am fourteen years old and i am a 32A, i got my period in october. is there anything i can do without pills surgerys or medication of sort that can help make my breasts bigger naturaly?????

Unfortunately, the only way to guarantee a bigger size is with surgery. Or everyone would be walking around with their prefered size bust!
Don't be fooled by super pills that make you grow - they really don't work.
You're 14. Your time will come, so for now, enhance what you do have :)

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how do you know if you orgasmed or not during sex?

If you don't know if you've had one, you probably haven't ever experienced one.
Women are lucky to orgasm through sex alone.
but you just know when it happens when you get that feeling of a build up and then it releases, leaving you with a very pleasurable feeling as the muscles in the vagina etc contract.

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about 20 minutes ago, i went to the bathroom, and there was so much discharge! enough to fill up a bottle cap, no joke!
in my underwear i saw a whole big glop of it, and hanging from my vagina was a long string of it
i am so worried right now about this this is new and has never happened to me before...
im also in a foreign country with my dad, no mother, so thats really awkward
could it have been the traveling that caused this? because i have no idea and im worried i have an infection

ps: fourteen female>virgin!

RELAX. Change in frequency happens. It may also be a sign your period is due.
There's no need to worry. Only if it changes colour, is a thick lumpy consistency and produces a strong odour should you seek advice, as it could be an infection.
You're normal. :)

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My little sister is 9 now. But when she was 8 she got pregnant. It was a miracle that she and her baby made it through. Now she is pregnant with twins and I don't think it is good! She said she will not slow down and she will have a baby every year of her life! She says she loves being pregnant! My parents dont care. How do I get her to slow down.

These questions are getting really boring now.

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does taking lime after sex stop pregnancy?

noooooooooo no and no!

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ok....im 13 and pregnant i dont want to tell my family because i think they will be ashamed.I dont want to get an abortion because i think its wrong.I also dont want to give "it" up for adoption, because my friend was adopted and he doesent like it.I just really need some help.What should i do?

You can't hide being pregnant.
Your family probably will be very disappointed but I can guarantee they will help you through it and get over it given time.

I strongly suggest you tell them and this way you can think about your options.
You don't want an abortion and you wouldn't give it up for adoption? There's another thing you could do;
be a mother at 13 years of age.

Scary just thinking about it isn't it?
You can't deal with this on your own. At least tell an adult or drop by at a centre near you which deals with problems like this. Thee will be one if you do a bit of research and find out where.

Many young teens have been in this position and are currently in the same position as you, so you are not alone. but you do need to tell someone. and if you decide against abortion, you'll need regular check ups on the baby, so keep that in mind - you can't keep it a secret and hope it'll just go away.

Do the right thing...

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ok i want to dye my hair black with red streaks so can someone tell me how to do this cause i know that i can't dye the whole thing black and then do the red cause i know it won't show up

I recommend going to a salon, because you know it will be done properly :)
However, one way to do it is dye your hair black, bleach the streaks you want to be red and then dye over the blonde red.
Yes, it's lengthy. but it will work a treat.

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Am I skinny yet?

http://i12.tinypic.com/4dvpqtz.jpg

That's beyond a joke. and whoever this picture belongs too is at a SERIOUS health risk.



EDIT:
IT'S PEOPLE LIKE YOU WHO GIVE THIS SITE A BAD NAME. WHY EVEN ASK A QUESTION. WHY EVEN RATE MY ANSWER. YOU'RE A DISGRACE TO ADVICENATORS. GROW THE FUCK UP.

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what are some good quotes about being like young and crazy or living life to the fullest or always having fun(that arent too cheezy) that i could put on my myspace? or quotes about being young? thanks

Live fast, die fun


EDIT:
"or living life to the fullest or always having fun"

now why did i deserve to be rated a 2 again?

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what is something wich you can taste or anything after drinking alcohol so your parents, police can't tell you drank because of your breath ?? please tell m something that really works not like ..halls or anything lik that

You can try and mask the smell with bodyspray and gum which isn't minty? I can always tell when someone's been drinking and they try to disguise the smell with mints and other strong flavours. Infact, I think it makes it worse.
Apparently peanuts work. I've never personally tried it though.
Good luck!

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You know when you go to drug stores and there's always a cosmetic lady? Can you ask her for advice on what to buy for anything or just the face? I'm thinking hair too and stuff..sunblock for your face?

Of course. That's part of her job. and she'd be happy to help you choose the best items for you personally :)

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Hi. I don't really wear tank tops or anything because my armpit hair is kinda thick. When I shave it, it doesn't really look shaved. Am I shaving it wrong? How often should I shave? Etc. I don't want to know any kinds of products, just routines of shaving/after-shaving or any other tips.

