i have a bf and we have been goin out 4 2 weeks now but there is this guy in my pe class at scholl who i really like i dunno which 1 to choose please help????
if i stay with my bf is it still ok to flirt with the other guy alot???
what do i do please help!!!!
thelaura answered Sunday March 11 2007, 10:20 am: Would your boyfriend really want you flirting with the other guy alot? I can guarantee it would bother him in some way.
If you're willing to stay with this boy but still flirt with the other, perhaps you like him more than your boyfriend at the moment? I'm guessing you're in your early teens and all this relationship business is really confusing for someone at your age, so I'm sure many people on this site can relate to you in some way.
Seeing as you've only been going out with him 2 weeks, you're young and it's nothing serious, do what you personally want to and who you think will be the better boyfriend.
We can't choose for you because we don't know these boys in person.
But if you like the other boy, don't be afraid to break it off with your boyfriend because you don't want to hurt him. It's better to do it in the early stages (if that's what you want) than leave it longer and risk hurting him more. :) [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
lilmissblondiex3 answered Sunday March 11 2007, 10:12 am: hey!
okay well if you cant decide between the two try to think about which one you like more. if you likee them both equally than either stay with your boyfriend because it is easier to stay with him than try to start a new relationship with someone else or you can make a list about the two of them. right your boyfriends name at the top of a sheet of paper and then write down all of his good qualities that you love about him. then draw a line and right down all of his bad qualities that you cant stand. do the same for the guy in your PE class. then compare their good qualities and decide which one has qualities that mean more to you. and which one has bad qualites that juat absolutely make you want to throw him off of a cliff. however if you still really cant decide. stay with your boyfriend. because it is def. wayyyyyy easier to stay with him rather than starting a new relationship. and it is okay to flirt with the other guy. just maybe tone it down a little bit. because think about hwo you would feel if your boyfriend was off flirting w ith other girls.
good luck!
hope i helped!
xoxoxo [ lilmissblondiex3's advice column | Ask lilmissblondiex3 A Question ]
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