I think your problem is your razor. Make sure it's sharp and shave against the hair growth.
Dry shave will probably work best, because water can clog up the blades.
If it still doesn't work for you, try hair removal creams or wax strips :)

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is playing with your clitoris to orgasm technically masturbating or no?

It is. It's probably the most common kind, too.

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Ok I wear pajamas to sleep but on tv and stuff I see girls wearing a tank top and some shorts.
Baby-ish? or am i old fashioned?

Key word: TV!
Wear what you feel comfortable in to bed.
Pyjamas are better for when the weather is very cold. and the short PJ style is better for summer.
I have the short style, but that's because personally, I hate sleeping in trousers :)

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i really want to get my lip & nose peirced like this:

http://img380.imageshack.us/img380/3166/venompoursfromurkissjt3.jpg

&

http://img354.imageshack.us/img354/2527/413068388ltn6.jpg

if youve had one of these do they hurt? be honest too.. & if u could describe how they did it? thanks. :]

oh & i just searched nose piercing on photobucket.com & i seen this ew;
http://img164.imageshack.us/img164/9840/ewwdudeiu0.jpg

that really scares me hahah.. what is that.. :\

thanks in advancee!



I've got my nostril pierced.
Getting it done was fine. Of course it stings for a short amount of time, but it's very bareable.
Cleaning it was a doddle too.
But there's one thing you must look out for.
It's called a nostril bump.. and 5 months down the line, I still have mine. They're hard to get rid of, but they don't exactly pose a threat to the piercing. It will go away... eventually.
So if you get it done and see a red bump forming next to your piercing which looks like a pimple, don't fret.
Use tea tree oil to clean it and it disappears after a while.
Don't let the "pain" scare you away :)!

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Is it possible to get pregnant through clothes? i dont just mean underwear, but through our underdwear, jeans, and his pants. my period wont come also, and im really nervous. but thats as far as he and i have gone. please answer men asap because im terrified.

18/f

Absolutely not. Worrying will make your period later. It's normal for them to be irregular the first few years :) Or it could be stress/change of diet and a number of other factors. Check with your doctor if you feel it's necessary.

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Hey can you give me on your opinion if it's ok to wear a white dress like this for a grad or prom? aand why or why not, pros and cons? I not many people don't wear white dresses to a grad but the colour gives off an innocent look..
http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r155/wind_miko/kr_myname_album.gif

I love it. I think it would be fine to wear to either. So what if it's white? Doesn't make it look like a wedding dress or whatever.
I like the look and you could team it up with so many accessories. The layers are also really pretty. Great for that alternative look and yes, it does have an innocent feel to it! and it's quite original.
I'd definitely wear it, and I think you should go for it too :)

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ok im rly worried, im 14 with 6 1/2 inches of love,.and am uncircumcised, no one really knows but my parents, and i dont know any of the advantages and risks, and i have a long distant relationship with a girl and im goin up to see her soon, and im afraid she will want to have sex,..But i will be to embarrassed, im really self concious, and dont know what she will think, Can i get some information from girls who have had uncircumcised sex, and what the advantages and disadvantages are?..

I know of ONE person who IS circumsized. Hardly anyone here in England is, unless it's for religious or health reasons.
So I'm guessing you aren't from the UK :P
Don't worry, there's absolutely nothing wrong with being uncircumcised. The only thing you'll need to do is make sure you're good with hygiene! ;]

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Ok, so lets start out by im 14/f. I started my period 2 or 3 months ago. Now, i have this stuff in my underwear or hanging down from my vagina that is like jello, accepy clear. Its sticky and smells like pee. What is this and what is causing it? Should i go to the docter or am i fine?

It's discharge. You're fine :)
Only make an appt with your doc if it turns a different colour (darker yellow/green) and has a strong odour, as you might have a slight infection.
Discharge can also vary in consistancy and frequency, so if you're having more than normal, it's still fine.

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i have a bf and we have been goin out 4 2 weeks now but there is this guy in my pe class at scholl who i really like i dunno which 1 to choose please help????
if i stay with my bf is it still ok to flirt with the other guy alot???
what do i do please help!!!!

Would your boyfriend really want you flirting with the other guy alot? I can guarantee it would bother him in some way.
If you're willing to stay with this boy but still flirt with the other, perhaps you like him more than your boyfriend at the moment? I'm guessing you're in your early teens and all this relationship business is really confusing for someone at your age, so I'm sure many people on this site can relate to you in some way.
Seeing as you've only been going out with him 2 weeks, you're young and it's nothing serious, do what you personally want to and who you think will be the better boyfriend.
We can't choose for you because we don't know these boys in person.
But if you like the other boy, don't be afraid to break it off with your boyfriend because you don't want to hurt him. It's better to do it in the early stages (if that's what you want) than leave it longer and risk hurting him more. :)

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